Should you posts pics of home renovation on FB?

[Anonymous]

OP, did you renovate that $4.2M house in 22207?


Good luck with that.

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Anonymous wrote:I think you can provided you did the work yourself. We tiled a floor and I was so proud I posted pics. Friends asked if it was hard, how we learned how to do it, etc. But if you're just posting pictures of what your contractor did, you're just bragging about what you bought. That's not exactly an accomplishment.

Actually that’s not exactly true. I literally had to help my contractor along with so many projects I want it done that he just cannot figure out on his own. I’m talking about ceiling designs cutting out new windows, closing up windows and so many many other designs I came up with. It wasn’t just simply tiling the floors. I literally could help build a home after all the things I had to research on my own.

I even had to figure out how to install the 12 foot high marble fireplace mantle I had made. I told him he’s just gonna have to cut a hole in the ceiling and use pulleys tied to the roof beams to lift it up into position.

Imo it’s marble fireplace lady!! I remember the original thread. I wish I could find it.

I found it!
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/862207.page

Omg that post, PP sounds gaudy as hell with her marbled fountains and fireplaces. Well sourced from China. I can’t.

No, I think it’s an elaborate make believe thing. Like OP has been posting repeatedly about this pretend house she is making
fabulous by ordering 12ft mantels from China and helping the contractor not cover windows.

[Anonymous]

I like seeing people's home imrovement projects. I feel happy for them and it's nice to see what they've done - gives me ideas and also everyone likes to ogle.

I guess the reason to hold back is the same reason why I didn't post to FB when I finished paying off my student loans last year - because a lot of people are really struggling right now and you don't want to rub it in their faces. Only you can decide how to thread that needle.

We did post pics of our kitchen renovation because we were enjoying seeing the transformation so much. I hope the people who know is enjoyed it, too. If not, that's ok as well.

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Anonymous wrote:I'd LOVE to see it! I'm very into DIY as well as remodeling.

I'd put it as a facebook story instead of a post if it bothers you.

Good ideal! Thank you . It took me 18 months and thousands of hours of design ideas to achieve my dream home. It just sucks that I can’t post the before and afters because I’m afraid of the being too obnoxious. When people post their middle upper class homes everyone loves it but when it’s a 7 figure renovation people hate you ..

Wow, that does suck? How do you even get through your day with such tragedy in your life?

[Anonymous]

I love seeing before and after pics!

I don’t think it’s bragging. I actually think it’s helpful and provides inspiration.

FWIW, there’s a way to post the pics without making it about the renovation.

-Post of pic of the kids or dog in the space.
-“Celebrating Mark’s birthday!” with a wide shot of the cake and/or Mark in the new kitchen.
-Bathrooms are tricky. Maybe the cat is relaxing on the floor?

[Anonymous]

Keep it simple and private. Send pics to the people you know they care and help.
FB to me is Full of Bulls*t

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Anonymous wrote:I'd LOVE to see it! I'm very into DIY as well as remodeling.

I'd put it as a facebook story instead of a post if it bothers you.

Good ideal! Thank you . It took me 18 months and thousands of hours of design ideas to achieve my dream home. It just sucks that I can’t post the before and afters because I’m afraid of the being too obnoxious. When people post their middle upper class homes everyone loves it but when it’s a 7 figure renovation people hate you ..

7 figure renovation? Were you renovating a castle? Why not just buy a new house at that point?

This makes no sense. For a million dollar plus renovation you should have had design and other folks helping. What did you do, cheap out and hire they work for the day locals at HD?

Impressive is when you design and actually physically do the work yourself. We have installed our own doors, windows, redid our hardwood, redid our kitchen, redoing our basement, electrical, plumbing, etc.

Isn’t that what poor people do?

[Anonymous]

I LOVE to see before and afters. Love love love it. It's not showy, it's inspiring. Do it!
Isn't that what FB is for?

[Anonymous]

I would love to see! I have a friend who has been renovating her house during the pandemic and it has been fun to watch!

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I'm always hesitant myself, but I love it when friends/family share renovation pictures!

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Anonymous wrote:I love seeing before and after pics!

I don’t think it’s bragging. I actually think it’s helpful and provides inspiration.

FWIW, there’s a way to post the pics without making it about the renovation.

-Post of pic of the kids or dog in the space.
-“Celebrating Mark’s birthday!” with a wide shot of the cake and/or Mark in the new kitchen.
-Bathrooms are tricky. Maybe the cat is relaxing on the floor? [/quot

Ewww, I can see right through these fakers. Don't do this. How disingenuous (and weird) to share your new kitchen under the guise of your loved one's birthday. If you want to share your renovation, just do it, but your "wide-angle" and cat "relaxing" photos aren't fooling anyone.

[Anonymous]

Money talks, wealth whispers. Stay classy DMV.

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Anonymous wrote:I would love to see! I have a friend who has been renovating her house during the pandemic and it has been fun to watch!

+1 This is what FB is for, isn't it!?! For sharing what's happening in your life! If you're excited about it then hopefully your friends will be, too.

OP, I think you're getting a lot of responses from people who are really insecure and have low self-esteem. Don't worry about them because there is nothing you can do to help them. Just post what you want to post and don't worry about it. If I were your friend I would really want to see what was happening and I would be thrilled when you showed your pictures on FB!

[Anonymous]

Just post it on Insta. Facebook is for the elderly.

[Anonymous]

If you’re at a low price point and/or it’s DIY the worst possible offense is it’s kind of boring and self-involved. But that’s what FB is, yes?

If you’re at a high price point it’s lose-lose. Don’t do it.