Cringe date moments?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Oh I had that too. "Wait, you are JEWISH? Wow, you don't look Jewish". Freaks.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I went out with a guy who literally ordered the same thing I did all night. From drinks to entrees it was like "that sounds good, I think I'll get that too". It was bizarre.

Or there was the guy who said he was 49 who must have been mid-60's. When I went back later to check out his profile pictures closer it was apparent they were some OLD pictures. I guess he thought I wouldn't notice? His car had handicapped tags (nothing against the handicapped, it was just a bit of a shocker).

Once I was meeting a man for a first date who, according to his profile, was 40. When I got to the restaurant and mentioned to the hostess I was there for a first date, she said "yes, I'll take you to his table". We got there and he was at least 65!

I was about to bail but then saw my ACTUAL date walk in. Apparently the older man was also there on a first date and the hostess thought I was his date.

You need botox

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I was single, I wasn't somebody who got nervous about dating. I didn't get too emotionally attached, played things very cool. I basically viewed first dates as interviewing people to see if I wanted to date them. Went on a lot of first dates.

My next door neighbor asked me on a date. I said yes, we went, we laughed, talked, ate, ran around the city, had a great time. Got back to our building and all of a sudden realized how tired I was (full day and then a date that ran until 3am) and my singular goal became to get to sleep, so when he said "Hang on, I just need to check my mailbox" I said I'd just go up (???) and good night etc. I then proceeded to walk right into a glass partition. We're married now. DH says at the time, he just totally panicked when he turned me around after I slammed into that glass, worried that I'd have blood pouring down my face and was super relieved I was fine. My shoe had taken the brunt of the contact.

This made me laugh.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Hmmm, I’m a white girl who dates only BIPOC men…not attracted to white guys at all. Is it weird if I mention that on a date?

OMG yes, keep that to yourself. It comes across as having a fetish.

You might also want to read the book Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison while you are at it.

+1. It’s like trashy white women who claim they love only black men or crept white guys who have an Asian fetish.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Hmmm, I’m a white girl who dates only BIPOC men…not attracted to white guys at all. Is it weird if I mention that on a date?

You seem like one of those white savior types. Stop fetishizing black people because of your misguided white guilt. I know many women like you. Down for the whole gang on some white savior stuff.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Oh I had that too. "Wait, you are JEWISH? Wow, you don't look Jewish". Freaks.

Jewish men are hot.

[Anonymous]

Went on a date and she was talking how she recently got a job and hadn't worked the previous 2 years. Turns out the reason she didn't have a job then is she was in prison, for drug possession and DUI.

At least she had some good stories about what goes on in women's prison, including what readily-available (for a prison) supplies they use to make.. emm.. devices used to give self-pleasure let's say.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Oh I had that too. "Wait, you are JEWISH? Wow, you don't look Jewish". Freaks.

Jewish men are hot.

You seem like one of those white savior types. Stop fetishizing Jewish people because of your misguided white guilt. I know many women like you. Down for the whole gang on some white savior stuff.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Hmmm, I’m a white girl who dates only BIPOC men…not attracted to white guys at all. Is it weird if I mention that on a date?

Yes. And it weird to date racially in 2021 especially not your own race.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Oh I had that too. "Wait, you are JEWISH? Wow, you don't look Jewish". Freaks. [/thr
Jewish men are hot.

You seem like one of those white savior types. Stop fetishizing Jewish people because of your misguided white guilt. I know many women like you. Down for the whole gang on some white savior stuff.

I’m not the pp who wrote those messages.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Oh I had that too. "Wait, you are JEWISH? Wow, you don't look Jewish". Freaks.

Jewish men are hot.

You seem like one of those white savior types. Stop fetishizing Jewish people because of your misguided white guilt. I know many women like you. Down for the whole gang on some white savior stuff.

I didn’t write the previous messages lol

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Oh I had that too. "Wait, you are JEWISH? Wow, you don't look Jewish". Freaks.

Jewish men are hot.

You seem like one of those white savior types. Stop fetishizing Jewish people because of your misguided white guilt. I know many women like you. Down for the whole gang on some white savior stuff.

PP here. You couldn’t even come up with something creative? This doesn’t make any sense. Jewish men are white and therefore no white savior complex with them. Dating only POC is some white savior type stuff, just like those missionaries. It’s weird.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Oh I had that too. "Wait, you are JEWISH? Wow, you don't look Jewish". Freaks.

Jewish men are hot.

You seem like one of those white savior types. Stop fetishizing Jewish people because of your misguided white guilt. I know many women like you. Down for the whole gang on some white savior stuff.

PP here. You couldn’t even come up with something creative? This doesn’t make any sense. Jewish men are white and therefore no white savior complex with them. Dating only POC is some white savior type stuff, just like those missionaries. It’s weird.

there are Jews of color. shocker!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'll flip it. Have gone on two first dates where the women told me exactly what they thought about dating someone black or Jewish. I am half Jewish but do not look semitic at all. What's really pitiful is why would someone being something up like that with a date they barely know?

Oh I had that too. "Wait, you are JEWISH? Wow, you don't look Jewish". Freaks.

Jewish men are hot.

You seem like one of those white savior types. Stop fetishizing Jewish people because of your misguided white guilt. I know many women like you. Down for the whole gang on some white savior stuff.

PP here. You couldn’t even come up with something creative? This doesn’t make any sense. Jewish men are white and therefore no white savior complex with them. Dating only POC is some white savior type stuff, just like those missionaries. It’s weird.

there are Jews of color. shocker!

Yes. Many are middle eastern. White saviors aren’t saving Jews though. They are into saving POC that they look down on. It’s like taking in a stray. They see POC as weak and helpless. Most POC hate white saviors. PP is no different than the whites women getting trains ran on them after protests to show how much they support them. It’s very weird and creepy.

[Anonymous]

stop with the Jewish stuff, we get it. Move on.