Muscles = More Sex?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men, not sure what you are debating - this is simple:

Most women have responsive desire. She is going to be more turned on by the charming if somewhat overweight and balding new guy over her more fit but known husband. It's newness at that point.

Women are visual of course but not to the degree as men. Most women are repulsed by Paulie D even though he has all the muscles you could ask for. It's not about the body but of course all else being equal, women prefer a good body.

After high school, assholes don't really get laid. There is a difference between confidence and cockiness. It's the confidence that women swoon over.

Confident, flirty, funny, well-dressed is the key. Not the muscles but of course those don't hurt.

absolute nonsense. And what one woman deems confidence another deems cockiness. Assholes continued to get laid every day well after high school by women send mixed messages and typically hide behind the excuse of "needing an emotional connection" to keep the good, nice guys at bay while they get used by the narcissists and assholes.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men, not sure what you are debating - this is simple:

Most women have responsive desire. She is going to be more turned on by the charming if somewhat overweight and balding new guy over her more fit but known husband. It's newness at that point.

Women are visual of course but not to the degree as men. Most women are repulsed by Paulie D even though he has all the muscles you could ask for. It's not about the body but of course all else being equal, women prefer a good body.

After high school, assholes don't really get laid. There is a difference between confidence and cockiness. It's the confidence that women swoon over.

Confident, flirty, funny, well-dressed is the key. Not the muscles but of course those don't hurt.

LOL sure thing. "Confidence" is what you like about the jerk before he dumps you. "Asshole cockiness" is what you hate about the jerk after he dumps you. But it's the same jerk.

Assholes get laid at ALL ages.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In my house, sex happens when my wife feels sexy. I was in much better shape in my 30s and no sex because kids were little. Now, decent sex life because she works out and isn't exhausted

Point being, it's almost never about what he is doing it's about her.

"Things fat weak husbands too lazy to get their asses to the gym say"

Not true. Women need an emotional connection. I read it here.

Sure they do. But they already have an emotional connection. Now his body is signaling it has more testosterone with the visible muscles and that's attractive to women on a basic animalistic level. So she's more attracted to him. Could also be that she's less tired and that her sex drive kicked in due to age.

PP you are replying to, and of course, all things being equal, a better body on a man will be a plus. But in my experience, you are going to get laid more as a heavy guy if married to a woman with a high sex drive than an in-shape guy married to a woman with a low sex drive. It's her that is the gatekeeper.

Sire. But we are tqlking about the same guy who now happens to be more muscular and is getting more sex from his same wife. If he was single and could measure how much sex and attention he got before the muscles and after that would be a different calculation. Sex drive also ebbs during a mans and a woman's lifetime.

[Anonymous]

Guy here. Not muscular but fit. The problem with most of us is that there is not enough data. For long term relationships, I probably looked the same, so there was no more or less physical attraction if I worked out more. And if someone was more into me at the beginning, I can't be sure if it was because they found me attractive or because they just liked hanging out with me. I am very interested in more women weighing in about whether you think more muscles equates to more desire.

[Anonymous]

In other news, water makes you wet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:In other news, water makes you wet.

Apparently, so do muscles.

[Anonymous]

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In other news, water makes you wet.

Apparently, so do muscles.

LOL you win the thread. Also, very true.

[Anonymous]

Of course, the idea of getting to sleep with a hot guy with muscles is exciting. Where do you think this nebulus "chemistry" comes from? OK, thats not it entirely but it sure helps.

[Anonymous]

Your wife has turned into Harvey Weinstein. Congrats.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In other news, water makes you wet.

Apparently, so do muscles.

Single guy here. Just joined a gym.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In other news, water makes you wet.

Apparently, so do muscles.

Single guy here. Just joined a gym.

LOL. Go get'em!