New husband was a douche on wedding night

[Anonymous]

Damn. I spent so much money on my wedding that neither DH, nor I got passed buzzed. I wanted to have fond memories of every part of my wedding. And he pulled out the stops on the wedding night!

[Anonymous]

Also, the people focusing on you mad about him getting drunk are missing the point. It is that he was totally unapologetic that he upset you. If this were me, and it well could have been, I would have said I was really sorry I got out of hand.

[Anonymous]

His drinking will not get better. Leave him now before you have children and perpetuate the cycle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Damn. I spent so much money on my wedding that neither DH, nor I got passed buzzed. I wanted to have fond memories of every part of my wedding. And he pulled out the stops on the wedding night!

He should pull out a book on homophones for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Also, the people focusing on you mad about him getting drunk are missing the point. It is that he was totally unapologetic that he upset you. If this were me, and it well could have been, I would have said I was really sorry I got out of hand.

Well if he feels she was irrationally upset (which it sounds like to me, and yes I am a woman) then he shouldn’t apologize for anything.

[Anonymous]

You both sound immature.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, the people focusing on you mad about him getting drunk are missing the point. It is that he was totally unapologetic that he upset you. If this were me, and it well could have been, I would have said I was really sorry I got out of hand.

Well if he feels she was irrationally upset (which it sounds like to me, and yes I am a woman) then he shouldn’t apologize for anything.

+1. She berated a drunk man in public in front of his friends, saying she was embarassed and disappointed, and she expected this drunk man to take that peacefully.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Also, the people focusing on you mad about him getting drunk are missing the point. It is that he was totally unapologetic that he upset you. If this were me, and it well could have been, I would have said I was really sorry I got out of hand.

Well if he feels she was irrationally upset (which it sounds like to me, and yes I am a woman) then he shouldn’t apologize for anything.

+1. She berated a drunk man in public in front of his friends, saying she was embarassed and disappointed, and she expected this drunk man to take that peacefully.

LOL you sound crazy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:do it. leave. better to get it over with sooner rather than later.

Agree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are crazy. He got drunk on your wedding night (which hundreds of thousands of people do) and you feel disrespected and cried yourself to sleep? You sound like a drama queen.

He picked a fight with her in front of their friends. Does your SO treat you like this?

Does dragging someone in front of their friends, and telling him how disappointed and embarrassed you are by him, also count as picking a fight?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You are crazy. He got drunk on your wedding night (which hundreds of thousands of people do) and you feel disrespected and cried yourself to sleep? You sound like a drama queen.

He picked a fight with her in front of their friends. Does your SO treat you like this?

Does dragging someone in front of their friends, and telling him how disappointed and embarrassed you are by him, also count as picking a fight?

No. Go away, alcoholic loser.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a Festivus marriage

[Anonymous]

I can't believe so many people are recommending you leave your husband over this! That's a little dramatic. You love each other! You guys just took vows!

Yes, you have a right to be mad at him for getting so drunk on such a special night for you guys. But this is something you can both work through, forgive, forget and maybe even laugh about some day.

It sounds like he may have a drinking problem - which can lead to his anger/violence on occasion. You should help him get any help he needs.

[Anonymous]

OP, here's a secret -- NOONE has that fantasy wedding night. Everyone's either too drunk or too tired. You're being an asshole.

[Anonymous]

Oh my God he does not sound like he has a drinking problem. He sounds like a regular guy who had fun with his buddies he doesn’t get to see all the time. You people are out of your minds.