Boyfriend's exw told him to wear a mask around the kids after being with me

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Anonymous wrote:I am in a long distance relationship with an old friend. I hadn't visited him since May. I am visiting him now. We both have 3 kids, are responsible parents, etc. Today his exw told him to wear a mask around the kids for the next 2 weeks because I traveled from out of state and he's spending time with me. Keep in mind their kids (teens and tween) have been out and about for months, sports, sleepovers, visiting relatives, etc. Cases are active if both locations, in fact their location is hot-spottier.

Things she probably closely monitors.

Dad gets sick the kids can't spend time with them.

He does all of their sports. The relatives they visited were his. Any time kids have sleepovers, especially teens, they are at risk. Why is she so concerned about this situation?

Sports a controlled situation. She knows the relatives, and likley how cautious they would be. She knows the sleepover families, and how they would likely enforce precautions. She does not know you or your behavior.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:totally normal request in light of current situation.

Parents are masking up around their kids for weeks on end because they were with people without masks?

Yes, Some are.

I don't know anyone like this.

You know everyone on the planet?

[Anonymous]

I don't think you should be there at all. He probably has limited time with his kids and COVID. I'm a stepmom and I wouldn't have done it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Respect the mother.

I am an exw too. I get it. But this isn't about that. It's about her controlling/punishing him. (I know, because I am an exw.)

How long have you been seeing this man?

1.5 years.

And still only a girlfriend... have you met mother?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am in a long distance relationship with an old friend. I hadn't visited him since May. I am visiting him now. We both have 3 kids, are responsible parents, etc. Today his exw told him to wear a mask around the kids for the next 2 weeks because I traveled from out of state and he's spending time with me. Keep in mind their kids (teens and tween) have been out and about for months, sports, sleepovers, visiting relatives, etc. Cases are active if both locations, in fact their location is hot-spottier.

Things she probably closely monitors.

Dad gets sick the kids can't spend time with them.

He does all of their sports. The relatives they visited were his. Any time kids have sleepovers, especially teens, they are at risk. Why is she so concerned about this situation?

Sports a controlled situation. She knows the relatives, and likley how cautious they would be. She knows the sleepover families, and how they would likely enforce precautions. She does not know you or your behavior.

The relatives are anti-mask Trumpers. And come on, nobody knows or can enforce who all members of a family see and do when your kid sleeps over there, esp teens.

[Anonymous]

OP, do you not see anything wrong with your boyfriend telling you all this?

Do you not see anything wrong with your boyfriend purposely feeding drama between you and his kids mother?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am in a long distance relationship with an old friend. I hadn't visited him since May. I am visiting him now. We both have 3 kids, are responsible parents, etc. Today his exw told him to wear a mask around the kids for the next 2 weeks because I traveled from out of state and he's spending time with me. Keep in mind their kids (teens and tween) have been out and about for months, sports, sleepovers, visiting relatives, etc. Cases are active if both locations, in fact their location is hot-spottier.

Things she probably closely monitors.

Dad gets sick the kids can't spend time with them.

He does all of their sports. The relatives they visited were his. Any time kids have sleepovers, especially teens, they are at risk. Why is she so concerned about this situation?

Sports a controlled situation. She knows the relatives, and likley how cautious they would be. She knows the sleepover families, and how they would likely enforce precautions. She does not know you or your behavior.

The relatives are anti-mask Trumpers. And come on, nobody knows or can enforce who all members of a family see and do when your kid sleeps over there, esp teens.

Now I know you are just making stuff up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't think you should be there at all. He probably has limited time with his kids and COVID. I'm a stepmom and I wouldn't have done it.

He has them 50/50. We have seen each other twice during this. He has come to visit me. He has never been asked to wear a mask until now.

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure Peter/Kane (from the Kane Show) makes his -ex-wife wear masks when she has the kids too.

Divorcees are so nutty.

[Anonymous]

Did you wear a mask on your trip, OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Respect the mother.

I am an exw too. I get it. But this isn't about that. It's about her controlling/punishing him. (I know, because I am an exw.)

How long have you been seeing this man?

1.5 years.

And still only a girlfriend... have you met mother?

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did you wear a mask on your trip, OP?

Of course! Always.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't think you should be there at all. He probably has limited time with his kids and COVID. I'm a stepmom and I wouldn't have done it.

He has them 50/50. We have seen each other twice during this. He has come to visit me. He has never been asked to wear a mask until now.

Because now you are traveling.

[Anonymous]

Control

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, do you not see anything wrong with your boyfriend telling you all this?

Do you not see anything wrong with your boyfriend purposely feeding drama between you and his kids mother?

Do you see the issue?