What's Behind the Rise of Lonely, Single Men

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Anonymous wrote:Like all DCUM posts, what started as thoughtful posts on pages 1-3 turned into man-haters and misogynists yelling at each other for the rest of the thread....

there is a massive rise in lonely, single people in the USA. Men and women. Massive numbers of women who want to be married with kids that aren't. That becomes a demographic problem which is a long-term issue. The problem with lonely single men becomes a violence problem which is a problem now.

It is a problem. But I have two boys and I actually blame women partly for not holding them to higher standards when raising them. Unfortunately, there are a lot of men that were not raised well by their mom or dad and are just living poor lives and then someone like Trump comes along and says hey it's another gender's fault you aren't well-liked and don't have a job or a good job rather than say China competing with them or their lazy behavior and so they all jump on the bandwagon.

They are your kids. Why didn’t you raise them better?

I meant the boys who grow up to be lonely single men. I meant boys in general and saying I have boys so I follow their friends and boys around the nation. There is a lot of push from both women and men not to gain skills or to manage behavior.

the man who shot up the school in MO said he did so because he had no family, no friends, no GF.

People in general need need a social circle, whether it's one person or several. And this applies to men and women, but women don't generally become violent because of their loneliness.

But then dont you think it would benefit men to have better groups they could belong to? Build up America or something? Learn some interpersonal skills and talk about other things beyond abusing and hating women and doing drugs and video games?

oh absolutely. But, how do you force young men to do that? There are groups that you can join to go do things together like Habitat for Humanity; churches; hobbies, activities... but how do you force a guy to go join those groups?

Not sure. They were all for build the wall but not the infrastructure bill. Not a man. Hopefully some man other than the incel can come up with a plan.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:Like all DCUM posts, what started as thoughtful posts on pages 1-3 turned into man-haters and misogynists yelling at each other for the rest of the thread....

there is a massive rise in lonely, single people in the USA. Men and women. Massive numbers of women who want to be married with kids that aren't. That becomes a demographic problem which is a long-term issue. The problem with lonely single men becomes a violence problem which is a problem now.

It is a problem. But I have two boys and I actually blame women partly for not holding them to higher standards when raising them. Unfortunately, there are a lot of men that were not raised well by their mom or dad and are just living poor lives and then someone like Trump comes along and says hey it's another gender's fault you aren't well-liked and don't have a job or a good job rather than say China competing with them or their lazy behavior and so they all jump on the bandwagon.

They are your kids. Why didn’t you raise them better?

I meant the boys who grow up to be lonely single men. I meant boys in general and saying I have boys so I follow their friends and boys around the nation. There is a lot of push from both women and men not to gain skills or to manage behavior.

the man who shot up the school in MO said he did so because he had no family, no friends, no GF.

People in general need need a social circle, whether it's one person or several. And this applies to men and women, but women don't generally become violent because of their loneliness.

But then dont you think it would benefit men to have better groups they could belong to? Build up America or something? Learn some interpersonal skills and talk about other things beyond abusing and hating women and doing drugs and video games?

How about women do more than shopping and laying on their backs for a free meal?

how about men stop blaming women for all their problems?

-signed a woman who hates shopping

My favorite on this post was the blame for the boy scout demise. A group for only men till recently

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Like all DCUM posts, what started as thoughtful posts on pages 1-3 turned into man-haters and misogynists yelling at each other for the rest of the thread....

there is a massive rise in lonely, single people in the USA. Men and women. Massive numbers of women who want to be married with kids that aren't. That becomes a demographic problem which is a long-term issue. The problem with lonely single men becomes a violence problem which is a problem now.

It is a problem. But I have two boys and I actually blame women partly for not holding them to higher standards when raising them. Unfortunately, there are a lot of men that were not raised well by their mom or dad and are just living poor lives and then someone like Trump comes along and says hey it's another gender's fault you aren't well-liked and don't have a job or a good job rather than say China competing with them or their lazy behavior and so they all jump on the bandwagon.

They are your kids. Why didn’t you raise them better?

