S/O - Ladies, would you rather have sex with another man than your husband?
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Anonymous
I don't have a dog in that fight, so I don't care what the answer is. I was just trying to make sense of it and cut through all the ifs and buts. |
Anonymous
Because husbands get to be fat, lazy and turn into beta makes. In fact studies show as women reach ovulation there more likely to cheat, and with men that are usually more muscular, defined jaw and display more asshole like qualities - of their current partner doesn't have those traits. It was just in the news on a whole bunch of sites last week. It's evolution, can't stop it I suppose. |
Anonymous
+1! |
Anonymous
10. Married ten years, five kids. |
Anonymous
| Yup. |
Anonymous
What? |
Anonymous
For good or bad, there's a lot of truth to this. Women do get bored with the same old dick. The question is, what do you do with this information? |
Anonymous
Yes. Househusband + lover = happy wife. |
Anonymous
Not the PP, and I didn't see news about it recently, but I imagine he's referring to these sorts of studies: http://www.livescience.com/1409-fertile-women-prefer-manly-men.html "[R]esearchers asked women who were at different points in their menstrual cycles (and who were not on the pill) to rate their own attractiveness. Then researchers presented them with image pairs representing "feminized" and "masculinized" versions of the same male body. The women were asked to choose the body they thought was most attractive for a short-term relationship and then again for a long-term relationship. Some of the women performed the experiment again at the opposite point in their cycle. Fertile women chose the masculine version of each image 15 percent more often, on average, than women who were not fertile, said lead researcher Anthony Little, a psychologist at the University of Stirling in Scotland. The effect was strongest if they were looking for a short-term partner rather than a long-term one, and if they considered themselves attractive." Also: http://newsroom.ucla.edu/releases/Near-Ovulation-Your-Cheatin-Heart-6713?RelNum=6713 "New research from UCLA and the University of New Mexico suggests that members of "the gentler sex" may have evolved to cheat on their mates during the most fertile part of their cycle — but only when those mates are less sexually attractive than other men. . . . Regardless of where they stood on other measures, the co-eds felt more desirable, attractive and powerful in their relationships during the mid-point of their cycle. But women who rated their mates as more suitable for long-term involvement than a quick fling had different behavior and desires than women who considered their mates hot. When women were mated to men with low sexual versus investment attractiveness, they were particularly likely to experience increased attraction to men other than their partners at mid?cycle,"Haselton said." |
Anonymous
Is this your current situation? Or just a goal. |
Anonymous
for something different. i'm sure my DH would feel the same way I do. |
Anonymous
Why? Because my husband is lazy, oblivious, messy, fat, not romantic and can't get me off. Any more questions? |
Anonymous
Sounds like you have a pretty solid case. |
Anonymous
| In. a. heartbeat. DH is selfish and lazy, in the bedroom and everywhere else. |
Anonymous
Go to the explicit board...they cheat. Women are good with their husband and provider who fills the support role, but if that man lacks certain dominate qualities her desire level will decrease. They would rather have sex with the asshole, settle with the nice guy. |