How can I convince my husband to get a vasectomy?
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Anonymous
Wow - lots of pent up male frustration, huh? 
Dude should just get snipped. What's the big deal? |
Anonymous
Yup. |
Anonymous
| How do you deal with your hubby on all the bigger issues in life? |
Anonymous
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So essentially no one has any advice save for the mandate to strong arm him like a friggin mob boss into doing as he's told - yeah sounds like the makings of a wonderful loving marriage.
We'll see you in a couple months OP when you're seeking advice about divorce. Hopefully you'll get better feedback. |
Anonymous
There's no other advice. He's an immature ass. -snipped man again |
Anonymous
It's not strong arming him. It's putting him in charge of the birth control. He has 3 choices he can make: condoms, snip or no sex. The choice is his. |
Anonymous
+1. I don't understand why men are so confused about this. Birth control is a must. As a woman I have been in charge of BC for my entire life, time for the dude to step up. |
Anonymous
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Whether or not the husband is being stubborn or immature or selfish is not the issue.
The woman asked for advice of how to convince him and all you can seem to come up with is her locking her legs tight until he caves. Can anyone think of any other way to convince him besides that? |
Anonymous
Well, when my petulant toddler won't do the right thing, I turn it around and talk about the reward. "If you get snipped or use a condom, we can have sex again!" Seems like that's the other alternative with this guy. |
Anonymous
Why is it her job to "convince him?" She is simply looking out for her health and well-being and has now said she is no longer going to bear the burden of birth control. What he does after that is up to him. |
Anonymous
+1 |
Anonymous
Ok sure. OP please sit down your husband and say that you understand his fears but that you feel like your body has been through a lot and you would appreciate if he participated in your family's reproductive responsibilities by having a vasectomy. The thing is PP I think she's probably already had that conversation. And he still won't do it. So what other ideas do you want? Tell your husband you will bake him a cake if he does this for you! Tell your husband he can have a weekend with the guys on his own if he does this! |
Anonymous
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Who said its her job?
Who said he shouldn't be more cooperative and step-up? Nobody's defending the chickenshit husband - yeah he needs to grow a pair, that's a given. I'M WONDERING IF ANYONE HAS ANY ADVICE ASIDE FROM DEPRIVATION THAT COULD POSSIBLY PERSUADE THIS DUDE TO GET IT DONE!!! No one's mentioned having him talk to a doctor to calm his fears of how painful the procedure is... No one's mentioned having him talk to a therapist to calm his worries of losing his manhood... All y'all just --- lol, fuck it I'm out. Enjoy |
Anonymous
Here is a suggestion: the husband should continue his education, or, start it. He actually does not seem too intelligent. Here are the reasons: KIDS, the cost or more kids, and, the COSTS COSTS COSTS. It seems neither wants them. They are on the same page. The DH does not want to lose his manhood - well, it seems he has survived his lobotomy just fine. If that is still not good enough: it is quick, easy, painless, and most likely 100% covered by insurance. It will get him a nap. And it works. |
Anonymous
She's his wife, not his mother. Do you need this much hand holding to do the right thing? |