I will always secretly hate beautiful women

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know, OP. The most beautiful women I've known have not led the happiest lives. They've all had unwanted attention from men that was annoying at best and threatening at worst. One friend in college had a dangerous stalker. She also had been a very overweight child, so she still never thought of herself as beautiful, even though she literally turned heads.

The two other women were often treated unkindly by other women. One of them, in grad school, always had to fight assumptions that she wasn't as smart or that she could coast on her looks. She was not favored by instructors but treated by her peers as if she were.

OP, the problem is within yourself. That means you can also fix it.

I know “that girl”. She gained a few extra pounds during puberty, was bullied/outcasted by the other kids and underserved by the adults, fixed the problem years later, makes younger Mila Kunis look like the ugly sister, and considers herself “above average”.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am a conventionally attractive woman and I recognized early on the effect it has on people. I am also intelligent and have worked for everything I have. When choosing friends and acquaintances to spend time at social gatherings with, I often chose women who are as or more attractive than myself. Being in a group of beautiful women has opened many doors socially. We have a couple of friends who aren't as conventionally attractive in our group and they receive the same VIP treatment.

I dated five drop dead beautiful girls. My first college dated the hottest girl on campus. Second college hottest girl, dated three ex models. I also date a tv actress. I also date female traders, really rich average girls.

My mom used to think WTF. When I lived home I actually used to borrow my girls cars to take other girls on dates. My mom freeked out. My logic was simple they had nicer cars AND if I have their car they can’t catch me.

And I did get caught once. My GF saw me jumped in front of my car when out with Her friends screaming, I slammed in brakes jump out yell it is not what it looks like and tear off in car. I tell girl in car that is ex gf who I have a restraining order against who is insane and dangerous I drop her off speed back to bar and tell GF I rescued a girl at bar with asthma and had to speed to her home for her inhaler.

It worked!! I enjoyed being good looking

This is epically incoherent. Congratulations.

[Anonymous]

I will always not so secretly hate women who are ugly on the inside and outside.

[Anonymous]

I might be above average attractiveness as a woman although at 36 my looks are starting to fade and my hair is gray. I have grown to recognize the look a woman will give me when she meets me for the first time and doesn’t like me, apparently due to my appearance as typically there is not much else to go on at that point. Not every overweight or unattractive woman does it, but at this point I have definitely noticed and categorized it. It’s sad as I am just being myself. I had a hard past and taking care of myself makes me happy. Yes I may look high maintenance, but I have a good heart. I wouldn’t not befriend someone because of their looks, either good or bad. I like to have friends who are interested in their appearance so we can talk facials (hydro facial water was so dirty, ew), fillers, workouts, and skin care but I can also talk about politics, philosophy, religion, the weather, books, kids, and chickens. Also, if someone cares a lot about their appearance and looking better, a lot can be done by losing weight, wearing makeup, and smiling a lot/being kind.

[Anonymous]

Furthermore, at this point most of us have been married 10-12 years so I’m not trying to steal anyone’s man. seriously like I want another man omg they’re the worst.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am an average-to-below average looking woman. All my life I have seen the privilege afforded to girls and women who were better looking than I. They were treated better. Everyone wanted to befriend them. On the dating market, they had their pick of the best men. They didn't even have to work and could settle down with a rich guy. If they choose to work, they get hired and promoted faster than their more average looking peers.

So yes, I hate beautiful women.

OP, it’s obvious from your writing style that you’re a guy. 0/10.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You need to befriend these gorgeous women and reap the fringe benefits.

Exactly. Many have low self esteem or other deep rooted problems. They often are needy and looking for a supportive friend.

I'm a pretty girl, but not beautiful and was friends to one. She was a mess and sadly against all good advice she did the opposite. Wasted a lot of good years with losers, and now doesn't have any kids to show for it. Which she now regrets. Seriously OP don't hate on them, or envy them. Look at Kim K. with that loser she still won't eject, very typical.

[Anonymous]

That's okay OP. I never, ever think of you at all.

[Anonymous]

OP many beautiful women get used and abused, more so than others.

[Anonymous]

It's ridiculous. We're not like Nicola Peltz. She's gorgeous AND loaded.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's ridiculous. We're not like Nicola Peltz. She's gorgeous AND loaded.

Or Julia Louis Dreyfus, who is gorgeous and aged well, inherited billions, made millions on her own, is smart and has perfect kids and husband. And yet is perfectly likable.

[Anonymous]

hmmm, i think finding a mate as a beautiful woman can be complicated.

when i was 20, a middle aged guy watched me for a while and then said:

"I have to say something. I'm married, I have kids, i dont want anything from you. but you are the most beautiful person I have ever seen. you need to be VERY CAREFUL with men, and choosing who to date."

Of course i had no clue what he meant, and spent my 20 dating men who didn't actually love me, but loved being with someone beautiful because it was good for their egos. it was terrible and exhausting being with them.

Eventually i married a nerdy engineer who enjoys my looks but actually seems to love the real me... It is such a relief to not have to worry that love hangs on your looks. I'm middle aged myself now, sometimes i look tired, and i know if I were with those other guys, that would really stress me out.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It's ridiculous. We're not like Nicola Peltz. She's gorgeous AND loaded.

Or Julia Louis Dreyfus, who is gorgeous and aged well, inherited billions, made millions on her own, is smart and has perfect kids and husband. And yet is perfectly likable.

Pretty, not beautiful.

Yes very likeable, glad she has done well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Furthermore, at this point most of us have been married 10-12 years so I’m not trying to steal anyone’s man. seriously like I want another man omg they’re the worst.

This made me lol hard!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's ridiculous. We're not like Nicola Peltz. She's gorgeous AND loaded.

She's only 25! Hasn't had much life experience so who knows...I wouldn't say beautiful either..