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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]36M
35F
Married a year
No kids
6, I think?

We're in a weird TTC mode where he gets a little worn out (wrung out?) during the fertile period, so we don't have sex a lot outside of it.  So, like 5 days in a row and maybe once or twice outside of that.[/quote]

Oh, man. You made me flashback to TTC sex. I like sex, but I started to hate TTC sex. It made me sympathetic to all the women who rightfully object to the suggestion that they just lay back and take it twice a week or whatever schedule their DH thinks they should be on. [/quote]

Agree that a partner should NEVER just "lay back and take it".  However, if you are feeling sexually pressured by a completely reasonable schedule (ie, twice a week) which in fact is the exact same baseline schedule established earlier in your dating/marriage, well that's a different story entirely! If indeed this is your situation, then YOU have changed, and it is YOU who needs to find a fix to this problem: find your libido, open the marriage for him, divorce and find a low-drive partner that you don't need to "lay back and take it" for.[/quote]

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