I feel like a chump

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Feel like a chump?”
So you feel stupid for believing something that you now know wasn’t true or you feel taken advantage of? Really?

No I feel like I’ve sacrificed to do something I stupidly thought everyone else was doing too! It was for nothing!

It was to keep YOURSELF safe. Yeah yeah I know this is about community spread blah blah, but at the end of the day you can't control anyone else's actions, nor their view of risk. All you can do is do your best to protect YOU. One way to do that is to MINIMIZE exposure which you have done by not going out to grocery stores unnecessarily, let alone antique shops. And btw -- what is the big deal? You can't go antiquing in 2 months??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Feel like a chump?”
So you feel stupid for believing something that you now know wasn’t true or you feel taken advantage of? Really?

No I feel like I’ve sacrificed to do something I stupidly thought everyone else was doing too! It was for nothing!

It was to keep YOURSELF safe. Yeah yeah I know this is about community spread blah blah, but at the end of the day you can't control anyone else's actions, nor their view of risk. All you can do is do your best to protect YOU. One way to do that is to MINIMIZE exposure which you have done by not going out to grocery stores unnecessarily, let alone antique shops. And btw -- what is the big deal? You can't go antiquing in 2 months??

The big deal is these are TINY stores. There’s no way to socially distance in them. For crying out loud, Trader Joe’s limits people and spaces you out in a line to get in. And that’s for food! This is a cramped ass antique store, nobody needs antiques right now, and I saw tons of people walking in.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:We are having a culdesac lawn chair happy today and we cannot wait!

Lock yourselves in your homes, it’s your choice.

I mean this is why I feel like a chump. I really thought we were all banning together for the common good. Like there was solidarity in this. No. People like you drinking with your neighbors and letting your kids congregate in groups of 20 mean the rest of us were doing it for no good reason.

It's not for NO good reason. Every person stepping out of circulation slows the spread. Sure the more people that step out, the more it slows; but you step out and your neighbor doesn't -- it still slows. Look up the images of the fire spreading thru the line of matches which circulated a few weeks ago to explain why it was important for even 1 match (i.e. 1 person) to step out of that line and stay home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I went to the mall today and there were hundreds of people in close proximity to watch the Navy jet flyovers. I stayed distant. But it was like a typical summer day.

What mall is even open? Do you mean a mall parking lot?

[Anonymous]

We need to have staggered opening up, or people will chaotically start doing whatever. Parks need to be open. A few more businesses. And people who are high risk (elderly, chronic diseases and multiple comorbidities) really need to stop being stubborn, and self isolate. There's no reason the entire world needs to completely shut down because some people are at high risk.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went to the mall today and there were hundreds of people in close proximity to watch the Navy jet flyovers. I stayed distant. But it was like a typical summer day.

What mall is even open? Do you mean a mall parking lot?

Uh, I think they mean the National Mall.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Feel like a chump?”
So you feel stupid for believing something that you now know wasn’t true or you feel taken advantage of? Really?

No I feel like I’ve sacrificed to do something I stupidly thought everyone else was doing too! It was for nothing!

It was to keep YOURSELF safe. Yeah yeah I know this is about community spread blah blah, but at the end of the day you can't control anyone else's actions, nor their view of risk. All you can do is do your best to protect YOU. One way to do that is to MINIMIZE exposure which you have done by not going out to grocery stores unnecessarily, let alone antique shops. And btw -- what is the big deal? You can't go antiquing in 2 months??

The big deal is these are TINY stores. There’s no way to socially distance in them. For crying out loud, Trader Joe’s limits people and spaces you out in a line to get in. And that’s for food! This is a cramped ass antique store, nobody needs antiques right now, and I saw tons of people walking in.

Right. I agree with you. They're stupid. So why are you jealous that you are "sacrificing" by staying home and they "get to" go antiquing? You want to be stupid too?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Kind of the same here. We are very careful to keep our distance and stay home, already had some family die of COVID19.

We would love to go for walks in our neighborhood, but we live near a bunch of pet friendly apartment buildings and those millennials are out walking their dogs AT ALL HOURS. It’s just a non stop hoard of people with dogs, and they don’t wear masks and don’t keep six feet away. We are family of four, and its exhausting to keep the kids corralled close and away from the SD disregarding DINKS with dogs.

