Is there a legit reason for this sketchy behavior

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Or maybe like he said he has some anxiety about his place.

I would be hard to make an airbnb look and feel like his personal home as his personal effects wouldn't be there. Airbnbs are either someone's personal home they use (and you can see all their personal effects) or they are staged / basic furniture and necessities with no personal effects.

I don't jump to always assuming the worst about everyone. I don't want others to do that about me.

It took NINE months to see his place.
If there’s a gut feeling that something is wrong, listen to it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He has a wife and he took you to an Airbnb

This was my thought. It wasn’t his place. Does he claim he owns? You can look up property records.

[Anonymous]

Look him up on white pages and see the address and known associates/relatives. But mostly, trust your gut.

[Anonymous]

Seriously wrong. I mean 9 months??? Dump him asap.

[Anonymous]

Mail him a letter and then ask him about it a week later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mail him a letter and then ask him about it a week later.

Oh and make it super sexy and playful — then it’s deniable as a trap but if DW is in fact a thing — boom!!

I’ll bet it was his place, but DW out of town finally.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mail him a letter and then ask him about it a week later.

Early on a weekend morning, get some baked goods and coffee. Go to his house and surprise him with breakfast.

[Anonymous]

Where did you meet this guy?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Definitely hiding something. This reminds me of the hoarding date thread

Remember the person suggesting that the guy could have rented all the junk to gauge his date’s reaction?

[Anonymous]

Has he been spending the night at your place during these nine months? If so, who’s been taking care of the dog?

[Anonymous]

Just look up his address on “block shopper” it states who the owners are

[Anonymous]

Where are you OP? We need some answers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Even if he’s not hiding another woman, you don’t really want to be with someone that secretive or who freaks out that much over minor damage.

+1

[Anonymous]

Like a pp said, look him up on whitepages and see if there is a relative listed. Also does he say he owns this place? If it's in DC you can look up the address on the real property database and see whose name it is in. And I haven't done anything on the airbnb website myself but you can probably find this place on the website if that's what it is. At any rate, the whole thing sounds off, even if he is telling you the absolute truth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mail him a letter and then ask him about it a week later.

Oh and make it super sexy and playful — then it’s deniable as a trap but if DW is in fact a thing — boom!!

I’ll bet it was his place, but DW out of town finally.

This is a great idea.