Why so much disgust felt towards men for dating significantly younger?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why should I feel guilty about being in love with a woman 30 years younger than me? And if that's truly wrong, tell me how to stop being in love with my much younger girlfriend.

I agree. If loving younger women is wrong, I do t want to be right. Old man with a vasectomy, loving my life. Keep hating. None of us care.

Nothing more useless from a biological prospective. I hope that at least you have a generous and large bank account.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why should I feel guilty about being in love with a woman 30 years younger than me? And if that's truly wrong, tell me how to stop being in love with my much younger girlfriend.

I agree. If loving younger women is wrong, I do t want to be right. Old man with a vasectomy, loving my life. Keep hating. None of us care.

Nothing more useless from a biological prospective.

Not everyone feels the need to reproduce.

I hope that at least you have a generous and large bank account.

No you don’t.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why should I feel guilty about being in love with a woman 30 years younger than me? And if that's truly wrong, tell me how to stop being in love with my much younger girlfriend.

I agree. If loving younger women is wrong, I do t want to be right. Old man with a vasectomy, loving my life. Keep hating. None of us care.

Nothing more useless from a biological prospective. I hope that at least you have a generous and large bank account.

I'm useless because I'm done having children and can't get a woman pregnant? You are insane and your attempt at insulting me has failed miserably. I don't date women who want to get pregnant and they love that they don't have to worry about it or deal with BC.

I don't have a large bank account and I do just fine. A generous bank account?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why should I feel guilty about being in love with a woman 30 years younger than me? And if that's truly wrong, tell me how to stop being in love with my much younger girlfriend.

I agree. If loving younger women is wrong, I do t want to be right. Old man with a vasectomy, loving my life. Keep hating. None of us care.

Nothing more useless from a biological prospective. I hope that at least you have a generous and large bank account.

That's crazy talk. From a biological perspective, men work and protect until the day they die. Haven't you seen all the old men in Ukraine fighting for freedom?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why should I feel guilty about being in love with a woman 30 years younger than me? And if that's truly wrong, tell me how to stop being in love with my much younger girlfriend.

I agree. If loving younger women is wrong, I do t want to be right. Old man with a vasectomy, loving my life. Keep hating. None of us care.

Nothing more useless from a biological prospective. I hope that at least you have a generous and large bank account.

That's crazy talk. From a biological perspective, men work and protect until the day they die. Haven't you seen all the old men in Ukraine fighting for freedom?

Lol these American keyboard warrior old dudes think they’re tough, hardened, Eastern European protectors.

Fighting the Russians and fighting the women of DCUM are basically the same thing, amiright??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why so much disgust and judgement? Isn't there also a significant number of women, especially in their 20's, who don't want to date men their age and prefer older guys? It takes two consenting adults for these relationships to happen.

Because older women see it as a rejection of them.

[Anonymous]

It gives me creepy 'daddy' vibes.

I remember my dad went with me to view apartments (I was 26 and he was 55 at the time) since he worked near me. I realized at some point we both realized the apartment reps thought we were a couple which instantly had us almost throw up and vehemently clarify I was his daughter. It never dawned on me somebody would ever think my dad was my boyfriend. Gross.

At 26 I was after guys my age or a few years either direction. I wanted someone with the same energy level, same cultural references and experiences and someone who wouldn't be an old fart much sooner than me. I also found youth and vigor and thick hair and muscles hot, not older men---the kind at work that were married and hitting on me---YUCK.

So for me--it looks really strange to see an old man or old woman dating someone 15+ years younger. I see often on the sports' sidelines the 'dad' is mistaken by everyone for grandpa.

[Anonymous]

My Dad is a very good looking and successful 62 year old. When he started dating I told him to please not date anyone who isn’t at least 15 years older than me. He laughed and said no problem because he thought 20+ older than me would be my request.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why so much disgust and judgement? Isn't there also a significant number of women, especially in their 20's, who don't want to date men their age and prefer older guys? It takes two consenting adults for these relationships to happen.

Because older women see it as a rejection of them.

+1 and don’t forget, plain and simple jealousy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It gives me creepy 'daddy' vibes.

I remember my dad went with me to view apartments (I was 26 and he was 55 at the time) since he worked near me. I realized at some point we both realized the apartment reps thought we were a couple which instantly had us almost throw up and vehemently clarify I was his daughter. It never dawned on me somebody would ever think my dad was my boyfriend. Gross.

At 26 I was after guys my age or a few years either direction. I wanted someone with the same energy level, same cultural references and experiences and someone who wouldn't be an old fart much sooner than me. I also found youth and vigor and thick hair and muscles hot, not older men---the kind at work that were married and hitting on me---YUCK.

So for me--it looks really strange to see an old man or old woman dating someone 15+ years younger. I see often on the sports' sidelines the 'dad' is mistaken by everyone for grandpa.

After I graduated from college and before getting into a serious relationship my Dad and I would have a “date night” almost every month just for us to catch up and stay connected. I loved it! We’d go to really nice restaurants and often we’d notice people looking at us as though we were that sugar daddy couple. We’d roll our eyes and laugh. I’d love to do it now but with a husband and three little kids it’s not going to happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It gives me creepy 'daddy' vibes.

I remember my dad went with me to view apartments (I was 26 and he was 55 at the time) since he worked near me. I realized at some point we both realized the apartment reps thought we were a couple which instantly had us almost throw up and vehemently clarify I was his daughter. It never dawned on me somebody would ever think my dad was my boyfriend. Gross.

At 26 I was after guys my age or a few years either direction. I wanted someone with the same energy level, same cultural references and experiences and someone who wouldn't be an old fart much sooner than me. I also found youth and vigor and thick hair and muscles hot, not older men---the kind at work that were married and hitting on me---YUCK.

So for me--it looks really strange to see an old man or old woman dating someone 15+ years younger. I see often on the sports' sidelines the 'dad' is mistaken by everyone for grandpa.

After I graduated from college and before getting into a serious relationship my Dad and I would have a “date night” almost every month just for us to catch up and stay connected. I loved it! We’d go to really nice restaurants and often we’d notice people looking at us as though we were that sugar daddy couple. We’d roll our eyes and laugh. I’d love to do it now but with a husband and three little kids it’s not going to happen.

Oh, that is so special! I wish I could have done that with my dad.

[Anonymous]

NP. Not sure why you care. It’s your business if you want to date a much younger woman but my opinion is my own. Although I would be polite, I would not trust his judgment easily. Again, it’s your decision to date whomever you want and so why the question?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m a woman. When I was 19-24 I dated significantly (10+ years) older. I had serious unaddressed and untreated trauma and was living hand to mouth.

In hindsight I recognize the profound power imbalance - I hardly knew anything about adult life and lacked savvy and sophistication in so many ways. There’s an “ick” factor when I consider what these men were attracted to in me. Why was a 36-year-old lawyer more interested in a 20-year-old cocktail waitress (me) than a professional woman closer to his age?

It’s exploitative and weird - I don’t care what any man says to justify it.

Why does my wife tell me she wishes she were with a man who makes twice as much money as she does, rather than the man she is with, who makes the same?

[Anonymous]

In othet words its not that she wishes she were younger and dating an older guy just like black women may not want to date a white guy or be a white woman.

[Anonymous]

I don't judge.