End of January - any sex yet?

[Anonymous]

Age- 41 male
Married - 20 years
Kids -2
Sex since January 1st - 3 times
Satisfaction level: I jerk off a lot

[Anonymous]

36M
35F
Married a year
No kids
6, I think?

We're in a weird TTC mode where he gets a little worn out (wrung out?) during the fertile period, so we don't have sex a lot outside of it. So, like 5 days in a row and maybe once or twice outside of that.

[Anonymous]

M 51
Married 22 years
4 kids
0 times
Several rejections
Kids all away next weekend. Naked or else....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:36M
35F
Married a year
No kids
6, I think?

We're in a weird TTC mode where he gets a little worn out (wrung out?) during the fertile period, so we don't have sex a lot outside of it. So, like 5 days in a row and maybe once or twice outside of that.

Oh, man. You made me flashback to TTC sex. I like sex, but I started to hate TTC sex. It made me sympathetic to all the women who rightfully object to the suggestion that they just lay back and take it twice a week or whatever schedule their DH thinks they should be on.

[Anonymous]

41F
39M
Married 14 years
2 elementary aged kids
Maybe 5-6 times.

[Anonymous]

35F
Married 5 years
1 kid
0 times
F

[Anonymous]

46 F
56 M
Married 15 years
2 13 year olds
Sex in January: 18 times

Satisfaction level: we're both very satisfied.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:36M
35F
Married a year
No kids
6, I think?

We're in a weird TTC mode where he gets a little worn out (wrung out?) during the fertile period, so we don't have sex a lot outside of it. So, like 5 days in a row and maybe once or twice outside of that.

Oh, man. You made me flashback to TTC sex. I like sex, but I started to hate TTC sex. It made me sympathetic to all the women who rightfully object to the suggestion that they just lay back and take it twice a week or whatever schedule their DH thinks they should be on.

Agree that a partner should NEVER just "lay back and take it". However, if you are feeling sexually pressured by a completely reasonable schedule (ie, twice a week) which in fact is the exact same baseline schedule established earlier in your dating/marriage, well that's a different story entirely! If indeed this is your situation, then YOU have changed, and it is YOU who needs to find a fix to this problem: find your libido, open the marriage for him, divorce and find a low-drive partner that you don't need to "lay back and take it" for.

[Anonymous]

lie back and think of england

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Female age 63, yes 63
Married 36 years
Kids and grandkids
5 or 6 times
Satisfaction level - very high. We both still really enjoy it!

Heeeeellllll to the yeah!!!!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:36M
35F
Married a year
No kids
6, I think?

We're in a weird TTC mode where he gets a little worn out (wrung out?) during the fertile period, so we don't have sex a lot outside of it. So, like 5 days in a row and maybe once or twice outside of that.

Oh, man. You made me flashback to TTC sex. I like sex, but I started to hate TTC sex. It made me sympathetic to all the women who rightfully object to the suggestion that they just lay back and take it twice a week or whatever schedule their DH thinks they should be on.

Agree that a partner should NEVER just "lay back and take it". However, if you are feeling sexually pressured by a completely reasonable schedule (ie, twice a week) which in fact is the exact same baseline schedule established earlier in your dating/marriage, well that's a different story entirely! If indeed this is your situation, then YOU have changed, and it is YOU who needs to find a fix to this problem: find your libido, open the marriage for him, divorce and find a low-drive partner that you don't need to "lay back and take it" for.

Just replying to say that the immediate PP who apparently thinks men are entitled to demand sex on their schedule is not me, the TTC poster. But I guess this nutbar is an example of sexual frustration run amok?

[Anonymous]

39 F
43 M
Married 16 Years
Two kids 4 and 2
2 Times

Not enough for me. H has been sick a lot this month as have our two kids causing them to wake up. Hopefully February is better.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had a New Year's resolution, sadly not shared by my DH, of having sex twice a week. It hasn't worked out that way. Here are my stats, please share yours.

Age- 43 female
Married - 15 years
Kids -3
Sex since January 1st - 3 times
Satisfaction level: better than none but I'm in my prime, I'm fit and I'm adventuresome.

None for me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:36M
35F
Married a year
No kids
6, I think?

We're in a weird TTC mode where he gets a little worn out (wrung out?) during the fertile period, so we don't have sex a lot outside of it. So, like 5 days in a row and maybe once or twice outside of that.

Oh, man. You made me flashback to TTC sex. I like sex, but I started to hate TTC sex. It made me sympathetic to all the women who rightfully object to the suggestion that they just lay back and take it twice a week or whatever schedule their DH thinks they should be on.

TTC sucked the life out of sex. Also, we had sex 2 out of every 3 days, and DH got sore. Is that normal for a man to get sore doing it not even every day?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:22 or so times if BJ counts.

50yo make. 3 kids (2 and 2 Brady bunch style). Together 3 years.

2+2=3?

That's some crazy blended-family math that I don't understand.