What's the biggest secret you're keeping from your SO?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When we do it doggie style I often think it's someone other than my DH....and I love my DH! Am I normal? Of course I do wonder what my DH is thinking about too!

That's the main reason I do it doggie style! I don't have to look at my husband.

I wonder if this is pretty common?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That I fantasize regularly about an ex who was hot, hugely endowed and good in bed. And, that I was still sleeping with the ex regularly a year into dating DH. I run into the ex occasionally and I'd never cheat, but I've certainly fantasized about it.

This is pretty bad, right?

fantasizing about an ex is fine but the second part that is totally f*cked up and the third part is a dangerous game you're playing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That I fantasize regularly about an ex who was hot, hugely endowed and good in bed. And, that I was still sleeping with the ex regularly a year into dating DH. I run into the ex occasionally and I'd never cheat, but I've certainly fantasized about it.

This is pretty bad, right?

fantasizing about an ex is fine but the second part that is totally f*cked up and the third part is a dangerous game you're playing.

The first year DH and I were dating it was long distance and he didn't want to commit. The ex was amazing in bed and I didn't want to give him up unless it was for something serious.

As far as running into the ex - I've only bumped into him a few times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That I was not really born into his culture. My parents are dead and I have no siblings or relatives I'm in contact with. DH wanted a girl from his culture and I wanted him, so I lied. His fault for being stupid enough to let something as stupid as "blood" almost come between us.

What culture? Jewish? I'm having a hard time imagining many cultures where you could make this work because you're last name at least would often give you away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When we do it doggie style I often think it's someone other than my DH....and I love my DH! Am I normal? Of course I do wonder what my DH is thinking about too!

That's the main reason I do it doggie style! I don't have to look at my husband.

I wonder if this is pretty common?

Of course it's very common.

[Anonymous]

I'll never tell my wife I know she visits and posts on DCUM

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When we do it doggie style I often think it's someone other than my DH....and I love my DH! Am I normal? Of course I do wonder what my DH is thinking about too!

That's the main reason I do it doggie style! I don't have to look at my husband.

I wonder if this is pretty common?

Of course it's very common.

Just don't call out another persons' name.

[Anonymous]

I got a blowjob from a woman I met at Starbucks.

[Anonymous]

I've cheated with 3 men I met at bars.

[Anonymous]

I have a self storage locker where I keep dozens of guns I've bought without telling her. They're in a safe in the locker. I've probably accumulated about $75,000 worth of expensive rifles and handguns.

I did this because I live in DC at the moment and I can't keep them here, but the locker is in VA, and I still keep part time residency in VA, so I'm able to buy guns there.

I'll tell her when we move to a state again. I think she'll be ok with it, unless she figures out what they're actually worth

[Anonymous]

I cycle steroids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That the father of our 4yo DD is my former AP and not my DH. I ended and ghosted my AP before he knew I was pregnant and my DH never suspecting anything. I'm not telling.

This is why I feel paternity tests should be mandatory at birth. You can always get one and I did and will again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I cycle steroids

Does she love the muscles?

[Anonymous]

That I met my current AP on dcum.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:That he is terrible in bed and has a small penis. I say this in all honesty as someone who loves him dearly.

Ugh, same

ugh, also same