suspecion of husband buying teen girls stuff

[Anonymous]

Isn’t it more reasonable to assume the teen girls forgot about it than assume the man is a perv?

Isn't it more reasonable to assume that OP is a suspicious for a reason, since she's the one living with her husband, than to assume that she never noticed that teen girls are forgetful?

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Isn’t it more reasonable to assume the teen girls forgot about it than assume the man is a perv?

Isn't it more reasonable to assume that OP is a suspicious for a reason, since she's the one living with her husband, than to assume that she never noticed that teen girls are forgetful?

Ding ding ding! OP is suspicious for a reason. Listen to your inner voice OP!

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Anonymous wrote:Jesus OP this is creepy AF. You need a real forensics search of his computer and hack into his phone. He is doing something very inappropriate and stop convincing yourself otherwise.

Or it’s stuff his kids forgot about. Why is that not reasonable?

When you see hoof prints why do you jump to zebras?

The kids already said it’s not theirs. This isn’t sentimental stuff. It’s tho ga that tryoicallynsug Ivy adolescent girls. Why is he hoarding it in the. Asement.

So if the teenage girls say it’s not theirs, we believe them without question, but when the man says it’s not his, he must be lying?

If I found a women’s razor in the shower, would I assume it’s my wife’s or my sons? What is logical?

Why would the girls lie? It isn’t weird stuff for a teen to have.

But if you found a pair of men’s boxers in your wife’s tote bag would you think it belonged to your sons even if they said it didn’t?

It was not in his possession, it was in the basement of his house. To use your analogy, it’s more like finding men’s boxers in the laundry and assuming she’s cheating, not assuming they’re my sons.

So you believe the teen girls when they say they don’t know where the teen girl stuff came from, but don’t believe the man when he says he has no idea, why? Isn’t it more reasonable to assume the teen girls forgot about it than assume the man is a perv?

A) only the two of them are in the house. How did backpacks full of stuff get in the basement if neither he nor OP put it there?

B) some teen girls are forgetful, but multiple backpacks of stuff?

Yeah, I don’t believe his excuse.

And I bet that if you found backpacks of used men’s stuff in your basement and your sons said they were not theirs, you wouldn’t completely dismiss the possibility your wife was up to no good.

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If OP’s DH was found to be molesting tweens and we read in WaPo that she simply accepted his claim the stuff belonged to DDs, we’d think she was dumb or in on it.

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Anonymous wrote:Jesus OP this is creepy AF. You need a real forensics search of his computer and hack into his phone. He is doing something very inappropriate and stop convincing yourself otherwise.

Or it’s stuff his kids forgot about. Why is that not reasonable?

When you see hoof prints why do you jump to zebras?

The kids already said it’s not theirs. This isn’t sentimental stuff. It’s tho ga that tryoicallynsug Ivy adolescent girls. Why is he hoarding it in the. Asement.

So if the teenage girls say it’s not theirs, we believe them without question, but when the man says it’s not his, he must be lying?

If I found a women’s razor in the shower, would I assume it’s my wife’s or my sons? What is logical?

Why would the girls lie? It isn’t weird stuff for a teen to have.

But if you found a pair of men’s boxers in your wife’s tote bag would you think it belonged to your sons even if they said it didn’t?

It was not in his possession, it was in the basement of his house. To use your analogy, it’s more like finding men’s boxers in the laundry and assuming she’s cheating, not assuming they’re my sons.

So you believe the teen girls when they say they don’t know where the teen girl stuff came from, but don’t believe the man when he says he has no idea, why? Isn’t it more reasonable to assume the teen girls forgot about it than assume the man is a perv?

A) only the two of them are in the house. How did backpacks full of stuff get in the basement if neither he nor OP put it there?

B) some teen girls are forgetful, but multiple backpacks of stuff?

Yeah, I don’t believe his excuse.

And I bet that if you found backpacks of used men’s stuff in your basement and your sons said they were not theirs, you wouldn’t completely dismiss the possibility your wife was up to no good.

You’re putting stuff in that’s not there.
OP says sone of the stuff is stuff she “thought” she tossed out and the daughters “thought” they tossed out.
OP says the youngest is in the house, so no idea why you say it’s only him or her.

