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Hardly. People don't hate him but he's very clearly trying hard to be a "woke" Gen Z man and it comes off as grating and probably not very genuine. When he goes off on his dad and grandpa about The Godfather, it was soooooo cringey. And I'm on his side (though I love the Godfather, personally, but yes it's also a male fantasy). But listening to some 22 year old who was recently talking about how women his age don't seem to want "nice guys" explain feminism is just.... ugh. He's trying to impress Portia but the most impressive thing he could do would be to ask her what SHE thinks or politely disagree with his dad/grandpa without trying to use it as an opportunity to prove his feminist bona fides. It just feels like he's working awfully hard to convince Portia that he's one of the good guys. It's guys like that who always get the most angry when you turn them down because they feel they did everything they were "supposed" to do and didn't get what their cookie as a reward. It's tiresome and I'm glad my DH isn't like that. |
Oh wow. I can't believe it. I just rewatched it too and he does say Harper. I could have SWORN I heard Aubrey!!! How could I have been so wrong? Sorry! |
He’s the poster child for the effeminate, SJW, non athlete, over educated confused American Gen z/millennial boy. |
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“Ethan was the original incel”. That was quite the quote from a college friend in night 1.
Love the grandpa telling it like it is straightforwardly- drain the sack, it’s natural, I’m virile. And the adult grandson saying junk ages badly… it’s a p, not a subset |
| It’s funny how many of you are triggered by Ethan’s comment about women not wanting “nice guys.” For women his age, that’s more true than not. Women often (not always) grow out of it, but I know quite a few that did it too late. |
Albie and no one is triggered. It’s just we’ve all met nice guys like Albie who lament that women don’t seem to want nice guys. They think since they are nice, and they are single, then girls don’t want nice guys. But it’s just that the particular women they have met/dated/been interested in didn’t want them. A woman who likes nice guys does not automatically want every nice guy she meets. People need attraction and that doesn’t apply to entire categories like “nice guys.” Also, IME, there is a difference between a guy who is kind and respectful and interested in me as a person (who I might describe as nice fir possessing those qualities) and a guy who is simply polite and tries not to be a huge ahole or a misogynist. Like a lot of guys think that simply by not being jerks they are “nice” and women should flock to them, but a lot of us have higher standards than that. |
I interpreted the scene as her feeling gawked at and objectified by men. Obviously in real life it’s not the swarm that was shown but I think many of us know that feeling that there are just eyes on you kind of checking you out. It can make you feel vulnerable and self conscious. In the scene later she says she was tripping out on being a woman last time she had an edible and I think she does have some discomfort with what it is to be a woman in this world. I think this episode focused a lot on the differences between men and women, our roles and how we relate to each other. It seemed like this scene was worked in to show one of those dynamics that occur between men and women. Harper feels discomfort in a way Daphne might not because Harper lives in a world where her marriage is equitable and her husband is a true peer and equal. Daphne is very sure of the innate differences between men and women but is relieved to be a woman; she doesn’t want to be a lone bull elephant. |
That’s interesting. The scene actual reminded me of what it felt like walking around Italy as a young female. The men come at you from everywhere, usually in pairs. |
Why are you body shaming her? Comment on her fashion choices, fine. No need for the body comments. |
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Hmmmm gender studies 101 |
You must have a lot of self hate. |
| Michael Imperioli was being interviewed on NPR today about his character in White Lotus 2. I was getting out of the car and just heard the beginning. His take was that the grandfather was unapologetic about his behavior--that it was what men did and it didn't mean anything because he only loved his wife. He said his character felt the same early on and was a big compartmentalizer, but he is now feeling shame and guilt right after giving in. He no longer thinks what he is doing is ok. He is really struggling. He was beginning to speak about the differences in generations...I have to find the recording to listen to the whole interview. |
That's her body ok?! |