Furries are fetishists. Another analogy would be throuples. In each case, I don't think they should be criminalized, but I am more than happy to enforce the societal taboo against them. There's nothing special about gross age gaps. It's one of many gross things I will judge. |
Uh, no. I posted about the same thing happening in LA. We weren't low quality women. We went to a very expensive school that has a low acceptance rate. When we went out on the weekend, we met guys in their late twenties who paid for everything if we ended up dating any of them. We met older guys too, but nobody was interested in them. We got invited to house parties that were catered with bar tenders. When we hung out with guys our own age, we typically paid for ourselves. So, we did both. The only friend I had in college that was in an actual sugar baby arrangement with a much older man was a gay male who I suspect was working through some trouble, but I couldn't say for sure. |
So what else can we not judge using this logic? Being a sex worker? You can *never* judge if both parties are consenting adults? Nah. |
Sorry but decent men with a solid foundation aren't interested in club/bar women. Doesn't matter what the educational level is. Solid people know if you're hanging around just to get drinks, and "everything" paid for. |
Not at all. They are probably in a elder abuse situation if any. Often they get pregnant to secure their future even if the old guy doesn't marry them. |
Exploiting low self esteem? Time to raise the pitchforks for the entire women's make-up and fashion industry! And the sports car industry for men. |
At 30 she's no dummy. Hope you're using birth control gramps, or got a vasectomy. My friends husband got his AP pregnant though she swore she was on the pill. He makes great money and she gets a nice check each month. At 30 it's about the lifestyle for her pp. |
Uh yeah, we are in the middle of a massive re-evaluation about exactly those things, did you just wake up from a 5 year long nap? |
This is hardly unique to 30+ set. I know someone who, at 28, found himself on the business end of a paternity test by way of his 22 yr old girlfriend. One of my classmates in law school. |
Are we supposed to be sympathetic to these men? Sex leads to pregnancy leads to a need for support. When you have sex this is always a risk, even if “she said she was on the pill.” |
The question is why judge younger women and older men? Sex work, fetishes and other forms of sexual expression would seem to deserve a separate thread. I'm a man in his 50s and if I were to divorce I could not see myself dating someone younger than their 40s. But if another guy or a friend wants to, it would not be something that I would judge. MYOB seems to be warranted here. |
Then you can mind your business and I'll keep judging all of the above. |
When I was 18-22 years old, I could care less about decent men with a solid foundation. I cared about getting good grades at school and having fun on the weekends. I wasn't in that frame of mind until I was much older. If I had gone to undergrad in a small New England town, I am sure I would have had a different college experience. Somehow I still went to law school, married a decent man I met there and am living a solid UMC lifestyle now. My best friend went to dental school and married a doctor. College in LA or Miami is not the same as college in Hanover or Amherst. |
But why? Why judge a man for being with a younger woman, but not if he is with another man? |
Why the hell would I judge someone for being born gay?!?!?! How offensive, to compare that to being an old lecherous creep. |