Muscles = More Sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP it sounds like you are still doing it only once per week?
In other words, your wife might be alot more flirty and playful, but you STILL don't have a decent sex life. I definitely would not be OK with just once per week.

“Decent sex life” is subjective. If both OP and his wife are happy, your opinion is utterly meaningless.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think society has guilted women into being ashamed of wanting hot guys and that "looks shouldn't matter". But, they do.

No doubt women find hot guys more attractive. But that does not equate to more sex.
Women need much better reasons than "hot guy" before desiring sex.

DW of 21 years. Hot guy=animal magnetism=sex.

I need no other reason than my DH is totally hot and we have an active sex life.

[Anonymous]

Dh lost 30 lbs this year and started working out with me. He now has a very fit, trim figure but his face is also more attractive (he gained weight there first, now he has a jawline again). I appreciate it. I also stepped up my game, diet/lifting wise, and at 47 weigh 2 lbs over what I did when we met.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In my house, sex happens when my wife feels sexy. I was in much better shape in my 30s and no sex because kids were little. Now, decent sex life because she works out and isn't exhausted

Point being, it's almost never about what he is doing it's about her.

"Things fat weak husbands too lazy to get their asses to the gym say"

Not true. Women need an emotional connection. I read it here.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In my house, sex happens when my wife feels sexy. I was in much better shape in my 30s and no sex because kids were little. Now, decent sex life because she works out and isn't exhausted

Point being, it's almost never about what he is doing it's about her.

"Things fat weak husbands too lazy to get their asses to the gym say"

Not true. Women need an emotional connection. I read it here.

Indeed. That is why it is 100& un-possible to go to a bar on Friday or Saturday night and find a woman willing to have meaningless sex with a total stranger.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:mmmm muscles. Yes. I'd do him more.

+1

+2

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Anonymous wrote:Your kids are older. She is no longer exhausted.

Your working out makes you less angry and she's happy you aren't always on her case.

OP here. We've always had a pretty good relationship. Also, like I mentioned above, she's a very driven Type A personality who has had a strong career and is an overachiever at home as well. There's really nothing for me to get on her case about.

You probably not that self aware and in my brevity I did not explain the well.

1) I don't know 1 biker that is not a douce. I know you don't think you are like them, but you are.

2) while you were "training" your wife was raising children. Resentment kills the sexy life.

It's nice you are finally engaged with your family, don't spend hours away fro them and have lost the "biker mentality" congrats, you are benefiting.

When I was an avid racer I would use the trainer early in the morning (before the kid was up), or at lunch. On Saturday, my wife and I agreed upon me being able to use 7:00AM - 12:00 as my weekend training time. And I would never claim to do more than her but we have always had an agreed upon split for housework. As far as our son, I'm a very engaged parent - including homework, Scouting, sports, etc. I've even taken a class in Singapore Math as that's what his school teaches and it allows me to be better at helping with his homework.



Assuming that every husband is disengaged at home is just wrong as is assuming that all cyclist are douches.

Thou doth protest too much he thinks!


Sure it's you muscles biker boy, especially in your racer shirt.




#insufferable

[Anonymous]

Idk my guy is over weight but I find him extremely attractive! (I'm not overweight if that's the next question...)

[Anonymous]

OP, is your wife around 39-40 years old?

[Anonymous]

On Saturday, my wife and I agreed upon me being able to use 7:00AM - 12:00 as my weekend training time

[Anonymous]

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On Saturday, my wife and I agreed upon me being able to use 7:00AM - 12:00 as my weekend training time

I know, right?!?! Those are prime golfing hours!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:mmmm muscles. Yes. I'd do him more.

+1

Yes please! Muscles and a BIG "D"!

+1

[Anonymous]

Yes, you’re now better looking and she notices women notice you. But keep doing it for you, not her.

Keep hitting the gym...more plates more dates brah..

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In my house, sex happens when my wife feels sexy. I was in much better shape in my 30s and no sex because kids were little. Now, decent sex life because she works out and isn't exhausted

Point being, it's almost never about what he is doing it's about her.

"Things fat weak husbands too lazy to get their asses to the gym say"

Not true. Women need an emotional connection. I read it here.

Indeed. That is why it is 100& un-possible to go to a bar on Friday or Saturday night and find a woman willing to have meaningless sex with a total stranger.

Even if she’s married...

Source - me. Be in shape, have muscles and wear good form fitting cloths and have good hygiene. Most married women at the bar are looking for another guy to have fun with. If you’re more attractive than her husband it will be your lucky night. Married women are great in bed - just not with their husbands.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In my house, sex happens when my wife feels sexy. I was in much better shape in my 30s and no sex because kids were little. Now, decent sex life because she works out and isn't exhausted

Point being, it's almost never about what he is doing it's about her.

"Things fat weak husbands too lazy to get their asses to the gym say"

Not true. Women need an emotional connection. I read it here.

Sure they do. But they already have an emotional connection. Now his body is signaling it has more testosterone with the visible muscles and that's attractive to women on a basic animalistic level. So she's more attracted to him. Could also be that she's less tired and that her sex drive kicked in due to age.