I will always secretly hate beautiful women

[Anonymous]

I am an average-to-below average looking woman. All my life I have seen the privilege afforded to girls and women who were better looking than I. They were treated better. Everyone wanted to befriend them. On the dating market, they had their pick of the best men. They didn't even have to work and could settle down with a rich guy. If they choose to work, they get hired and promoted faster than their more average looking peers.

So yes, I hate beautiful women.

[Anonymous]

Ok.

[Anonymous]

I see you and love you, OP.

I am a beautiful woman who is beautiful on the outside and inside.

[Anonymous]

OP, your anger is misplaced. You should hate rich women. They don't even need 'a rich guy' or a promotion at work! Everything's taken care of from the get-go.

[Anonymous]

OK?

[Anonymous]

Everyone has an ability to improve one’s own appearance. I can see you stating you are envious but hate is a strong word.

[Anonymous]

My buddy who was a single Big 4 Partner with an MBA in a soho loft he owned outright and drive a Porsche in his 20s and 30s dated zero career women.

He ended up marrying at 38 to a former stripper (heart of gold) five foot nine blonde.

His condition that the day they get engaged she quit her retail job to plan wedding and once married to be a SAHM and never work. She does not cook or clean. But “manages that”

He now is pushing 60 he left big 4 cashed out IPO money ave they live on the beach in Malibu Ca and he has three picture perfect kids. Her good looks were passed on.

[Anonymous]

Beautiful women are supernatural.

[Anonymous]

I mean, there's some truth to what you say. But no, not all attractive/beautiful women sail through life with boundless opportunities, are pursued by men who are desirable and kind and good eggs, and have the option of not working.

Your jealousy is coloring your perspective, and though they grass may be greener/prettier in some respects, the grass still has clover in it, dead spots, and probably lots of pesticides.

[Anonymous]

I'm above average though not drop dead gorgeous. Though I could be if I did my hair, put on makeup and dressed nicely. I'm a sahm of littles so I do minimal makeup and my husband doesn't care. We get along well btw.

Whatever you are, you can move a couple steps up by being thin, wearing natural looking eye makeup, lipstick, cover-up any skin issues, and doing your hair nicely.

[Anonymous]

I am a conventionally attractive woman and I recognized early on the effect it has on people. I am also intelligent and have worked for everything I have. When choosing friends and acquaintances to spend time at social gatherings with, I often chose women who are as or more attractive than myself. Being in a group of beautiful women has opened many doors socially. We have a couple of friends who aren't as conventionally attractive in our group and they receive the same VIP treatment.

[Anonymous]

You need to befriend these gorgeous women and reap the fringe benefits.

[Anonymous]

I once went on two dates with an insanely hot girl who was a former model. She was in cover of Cosmo and Vogue. But retired. I was 27. Her Dad was a Billionaire!!!

She must of thought I had more money that i had as she asked me on second date what car will I be picking her up in. She was going to look out window as hard to park.

I go well I have my Jeep Wrangler convertible I took you to beach in. She goes so cute, my brother has one for a daytime car. But this is nighttime. I actually also owned a classic old Mercedes I rarely drove as it was 25 years old. I drive that to pick her up. We went to a restaurant that you need reservations. Apparently when you pull up to a fancy restaurant in a classic Mercedes With a billionaires smoking hot daughter reservations are not needed

Funny part more folks looking at me. Way more. Like how big a shot is this guy if he can date hot billionaires.

Sadly, Dad bluffed me out. She mentioned me and asked if I wanted to join his golf club. We can meet there for lunch. Was $100,000 to join, apparently date 3 was 100k.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a conventionally attractive woman and I recognized early on the effect it has on people. I am also intelligent and have worked for everything I have. When choosing friends and acquaintances to spend time at social gatherings with, I often chose women who are as or more attractive than myself. Being in a group of beautiful women has opened many doors socially. We have a couple of friends who aren't as conventionally attractive in our group and they receive the same VIP treatment.

Intelligent you may be, but doors opened for you due to your looks.

[Anonymous]

Beauty is like intelligence... law of diminishing returns.

There is a sweet spot and the privilege is real.

But once you get in the top 5% the cost outweighs the benefit.