End of January - any sex yet?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:It feels like most of these posts are written by men posing as women. Just saying.

what does this mean?

It means PP is a low-drive woman who believes all women are sex negative like herself.

It means some posters are men in sexless marriages fantasizing that some married women are very sexually active.

Don’t be bitter.

not my situation, so not bitter. Just telling it like it is.

[Anonymous]

35 F
49 M
1 child who is 5
Together 6 years

I would say we average about 2-4 times a week, but this month we had two trips involved and there was sex multiple times a day, so for the month of January, I would say about 20 times. I would say we are pretty satisfied. I know he still masturbates to porn even if we are having regular sex, so I guess that goes back to the conclusion that men still jerk off to porn and want to have sex w/ their partners, lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:35 F
49 M
1 child who is 5
Together 6 years

I would say we average about 2-4 times a week, but this month we had two trips involved and there was sex multiple times a day, so for the month of January, I would say about 20 times. I would say we are pretty satisfied. I know he still masturbates to porn even if we are having regular sex, so I guess that goes back to the conclusion that men still jerk off to porn and want to have sex w/ their partners, lol.

Let me guess: his first marriage was low sex? But then he divorced and quickly found a much younger partner with a healthy sex drive. Guys, take notes: if you are 40+ with a disinterested wife, the trade in strategy works!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:35 F
49 M
1 child who is 5
Together 6 years

I would say we average about 2-4 times a week, but this month we had two trips involved and there was sex multiple times a day, so for the month of January, I would say about 20 times. I would say we are pretty satisfied. I know he still masturbates to porn even if we are having regular sex, so I guess that goes back to the conclusion that men still jerk off to porn and want to have sex w/ their partners, lol.

Let me guess: his first marriage was low sex? But then he divorced and quickly found a much younger partner with a healthy sex drive. Guys, take notes: if you are 40+ with a disinterested wife, the trade in strategy works!

Yes, his first marriage of 18 years had basically turned sexless.We met about a year after his divorce and I was hitting my prime sexually. The trade in worked! LOL

[Anonymous]

39F
44M
2 kids - 3.5 and 18 mo
Married 12 years
Zero

Since New Years, all 4 of us have been sick at various times. I still am. My work schedule has been rough. The entire month has just sucked. Here’s hoping February is better all around!

[Anonymous]

36 F
36 M
2 kids: 4 and 2
Married 7 years
Approx 2x week, so ~8 times?

I’m 5 months pregnant and not in the mood as much as I used to be. But trying to pack it in before I get to be truly whale-like. We’re also in a bit of a rut staying up too late working/reading/DCUMing and not f*ing.

[Anonymous]

46 F
46 M
2 kids: 11
Married 18 years

We average 3x a week, sometimes more. So 12x in Jan.

[Anonymous]

Mid 50s M married to mid 50s woman.
3 grown children
Married 25+ yrs
Seems we hit about 3-4 times/week and January was no exception, so ~15 times and once in Feb. Nothing gets her hotter than Groundhog day.

[Anonymous]

Mid 50 m, early 50w. No sex since sometime in November. Wife just is not in the mood. I have given up trying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mid 50 m, early 50w. No sex since sometime in November. Wife just is not in the mood. I have given up trying.

Wife is not in the mood... with you. The good news is many women are exactly like your wife: not in the mood .... with their husbands. Stop giving your wife any attention, she no longer has earned your affection. Treat her like the platonic roommate that she is. Shift all of your passionate energy to some other married woman who will be thrilled to have some male attention! This is what get women in the mood: a new attentive guy. Your sexual problem is solved.

[Anonymous]

Roughly 1x a week here. I thought that was decent until reading here! F 37 M 35, married 13 years, 2 kids ages 9 and 6.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Roughly 1x a week here. I thought that was decent until reading here! F 37 M 35, married 13 years, 2 kids ages 9 and 6.

Thank you! Same age and we are 2X per week and we are doing fine! If my DH ever saw what was going on in January he'd say WTF!

[Anonymous]

'drought' ended on day 34

[Anonymous]

Well, I'm at twice since Saturday, expect once more before Friday ...