To my husband’s work AP

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Is AP pregnant? Her spouse should know then.

She's pregnant but apparently it's her husbands, not OPs dh.

They did a fetal paternity test? No hanky panky for a month? Or how apparently?

*shrug* ask OP. I still doubt the married hot 20-something is f***ing and/or pregnant by OPs old ass DH.

Some of you on this thread really have zero idea how a man in his 50s might be attractive to a woman in her 20s and you love making assumptions about what he looks like as well as assuming she's so "hot" she'd never have sex with someone older. You're actually pretty naive as well as prone to stereotyping. And you ignore the fact there might be some power dynamics at play here between them. You can only imagine that 20s equals hot and 50s equals "old ass" and unable to get it up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Jeffs blog post today seems to confirm that OP IS the author of the previous thread (50 year old dude and 20 something married pregnant business partner).

Interesting development!

It was obvious when OP kept repeatedly evading the question on this thread.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is AP pregnant? Her spouse should know then.

She's pregnant but apparently it's her husbands, not OPs dh.

They did a fetal paternity test? No hanky panky for a month? Or how apparently?

*shrug* ask OP. I still doubt the married hot 20-something is f***ing and/or pregnant by OPs old ass DH.

Some of you on this thread really have zero idea how a man in his 50s might be attractive to a woman in her 20s and you love making assumptions about what he looks like as well as assuming she's so "hot" she'd never have sex with someone older. You're actually pretty naive as well as prone to stereotyping. And you ignore the fact there might be some power dynamics at play here between them. You can only imagine that 20s equals hot and 50s equals "old ass" and unable to get it up.

LOL. Are you a 50-something trying to pretend you're still hot? Gross lol.

Give it a rest. OP called the 20-something hot. She did not call her 50+ DH hot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You two work together. You should know after all these years that he’s sloppy and can be less than thorough when he’s distracted.

I found evidence of your affair from your recent work trip and dug deeper to find screenshots and other useful material. It really wasn’t even that hard. You chose to gamble your future on a fool who doesn’t cover his tracks. Like I said, after the myriad of hours you spend talking and the years you’ve worked together, you should know how he is.

I’m going to share these with your husband. I don’t know when yet. I’m sitting on it and deciding. Your home situation is delicate right now, and I know this is the last thing you need. I’m going to enjoy it. Your poor husband. He has no idea. He seems like a nice man too.

Hope it was worth it. Good luck.

Good, do it. And if your kids are launched let Hr know too.

She probably thinks she can nurse and mommy him and the deficients don’t bother her much now, the careless free affair days. Whilst you hold down the fort and steer the ship.

Dump that messy fort of his and haphazard ship on her lap.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good for you OP. Actions have consequences. let her burn. Make sure you burn your husband also though.

+1

Did you see a lawyer already and verify if yours in a state that recognizes adultery via more compensation for your distress and embarrassment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Going scorched earth always seems more enticing in theory than it is in reality. It tends to ruin everything, including for the people who wanted to go down that path in the first place. Destroying your DH’s career may be short-sighted if you or your children need his income or health insurance. Not to mention the impact it will have on your kids, if you have any. I get that you’re hurt but take a breath and give some thought about how you really need to play this.

Is college refunded? Already paid for?
Kids out of the house- no child support risk?

If so blast away and get your 50-75% due to the cheating

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Jeffs blog post today seems to confirm that OP IS the author of the previous thread (50 year old dude and 20 something married pregnant business partner).

Interesting development!

It was obvious when OP kept repeatedly evading the question on this thread.

And whether she has kids.

Troll alert.

[Anonymous]

I'm really sorry OP. Getting cheated on sucks. However this plays out in the short-term, I hope you move on a build a great life for yourself from here

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is AP pregnant? Her spouse should know then.

She's pregnant but apparently it's her husbands, not OPs dh.

They did a fetal paternity test? No hanky panky for a month? Or how apparently?

*shrug* ask OP. I still doubt the married hot 20-something is f***ing and/or pregnant by OPs old ass DH.

Some of you on this thread really have zero idea how a man in his 50s might be attractive to a woman in her 20s and you love making assumptions about what he looks like as well as assuming she's so "hot" she'd never have sex with someone older. You're actually pretty naive as well as prone to stereotyping. And you ignore the fact there might be some power dynamics at play here between them. You can only imagine that 20s equals hot and 50s equals "old ass" and unable to get it up.

LOL. Are you a 50-something trying to pretend you're still hot? Gross lol.

Give it a rest. OP called the 20-something hot. She did not call her 50+ DH hot.

That person wants to believe a 20-something hot woman is chasing a 50+yo old guy for his body. Unless you have $$$, no 20+yo woman is chasing your 50+yo a$$ for your looks. The average guy in his 50s, doesn't look like Clooney or Pitt when they were in their 50s. No 20-something woman is checking you out in your 50s (mid-40s, too), unless she has an idea regarding your checking account.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is AP pregnant? Her spouse should know then.

She's pregnant but apparently it's her husbands, not OPs dh.

