Actively Bisexual Men Married to Women--Does she know?

[Anonymous]

I think I like the "is he gay or not" detective work a LOT better than trying to psychoanalyze the both of you. Just spill out - what lube/toy/pubic anal hairs did you find and let's get on with the dissecting evidence. SHEESH PEOPLE.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You need to get tested yesterday for HIV and the plethora of other diseases that accompany non-monogamous sex, especially dishonest/down low non-monogamous sex. Better if you can get him tested too. After that, you need to decide how much risk you're willing to take going forward. This is a very bad situation.

+1 I have HIV ... first time I’ve said it anywhere. I contracted the virus from him and stayed because we have two kids. He passed away and my questions go unanswered. Be safe. Sending you support.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Yes, we do!

I asked my wife about pegging me and she said no and that if I wanted the anal play; no toy is like the real thing and she would just make the arrangements. Um, not the answer I was expecting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You need to get tested yesterday for HIV and the plethora of other diseases that accompany non-monogamous sex, especially dishonest/down low non-monogamous sex. Better if you can get him tested too. After that, you need to decide how much risk you're willing to take going forward. This is a very bad situation.

+1 I have HIV ... first time I’ve said it anywhere. I contracted the virus from him and stayed because we have two kids. He passed away and my questions go unanswered. Be safe. Sending you support.

I’m so sorry, PP. I hope you’re doing well health wise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You need to get tested yesterday for HIV and the plethora of other diseases that accompany non-monogamous sex, especially dishonest/down low non-monogamous sex. Better if you can get him tested too. After that, you need to decide how much risk you're willing to take going forward. This is a very bad situation.

+1 I have HIV ... first time I’ve said it anywhere. I contracted the virus from him and stayed because we have two kids. He passed away and my questions go unanswered. Be safe. Sending you support.

Do you have a good support system? I hope you’re not suffering in silence to protect his legacy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Yes, we do!

I asked my wife about pegging me and she said no and that if I wanted the anal play; no toy is like the real thing and she would just make the arrangements. Um, not the answer I was expecting.

Actually your wife brings up a good point. If y o u can enjoy pegging, why wouldn't you enjoy the real thing as well physically? What's the difference?

[Anonymous]

You don’t have children with him? Stop writing long post about it and over complicating. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Those men are not straight

Not true. I LOVE my ass being played by my wife. I have no attraction to males.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Those men are not straight

Not true. I LOVE my ass being played by my wife. I have no attraction to males.

Hmm, interesting! I guess if straight women can enjoy anal stimulation then why not straight men? That never occurred to me before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Those men are not straight

Not true. I LOVE my ass being played by my wife. I have no attraction to males.

I think the question is if you can enjoy anal play with your wife, why wouldn't you enjoy the physical p art with a guy? I would assume you could be physically stimulated by a guy as well right?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Those men are not straight

Not true. I LOVE my ass being played by my wife. I have no attraction to males.

I think the question is if you can enjoy anal play with your wife, why wouldn't you enjoy the physical p art with a guy? I would assume you could be physically stimulated by a guy as well right?

Guy is a turn off. Not into a dude. Trust me, would be much easier if I did. Just not into guys.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Those men are not straight

Not true. I LOVE my ass being played by my wife. I have no attraction to males.

Hmm, interesting! I guess if straight women can enjoy anal stimulation then why not straight men? That never occurred to me before.

Prostate in there. Read about it. Explosive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Those men are not straight

Not true. I LOVE my ass being played by my wife. I have no attraction to males.

I think the question is if you can enjoy anal play with your wife, why wouldn't you enjoy the physical p art with a guy? I would assume you could be physically stimulated by a guy as well right?

My husband loves it when I play around his butt hole but I have not yet gone in but if he asks for it I will. I have never had anal sex nor do I have any interest given my husband is nicely endowed.

[Anonymous]

gross.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Many absolutely straight men enjoy pegging.

Those men are not straight

Not true. I LOVE my ass being played by my wife. I have no attraction to males.

Hmm, interesting! I guess if straight women can enjoy anal stimulation then why not straight men? That never occurred to me before.

Prostate in there. Read about it. Explosive.

Yeah, yeah I know about the prostate, etc. My point was that a man does not need to be gay or attracted to men to enjoy anal sex. That’s it.