This makes me HATE beautiful Saturday’s like today (and the flyover didn’t help) b/c we thought of venturing out to a more suburban location, but we were pretty sure every street and office parking lot would have a throng of people (we have a yard less condo townhouse).

So you’re upset that other people are doing exactly what you intend to do?

I haven’t gone out in two weeks. The dog walkers are out two times a day. And I KEEP SOCIAL DISTANCE. That’s the part that is infuriating.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went to the mall today and there were hundreds of people in close proximity to watch the Navy jet flyovers. I stayed distant. But it was like a typical summer day.

What mall is even open? Do you mean a mall parking lot?

Uh, I think they mean the National Mall.

Lol. Got it. Clearly I have only lived here for 6 mos and when someone says mall, I don't think National. Lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went to the mall today and there were hundreds of people in close proximity to watch the Navy jet flyovers. I stayed distant. But it was like a typical summer day.

What mall is even open? Do you mean a mall parking lot?

Lol. The national mall. This is DC.

[Anonymous]

I think this is a weekend thing and esp. weekends where it isn't rainy/cold. My area has been really really good -- which is surprising because it's full of dog owning millennial types in tall apt buildings -- and yet every weekend, it looks 10% more full than it does M-F.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went to the mall today and there were hundreds of people in close proximity to watch the Navy jet flyovers. I stayed distant. But it was like a typical summer day.

What mall is even open? Do you mean a mall parking lot?

Uh, I think they mean the National Mall.

Lol. Got it. Clearly I have only lived here for 6 mos and when someone says mall, I don't think National. Lol

And I call the airport National. It’s a local thing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Kind of the same here. We are very careful to keep our distance and stay home, already had some family die of COVID19.

We would love to go for walks in our neighborhood, but we live near a bunch of pet friendly apartment buildings and those millennials are out walking their dogs AT ALL HOURS. It’s just a non stop hoard of people with dogs, and they don’t wear masks and don’t keep six feet away. We are family of four, and its exhausting to keep the kids corralled close and away from the SD disregarding DINKS with dogs.

This makes me HATE beautiful Saturday’s like today (and the flyover didn’t help) b/c we thought of venturing out to a more suburban location, but we were pretty sure every street and office parking lot would have a throng of people (we have a yard less condo townhouse).

They are places you can walk outdoors and still maintain 6 ft distance. I do it everyday. But no I can't go shopping at antique stores right now or go to the beach or to the mall or get my haircut and I'm probably going to have wait longer to do those things and it is what it is.

What places do you recommend to walk? We live in Arlington and can’t travel too far b/c, well, bathrooms.

[Anonymous]

Well Mississippi was all set to start opening more but the Governor changed his mind because cases just spiked. So yeah, this is what our near future holds, as the idiots get lazy and restless and force the economy open, only to realize it was a mistake.

I guess people need to see that happen a few times to start taking it seriously again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kind of the same here. We are very careful to keep our distance and stay home, already had some family die of COVID19.

We would love to go for walks in our neighborhood, but we live near a bunch of pet friendly apartment buildings and those millennials are out walking their dogs AT ALL HOURS. It’s just a non stop hoard of people with dogs, and they don’t wear masks and don’t keep six feet away. We are family of four, and its exhausting to keep the kids corralled close and away from the SD disregarding DINKS with dogs.

This makes me HATE beautiful Saturday’s like today (and the flyover didn’t help) b/c we thought of venturing out to a more suburban location, but we were pretty sure every street and office parking lot would have a throng of people (we have a yard less condo townhouse).

So you’re upset that other people are doing exactly what you intend to do?

I haven’t gone out in two weeks. The dog walkers are out two times a day. And I KEEP SOCIAL DISTANCE. That’s the part that is infuriating.

If you haven't stepped outside in 2 weeks, that's your choice. Or you have high risk comorbidities, and that's what you need to do. Being "infuriated" at others is insane. If you don't have any big health issues, then stop reading the news. Shut down the computer. Go outside.