ILs sleeping in master while staying to watch kids?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It is not weird for them to sleep in your room.

If you did not have a guest bedroom, where would they sleep? I know many couples who have their guests (parents and the like) sleep in their bed and they take the murphy bed or blow up bed on the floor when guests comes.

Moot question. There is a guest room, with a comfortable queen-size bed.

I don't think you know what that phrase means.

Ok, then "moot point."

OP does have a guest bedroom. What is the point of talking about what people who don't have guest bedrooms do?

[Anonymous]

Master is completely off limits if you have a nice, dedicated guest room. I don't want someone in my bathroom, going through my drawers or anything.

I'm going into labor soon and my guest room is still under construction. No way will I let my inlaws stay in my master bedroom. I don't want to do sheets when I return from giving birth and who knows what mess we'll leave if I go into labor in the middle of the night or something. My parents are watching our other kids though at their house and they have a nice guest room that they've offered to my inlaws. Or there's always a hotel.

[Anonymous]

If my in-laws ever slept in my bed I’d get rid of it. Yuck.

[Anonymous]

Master bedroom gets locked so the kids don't get into anything -- it's got private stuff, and you will fully stock the other bathroom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If my in-laws ever slept in my bed I’d get rid of it. Yuck.

How do you feel about sleeping in hotel beds?

[Anonymous]

It seems to me the boundary crossing is the bigger deal - they are going to have access to your children and your entire house when you are not there. Which bed they sleep in seems like small fries.

[Anonymous]

I think it makes sense for some houses, not as much for others.
Can we all agree on that?
Totnhe posters who are only weirded out by ‘but we have sex there!’ ...you are odd.

It’s like...did you do it there JUST before ILs arrived? No way. You wash it the day of or the day before if it’s an early departure. I mean they know you have sex. It’s not a big deal.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:If my in-laws ever slept in my bed I’d get rid of it. Yuck.

How do you feel about sleeping in hotel beds?

Are you always so literal?

[Anonymous]

They are providing you with multiple days of child care for multiple children. I would be fainting with gratitude.
Their comfort trumps yours. Be nice and give them the best room!
You can scoop up your most personal items and stash them in a bag somewhere to preserve your privacy.

[Anonymous]

I got talked into letting my ILs sleep in our bed on one visit, I was disgusted and repulsed and I still literally shudder when I think about it. Yuck.

[Anonymous]

It's kind of weird, but you'd be using different linens and everything and you could take the pillows out of the guest room and put them in the master for their stay. Agree with the PP who said you could stash any embarrassing stuff out of the way prior to their arrival.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They are providing you with multiple days of child care for multiple children. I would be fainting with gratitude.
Their comfort trumps yours. Be nice and give them the best room!
You can scoop up your most personal items and stash them in a bag somewhere to preserve your privacy.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would think sleeping in the master was weird but it wouldn’t be the hill I would die on.

I was so waiting for the ubiquitous HILL TO DIE ON comment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's kind of weird, but you'd be using different linens and everything and you could take the pillows out of the guest room and put them in the master for their stay. Agree with the PP who said you could stash any embarrassing stuff out of the way prior to their arrival.

But who wants to return from a vacation or hospital stay and then immediately have to wash all their sheets in their master bedroom and see someone else's toothpaste stains in their master sinks? Blech.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's kind of weird, but you'd be using different linens and everything and you could take the pillows out of the guest room and put them in the master for their stay. Agree with the PP who said you could stash any embarrassing stuff out of the way prior to their arrival.

But who wants to return from a vacation or hospital stay and then immediately have to wash all their sheets in their master bedroom and see someone else's toothpaste stains in their master sinks? Blech.

So ask them to toss their sheets in the washer. Sheesh. People who rely on free childcare can't be such princesses.