Am I the only one that thinks farting in front of spouses should be avoided?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know of several women and been on other online forums with women stating they fart iopenly n front of their partners/spouses. Their reasoning is there not going to hold on to their fart so they don’t ruin their body and also farting in front of their other half shows their both comfortable around each other. I might be in the minority, but I find it absolutely repulsive and disgusting.

If my partner ever farted in front of me, I would get turned off from him. A one off or accident is ok, compared to it being the norm. If people don’t fart openly in front of their friends or co-workers, why can’t they show the same respect in front of their spouses. Getting up and farting in the toilet or different room isn’t asking for much.

I don’t understand how a woman or man can just fart in front of their spouses and smell such disgust, then go on later be intimate. I feel farting kills attraction and affects the relationship negativity.

What are your thoughts? Does anyone fart or have spouses that fart in front of each other? Do you still feel attracted to them?

Do you understand how a woman or man can dress up like a superhero to turn their partner on?
Is that as perplexing?
Well...people do...doesn't kill their attraction or affect their relationship negatively.

Do you understand how a woman or man can break out blindfolds, handcuffs, whips, etc during sex?
Is that as perplexing?
Well...people do...doesn't kill their attraction or affect their relationship negatively.

Do you understand how a woman or man can bring condiments, fruits, yogurts, whipped creams, salad dressings, etc. into the bedroom?
Is that as perplexing?
Well...people do...doesn't kill their attraction or affect their relationship negatively.

Salad dressing?

[Anonymous]

We both avoid it but it's no big deal if it happens. After 20 years, there isn't anything I haven't already heard and smelled.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know of several women and been on other online forums with women stating they fart iopenly n front of their partners/spouses. Their reasoning is there not going to hold on to their fart so they don’t ruin their body and also farting in front of their other half shows their both comfortable around each other. I might be in the minority, but I find it absolutely repulsive and disgusting.

If my partner ever farted in front of me, I would get turned off from him. A one off or accident is ok, compared to it being the norm. If people don’t fart openly in front of their friends or co-workers, why can’t they show the same respect in front of their spouses. Getting up and farting in the toilet or different room isn’t asking for much.

I don’t understand how a woman or man can just fart in front of their spouses and smell such disgust, then go on later be intimate. I feel farting kills attraction and affects the relationship negativity.

What are your thoughts? Does anyone fart or have spouses that fart in front of each other? Do you still feel attracted to them?

Totally with you. If my partner ever will let winds in front of me, I will think that he is treating me like an animal.
Excuses - in his sleep illness, etc..

[Anonymous]

Oh my god, who cares. Such a minor thing.

[Anonymous]

No changing menstrual pads in front of your partner either!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s gross if I do it but not if my DH does. According to him.

Same here. DH is grossed out when I fart but will rip one in front of me.

That being said, I can hear his from across the house, so leaving the room to fart wouldn't really help anyway.

[Anonymous]

I don’t really care if DH does it but I prefer to keep a little mystery. I think he prefers it too. I never understand people who actually sh*t in front of their partner. Disgusting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know of several women and been on other online forums with women stating they fart iopenly n front of their partners/spouses. Their reasoning is there not going to hold on to their fart so they don’t ruin their body and also farting in front of their other half shows their both comfortable around each other. I might be in the minority, but I find it absolutely repulsive and disgusting.

If my partner ever farted in front of me, I would get turned off from him. A one off or accident is ok, compared to it being the norm. If people don’t fart openly in front of their friends or co-workers, why can’t they show the same respect in front of their spouses. Getting up and farting in the toilet or different room isn’t asking for much.

I don’t understand how a woman or man can just fart in front of their spouses and smell such disgust, then go on later be intimate. I feel farting kills attraction and affects the relationship negativity.

What are your thoughts? Does anyone fart or have spouses that fart in front of each other? Do you still feel attracted to them?

Ah, just wait until you're pregnant OP. Or maybe you'll be one of the women who insists your DH can't see what's going on or join you in the delivery room because you're too self conscious.

It's a pretty sad way to live life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No changing menstrual pads in front of your partner either!

Is that a thing? I don't even pee in front of my husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No changing menstrual pads in front of your partner either!

Is that a thing? I don't even pee in front of my husband.

Seriously? We’ve shared a stall while traveling.

[Anonymous]

You’re not the only one.

[Anonymous]

DH has done it occasionally and laughs and pretends he did not do it. I think it happened to me once or twice (together 8 years). I would NEVER poop in front of him and if I have to pee and for some reason he is in the same bathroom as me, I ask him to turnaround. Exceptionsto all of this are my two (about to be three) C sections. Then he actually helped me to the bathroom the first day, pee, blood, but still no pooop

[Anonymous]

I agree OP. I have a loving, totally non uptight marriage and DH and I don't pass gas in front of each other (or OMG poop. People really are vulgar). In 17 years it's slipped out a few time by accident, we both just laugh and get on with life. But to just let one rip while we're sitting watching TV or out for walk or whatever? Just tacky.

[Anonymous]

Been married 6 years and we also don't fart in front of each other unless it's an accident. We also close the door when using the bathroom, whether #1 or #2. A master bathroom with a separate water closet was non negotiable for us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No changing menstrual pads in front of your partner either!

Is that a thing? I don't even pee in front of my husband.

Seriously? We’ve shared a stall while traveling.

Why? I can't think of a scenario where that would be needed.