I think the school has a name and a good idea on a lead. Russell is failure and MPD people are passive aggressive lazys that are not sharp to being with. GDS is clueless and MPD sucks at investigating anything unless there is a dead body. I can understand why this feels hopeless because the people you entrusted your most important thing with failed from A to Z and their pathetic letter is a testament how disingenuous these people really are that we entrust our most import thing with. |
It’s ironic that someone using the term “spectrum” to make an argument has framed things in such a way that anyone who doesn’t believe that 100% of what the parents have alleged, believe 0% of it. I’ve talked to lots of fellow GDS parents since Thursday and all of us are somewhere in between. And we all feel heartbroken for this family, no matter where we happen to be on the belief spectrum. |
Not at all. PP posited that a false accusation was possible but couldn't comprehend that a cover up was also possible. If you play the odds in this scenario... |
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There is a lot of rumor and speculation here, but as GDS parent I heard there was no suspect. No leads. Camera footage /security tape would have been helpful by the bathrooms. In hindsight, it seems obvious to have more security cameras.
I also want to say that i can’t be quick to jump to any conclusions. I believe the 11 year old boy suffered a trauma, and something happened. Even if it was uncorroborated, I think there were other ways Russell could have communicated in his emails that might have seemed less victim blaming. It all seems very out of the norm though. GDS is a nurturing, loving community where my kid who is shy and might have been bullied at anothrr school has thrived. It is a placd where offbeat nerdy kids can feel at home, and artsy kids who love social justice. That is the vibe. I have not seen a culture of bullying. This is why this is so shocking to me, and horrifying to read. I just have to believe if something happened, it was an outsider who entered the campus. |
Odds are that it’s neither a false accusation nor a cover up. |
I agree. Which is why the school's response seems not optimal. |
| What evidence could the police or independent investigator (assuming the best of intentions and expertise) have found to substantiate the allegations, three to four months later? |
Goodness you sound truly unhinged |
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I’m horrified - an 11 year old boy would not make this up. There is no benefit for him to do so. I’m not affiliated with GDS but maybe the perpetrators were not students.
In the future, parents should 100% go to the police first, just like in college sexual assault cases. Schools have shown time and time again they don’t care about victims, just liability. Not blaming the victim - GDS administration seems cruel and inept. |
| Please tell us what GDS (or any other school in this type of situation) acting properly would have looked like, when the parents reported last February. |
Assuming that GDS is concerned about liability - which they would be given all the high powered attorney parents - GDS would have expelled or counseled out any student strongly suspected of committing this crime for fear of the students doing this again. The fact that, as far as we know, no one has been expelled or counseled out suggests that there really is no clear suspect. GDS would be more motivated to find these students and get rid of them than to keep them precisely because of liability, which suggests that they would do everything in their legal power to cooperate with investigators to find these alleged perpetrators. The fact that both the police and the independent investigators found no one does not suggest a cover up. |
+1000. Poster of the sick rant above: please get out of your basement and get some help. Kids, including mine, seem to be getting into “top 40” colleges at the same rate as previous years and other private schools in the city. So my guess is that your calls to colleges have had zero impact, as anyone sane would have anticipated. I actually would take you a bit more seriously. The unhinged incoherence of your post suggests you might even be a threat to the GDS community, someone who wishes real harm on parents and students alike and actually takes actions to cause harm. Get help for yourself before you end up doing something you truly regret. |
DP: YOU lost all your credibility with that second paragraph of projection |
+1. |
Oh really? This is a poster who by her own admission, has been calling colleges for 2 months badmouthing GDS and its students. That meets any reasonable definition of taking action to cause harm. Projecting much yourself, or are you just the original obsessive ranter? |