Serious question about men v women and aging

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

. If you manage to find a younger woman to be with, it is because she is either superficial/materialistic and using you for money, or has daddy issues and is crazy.

LOL more bitter older woman cope.

“He doesn’t want me, so the women he’s with must be broken somehow.” 😂😂😂

NP, I’m 30, I don’t know if that makes me a bitter old woman, but it’s generally true. Over 55 should never assume they will be able to find somebody to sleep with them who likes them for their personality.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

. If you manage to find a younger woman to be with, it is because she is either superficial/materialistic and using you for money, or has daddy issues and is crazy.

LOL more bitter older woman cope.

“He doesn’t want me, so the women he’s with must be broken somehow.” 😂😂😂

Not PP, but I’m an older woman whose DH can’t keep his hands off me and agree with this. I also was once a hot young woman who got hit in by older men quite a bit (actually more than by my peers) and I speak from experience. Old guys like to think that young women are fed up with immature young men and eager to hop in bed or date and older man who is more mature and experienced. But the truth is that most young women will take the immature younger guy any day if the week, because they find the idea of sex with a 55+ man revolting. It’s just the truth. There are exceptions, but they are either in or for the money or have very specific psychological reasons for craving the company and approval of a man their fathers age. I don’t think either of those things mean they are broken. It’s just the truth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

. If you manage to find a younger woman to be with, it is because she is either superficial/materialistic and using you for money, or has daddy issues and is crazy.

LOL more bitter older woman cope.

“He doesn’t want me, so the women he’s with must be broken somehow.” 😂😂😂

Not PP, but I’m an older woman whose DH can’t keep his hands off me and agree with this. I also was once a hot young woman who got hit in by older men quite a bit (actually more than by my peers) and I speak from experience. Old guys like to think that young women are fed up with immature young men and eager to hop in bed or date and older man who is more mature and experienced. But the truth is that most young women will take the immature younger guy any day if the week, because they find the idea of sex with a 55+ man revolting. It’s just the truth. There are exceptions, but they are either in or for the money or have very specific psychological reasons for craving the company and approval of a man their fathers age. I don’t think either of those things mean they are broken. It’s just the truth.

+1 I'm in my 30s, but when I read the men on this forum claim that young women are into them, I have so much trouble believing it. Not a single girlfriend in my 20s (or 30s) was into older men (especially past 35). I had 1 friend who was in a relationship with an 37-year-old man, and all her peers thought it was GROSS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women only have trouble when they are stuck with the same partner too long.

I’ve been stuck with my husband for 33 years and I have no problem being monogamous. Good men continue to keep things fresh and fun and being in love is a big part of it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Women only have trouble when they are stuck with the same partner too long.

I’ve been stuck with my husband for 33 years and I have no problem being monogamous. Good men continue to keep things fresh and fun and being in love is a big part of it.

Bingo! Same here, married more than 30 years and we are still very much in love and still love to be intimate together many times each week.

It is so great to have the kids out of the house and never have to worry about pregnancy. It’s like when we were first married all over again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Huh? I’m fit, 6 pack, olive skin (not wrinkly) 51-year old woman nowhere close to menopause. Mom went thru it at 57 and 55 year old sister not in it yet.

And I just had a nooner with my 50-year old husband. We still have sex almost daily.

He’s never had boner problems and I never had issues either.

Lol, lady, no one is talking to you but congrats on your 6-back and your boner.

I call troll.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

. If you manage to find a younger woman to be with, it is because she is either superficial/materialistic and using you for money, or has daddy issues and is crazy.

LOL more bitter older woman cope.

“He doesn’t want me, so the women he’s with must be broken somehow.” 😂😂😂

No, I know because I’m young. Old guys are sexually invisible, with some famous exceptions like George Clooney etc. I’m sure I’ll love having sex with my husband when he is that age as we will have grown together, but no way would I settle for 40+ until I’m 40+. If a girl is with an old dude, it’s because she doesn’t like sex. Doesn’t mean they can’t make it work otherwise, but accept that sex and arousal is just not an important part of a relationship for her.

[Anonymous]

Hottest sex I ever had was with a man 16 years older when I was 37 and he was 53. Lasted 3 years and would be there today if I hadn’t had to move for work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Huh? I’m fit, 6 pack, olive skin (not wrinkly) 51-year old woman nowhere close to menopause. Mom went thru it at 57 and 55 year old sister not in it yet.

