Am I the only one that thinks farting in front of spouses should be avoided?
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Anonymous
| Really? |
Anonymous
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If the person sneezes or farts in their sleep, that is okay.
But to those that fart intentionally is rude, crude + just lewd. |
Anonymous
| After 3 kids I really can’t control it all the time. DH doesn’t even try though, so IDGAF. |
Anonymous
Love how you put this. +1 |
Anonymous
What do you mean by that? Is it hard to control farts after having children? |
Anonymous
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What happens if you poop and clog the toilet? Do u ask dh to unclog?
Have u never had diarrhea? Do you tell your dh u r sick and running to the bathroom? Where do ubfart? |
Anonymous
| meh, when he farts I release mine too. His are a special level of toxic, leaving mine undetected. |
Anonymous
| I don't want to smell it and no one else does either. I haven't had a reason to change a tampon in front of my husband, but he wouldn't be sticking his nose in it. And NHIE asked him to unclog my toilet. I'm not helpless and again, won't subject someone to butt smell if possible. |
Anonymous
Do you feel attracted to him? Has smelling his farts taken a toll on your sex life? |
Anonymous
| Married 29 years. I ask him to pull my finger. Makes us laugh (and I'm remarkably uptight about other things). |
Anonymous
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Meh. As someone who has a family member with IBS, and has dated someone with Crohn's to the point they've been hospitalized, I've learned sometimes it's literally not possible to control gas, awake or asleep.
I think if you're doing it deliberately it's rude, but if you have GI issues you cannot be running to the bathroom every time you have to pass gas unless it's a professional situation. Even then, they simply don't always have enough "notice" and I don't judge a coworker or friend for these reasons, even if I don't know their medical situation. The people I've known have tried to manage it with meds, avoiding certain foods, walking/climbing stairs alone at certain times of day, and they'll do what they can to avoid it, but in some situations it will happen with others there, and that's just going to have to be OK. |
Anonymous
Sometimes there is just one stall, so we go in together. Travel much? |
Anonymous
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So my DH and I avoid it and I am comfortable with that.
But, the couple I know who are more comfortable with farting and peeing in front of each seem more relaxed and open with each other. That’s just my observation...all relationships are different and the only thing that matters is that the two people are happy and fulfilled. I’m definitely not about to start trapping DH in a Dutch oven anytime soon. |
Anonymous
No, I unclog myself, but this has happened once in about 8 years and he wasn’t home. Yes, but I can be discreet about it. I’ve mentioned if my stomach hurts or I don’t feel well. No need to announce that I’m sh*tting myself it make dramatic exits from the bathroom or make a lot of noise. In another room. Is this really so hard to understand? |
Anonymous
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Uptight people...
I guess you don’t have bowel movements. Nor do you bleed like stuck pigs once a month. Your DH didn’t see the birth of your child or children. It’s life... |