I meant the boys who grow up to be lonely single men. I meant boys in general and saying I have boys so I follow their friends and boys around the nation. There is a lot of push from both women and men not to gain skills or to manage behavior.

the man who shot up the school in MO said he did so because he had no family, no friends, no GF.

People in general need need a social circle, whether it's one person or several. And this applies to men and women, but women don't generally become violent because of their loneliness.

But then dont you think it would benefit men to have better groups they could belong to? Build up America or something? Learn some interpersonal skills and talk about other things beyond abusing and hating women and doing drugs and video games?

How about women do more than shopping and laying on their backs for a free meal?

how about men stop blaming women for all their problems?

-signed a woman who hates shopping

Ok, as soon as women stop blaming men for all their disappointments.

[Anonymous]

Is the incel finally gone? 🫣

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Like all DCUM posts, what started as thoughtful posts on pages 1-3 turned into man-haters and misogynists yelling at each other for the rest of the thread....

there is a massive rise in lonely, single people in the USA. Men and women. Massive numbers of women who want to be married with kids that aren't. That becomes a demographic problem which is a long-term issue. The problem with lonely single men becomes a violence problem which is a problem now.

It is a problem. But I have two boys and I actually blame women partly for not holding them to higher standards when raising them. Unfortunately, there are a lot of men that were not raised well by their mom or dad and are just living poor lives and then someone like Trump comes along and says hey it's another gender's fault you aren't well-liked and don't have a job or a good job rather than say China competing with them or their lazy behavior and so they all jump on the bandwagon.

They are your kids. Why didn’t you raise them better?

I meant the boys who grow up to be lonely single men. I meant boys in general and saying I have boys so I follow their friends and boys around the nation. There is a lot of push from both women and men not to gain skills or to manage behavior.

the man who shot up the school in MO said he did so because he had no family, no friends, no GF.

People in general need need a social circle, whether it's one person or several. And this applies to men and women, but women don't generally become violent because of their loneliness.

But then dont you think it would benefit men to have better groups they could belong to? Build up America or something? Learn some interpersonal skills and talk about other things beyond abusing and hating women and doing drugs and video games?

How about women do more than shopping and laying on their backs for a free meal?

how about men stop blaming women for all their problems?

-signed a woman who hates shopping

Ok, as soon as women stop blaming men for all their disappointments.

Such as not being safe people and being treated like a human?

I'm sure there are more lonely single women but no one yet cares about them and is writing about them. So not sure what you are talking about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Like all DCUM posts, what started as thoughtful posts on pages 1-3 turned into man-haters and misogynists yelling at each other for the rest of the thread....

there is a massive rise in lonely, single people in the USA. Men and women. Massive numbers of women who want to be married with kids that aren't. That becomes a demographic problem which is a long-term issue. The problem with lonely single men becomes a violence problem which is a problem now.

It is a problem. But I have two boys and I actually blame women partly for not holding them to higher standards when raising them. Unfortunately, there are a lot of men that were not raised well by their mom or dad and are just living poor lives and then someone like Trump comes along and says hey it's another gender's fault you aren't well-liked and don't have a job or a good job rather than say China competing with them or their lazy behavior and so they all jump on the bandwagon.

They are your kids. Why didn’t you raise them better?

I meant the boys who grow up to be lonely single men. I meant boys in general and saying I have boys so I follow their friends and boys around the nation. There is a lot of push from both women and men not to gain skills or to manage behavior.

the man who shot up the school in MO said he did so because he had no family, no friends, no GF.

People in general need need a social circle, whether it's one person or several. And this applies to men and women, but women don't generally become violent because of their loneliness.

But then dont you think it would benefit men to have better groups they could belong to? Build up America or something? Learn some interpersonal skills and talk about other things beyond abusing and hating women and doing drugs and video games?

oh absolutely. But, how do you force young men to do that? There are groups that you can join to go do things together like Habitat for Humanity; churches; hobbies, activities... but how do you force a guy to go join those groups?

Not sure. They were all for build the wall but not the infrastructure bill. Not a man. Hopefully some man other than the incel can come up with a plan.

Why do you think men aren't for the infrastructure bill? More construction jobs for men right?