And I just had a nooner with my 50-year old husband. We still have sex almost daily.

He’s never had boner problems and I never had issues either.[/quote

Don’t worry..you both will soon. Unavoidable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

. If you manage to find a younger woman to be with, it is because she is either superficial/materialistic and using you for money, or has daddy issues and is crazy.

LOL more bitter older woman cope.

“He doesn’t want me, so the women he’s with must be broken somehow.” 😂😂😂

Not PP, but I’m an older woman whose DH can’t keep his hands off me and agree with this. I also was once a hot young woman who got hit in by older men quite a bit (actually more than by my peers) and I speak from experience. Old guys like to think that young women are fed up with immature young men and eager to hop in bed or date and older man who is more mature and experienced. But the truth is that most young women will take the immature younger guy any day if the week, because they find the idea of sex with a 55+ man revolting. It’s just the truth. There are exceptions, but they are either in or for the money or have very specific psychological reasons for craving the company and approval of a man their fathers age. I don’t think either of those things mean they are broken. It’s just the truth.

+1 I'm in my 30s, but when I read the men on this forum claim that young women are into them, I have so much trouble believing it. Not a single girlfriend in my 20s (or 30s) was into older men (especially past 35). I had 1 friend who was in a relationship with an 37-year-old man, and all her peers thought it was GROSS.

+2. I don't understand why this guy is dismissing women and calling it an older woman cope. Also, although I'm over 50 years old (and married), I was once a woman in my 20's and have kids/kids' friends/nieces who are currently in their 20's. No one I know was looking forward to dating a man who was much older (be it 40's or 50's) when I was in my 20's and no one I know now in their 20's even remotely considers dating/having sex with a man in his 40's/50's (obviously older than 50's is not even in question). I keep on wondering who are these young women that these older men write about so often on here.

[Anonymous]

Mid 40s male here. I'm way more attractive and put together now than I was in my 20s and early 30s, when I was a pure workaholic. It's like shooting fish in a barrel now with women in their 20s and 30s. I avoid mid 30s because they start to want to have kids. Real money and power are the most effective aphrodisiacs I've ever experienced. If you look back at thousands of years of human history, this seems to be normal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

. If you manage to find a younger woman to be with, it is because she is either superficial/materialistic and using you for money, or has daddy issues and is crazy.

LOL more bitter older woman cope.

“He doesn’t want me, so the women he’s with must be broken somehow.” 😂😂😂

Yep, that's DCUM women for you. They all have STDs, don't really like sex, mentally deranged, just in it for the money, and the old guys all have ED and saggy balls.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s a myth that there are lots of young women who would have sex with 55 plus men. Or 40 plus.

It's not a myth in my world. Not around here anyway no matter what you want to believe. I've been single and dating since my early 50s, about 12 years now and only date women in their 40s. If you said, most women in their 40s don't want a guy my age, I'd agree. That still leaves a LOT that do and the ratio of women to men in this area is one of the best in the country for men. It also helps that I look a lot younger, thanks to genetics, so their is that. I've been in a LTR now for the past 5 years with a woman 14 years younger than me and it's going great but if it ended today, I'd have no problem finding someone else in that age range.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It’s a myth that there are lots of young women who would have sex with 55 plus men. Or 40 plus.

It's not a myth in my world. Not around here anyway no matter what you want to believe. I've been single and dating since my early 50s, about 12 years now and only date women in their 40s. If you said, most women in their 40s don't want a guy my age, I'd agree. That still leaves a LOT that do and the ratio of women to men in this area is one of the best in the country for men. It also helps that I look a lot younger, thanks to genetics, so their is that. I've been in a LTR now for the past 5 years with a woman 14 years younger than me and it's going great but if it ended today, I'd have no problem finding someone else in that age range.

Hi, former 37 yo woman from above. I am now a young-looking 50 and would love a relationship like that, any suggestions on how to meet normal 48+ men? Where do you meet these people?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mid 40s male here. I'm way more attractive and put together now than I was in my 20s and early 30s, when I was a pure workaholic. It's like shooting fish in a barrel now with women in their 20s and 30s. I avoid mid 30s because they start to want to have kids. Real money and power are the most effective aphrodisiacs I've ever experienced. If you look back at thousands of years of human history, this seems to be normal.

Who are these women?
I have to agree with previous posters that, of the dozens of women I have known through school, work, friends, family, etc., I can only think of one who dated significantly older men.