If OP here is OP of the other thread we've been discussing--and Jeff checked and said it's the same OP, according to a post above--the AP is pregnant, and in the other thread, the OP said the baby is the AP's husband's child.

But unless there was a fetal test done, how on Earth would AP or anyone know for certain?

If the AP and her DH were trying to get pregnant, then she was off any birth control. Even if AP and OP's cheater husband used condoms during that time, well, condoms are only about 87 percent effective at preventing pregnancy (with typical use; they're more effective if used perfectly every time, but that's not "typical" use, according to Planned Parenthood).

Really wondering if the OP found texts or emails where the AP tries to reassure cheater that the baby can't be his but must be her DH's baby.

Maybe OP’s DH had a vasectomy???!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is AP pregnant? Her spouse should know then.

She's pregnant but apparently it's her husbands, not OPs dh.

They did a fetal paternity test? No hanky panky for a month? Or how apparently?

*shrug* ask OP. I still doubt the married hot 20-something is f***ing and/or pregnant by OPs old ass DH.

Some of you on this thread really have zero idea how a man in his 50s might be attractive to a woman in her 20s and you love making assumptions about what he looks like as well as assuming she's so "hot" she'd never have sex with someone older. You're actually pretty naive as well as prone to stereotyping. And you ignore the fact there might be some power dynamics at play here between them. You can only imagine that 20s equals hot and 50s equals "old ass" and unable to get it up.

LOL. Are you a 50-something trying to pretend you're still hot? Gross lol.

Give it a rest. OP called the 20-something hot. She did not call her 50+ DH hot.

I'm too old to use "LOL" like a wannabe teen, but nope, not male, not 50-something, and not as naive as you clearly are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is AP pregnant? Her spouse should know then.

She's pregnant but apparently it's her husbands, not OPs dh.

They did a fetal paternity test? No hanky panky for a month? Or how apparently?

*shrug* ask OP. I still doubt the married hot 20-something is f***ing and/or pregnant by OPs old ass DH.

Some of you on this thread really have zero idea how a man in his 50s might be attractive to a woman in her 20s and you love making assumptions about what he looks like as well as assuming she's so "hot" she'd never have sex with someone older. You're actually pretty naive as well as prone to stereotyping. And you ignore the fact there might be some power dynamics at play here between them. You can only imagine that 20s equals hot and 50s equals "old ass" and unable to get it up.

LOL. Are you a 50-something trying to pretend you're still hot? Gross lol.

Give it a rest. OP called the 20-something hot. She did not call her 50+ DH hot.

That person wants to believe a 20-something hot woman is chasing a 50+yo old guy for his body. Unless you have $$$, no 20+yo woman is chasing your 50+yo a$$ for your looks. The average guy in his 50s, doesn't look like Clooney or Pitt when they were in their 50s. No 20-something woman is checking you out in your 50s (mid-40s, too), unless she has an idea regarding your checking account.

That person thinks you do not comprehend that hot bodies are not the only reason people screw. But an explanation of things like power dynamics between APs would be lost on you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is AP pregnant? Her spouse should know then.

She's pregnant but apparently it's her husbands, not OPs dh.

If OP here is OP of the other thread we've been discussing--and Jeff checked and said it's the same OP, according to a post above--the AP is pregnant, and in the other thread, the OP said the baby is the AP's husband's child.

But unless there was a fetal test done, how on Earth would AP or anyone know for certain?

If the AP and her DH were trying to get pregnant, then she was off any birth control. Even if AP and OP's cheater husband used condoms during that time, well, condoms are only about 87 percent effective at preventing pregnancy (with typical use; they're more effective if used perfectly every time, but that's not "typical" use, according to Planned Parenthood).

Really wondering if the OP found texts or emails where the AP tries to reassure cheater that the baby can't be his but must be her DH's baby.

Maybe OP’s DH had a vasectomy???!

Makes sense, that would be reason for OP to assume the baby isn't his.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is AP pregnant? Her spouse should know then.

She's pregnant but apparently it's her husbands, not OPs dh.

They did a fetal paternity test? No hanky panky for a month? Or how apparently?

*shrug* ask OP. I still doubt the married hot 20-something is f***ing and/or pregnant by OPs old ass DH.

Some of you on this thread really have zero idea how a man in his 50s might be attractive to a woman in her 20s and you love making assumptions about what he looks like as well as assuming she's so "hot" she'd never have sex with someone older. You're actually pretty naive as well as prone to stereotyping. And you ignore the fact there might be some power dynamics at play here between them. You can only imagine that 20s equals hot and 50s equals "old ass" and unable to get it up.

LOL. Are you a 50-something trying to pretend you're still hot? Gross lol.

Give it a rest. OP called the 20-something hot. She did not call her 50+ DH hot.

I'm too old to use "LOL" like a wannabe teen, but nope, not male, not 50-something, and not as naive as you clearly are.

Were you a 20-something f***ing old ass losers in their 50's? Speaking from experience are we? Stop being delulu and get a grip. This is not common at all, and it's pretty gross from the younger persons POV.

[Anonymous]

OP get your ducks in a row and rat out AP to her hubby so he can start wondering about the fetal origins and divorce her. Hey maybe he can skip support.