I’m sure there is stuff in every basement that didn’t get tossed.

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Anonymous wrote:Jesus OP this is creepy AF. You need a real forensics search of his computer and hack into his phone. He is doing something very inappropriate and stop convincing yourself otherwise.

Or it’s stuff his kids forgot about. Why is that not reasonable?

When you see hoof prints why do you jump to zebras?

The kids already said it’s not theirs. This isn’t sentimental stuff. It’s tho ga that tryoicallynsug Ivy adolescent girls. Why is he hoarding it in the. Asement.

So if the teenage girls say it’s not theirs, we believe them without question, but when the man says it’s not his, he must be lying?

If I found a women’s razor in the shower, would I assume it’s my wife’s or my sons? What is logical?

Why would the girls lie? It isn’t weird stuff for a teen to have.

But if you found a pair of men’s boxers in your wife’s tote bag would you think it belonged to your sons even if they said it didn’t?

It was not in his possession, it was in the basement of his house. To use your analogy, it’s more like finding men’s boxers in the laundry and assuming she’s cheating, not assuming they’re my sons.

So you believe the teen girls when they say they don’t know where the teen girl stuff came from, but don’t believe the man when he says he has no idea, why? Isn’t it more reasonable to assume the teen girls forgot about it than assume the man is a perv?

A) only the two of them are in the house. How did backpacks full of stuff get in the basement if neither he nor OP put it there?

B) some teen girls are forgetful, but multiple backpacks of stuff?

Yeah, I don’t believe his excuse.

And I bet that if you found backpacks of used men’s stuff in your basement and your sons said they were not theirs, you wouldn’t completely dismiss the possibility your wife was up to no good.

You’re putting stuff in that’s not there.
OP says sone of the stuff is stuff she “thought” she tossed out and the daughters “thought” they tossed out.
OP says the youngest is in the house, so no idea why you say it’s only him or her.

I’m sure there is stuff in every basement that didn’t get tossed.

She said there were 5 pairs of pink sunglasses, and her daughters don’t like pink. Maybe a couple of things were theirs but it sounds like most were not. It is a huge red flag for me and super creepy.

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Anonymous wrote:He’s a gym coach.

OP, is this from you? Gym as in kids at school?

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Keep the stuff as evidence should a crime come to light!

[Anonymous]

This is too creepy to be a troll

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Anonymous wrote:He’s a gym coach.

OP, is this from you? Gym as in kids at school?

Please answer this OP. Your husband may be molesting students. If you think that’s in the realm of possibility you need to dig deeper before your world falls apart.

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People don’t believe women. Then they say “She must have known!”

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Abusers keep tokens from the girls they abuse? Don’t get rid of it. Investigate his computer for evidence of hooking up with teens.

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I think both. Its a susecion really since i have no concrete proof but i cant explain any other way how it got into myhouse. And somethings are just not my daughters taste. Like pink teen sunglasses. 5 of them. Both my girls find pink too girly in their teen days... etc

Could it be you bought those 5 pink teen sunglasses, or got them somewhere, but just forgot? Let's stick to exhibit A. Where did the 5 pink teen sunglasses come from? Can you absolutely rule out that you brought them into your house?

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Anonymous wrote:He’s a gym coach.

OP, is this from you? Gym as in kids at school?

Please answer this OP. Your husband may be molesting students. If you think that’s in the realm of possibility you need to dig deeper before your world falls apart.

OP here. No. He is not a gym coach.

And thanks to the other responses. Yes, indeed it’s just a gut feeling. Nothing proven unfortunately. I just hope it is not old age paranoia and any form of dementia.

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Anonymous wrote:He’s a gym coach.

OP, is this from you? Gym as in kids at school?

Please answer this OP. Your husband may be molesting students. If you think that’s in the realm of possibility you need to dig deeper before your world falls apart.

OP here. No. He is not a gym coach.

And thanks to the other responses. Yes, indeed it’s just a gut feeling. Nothing proven unfortunately. I just hope it is not old age paranoia and any form of dementia.

Because all other alternatives are way better?
Er... no, not really. Not all of them.