| The question is not would you cheat or do you want to leave your husband. It's simply a question of whether you would rather have sex with another man than your husband. Could be a guy at your office, could be an ex, whatever. I'm asking about the desire, not whether or not you would act on it. If so, why? |
| Yes. Because I wouldn't have to live with him and deal with all his baggage. Plus, I've been having sex with my husband for 24 years. Enough already! |
| no |
| no |
| Yes. |
| No desire. |
No desire for sex at all? |
| Can all you "yes" posters explain why? |
| No humpty, I wouldn't. |
| Different pp, little desire for sex at all, so no. If my dh and I had sex once a month I would truly enjoy it, but he needs sex more often which makes it more of a chore for me at this point. Another guy would make it even more unenjoyable! |
| I don't know. Desire is in the toilet, but after seeing all those young muscles bodies on the Mall yesterday.....hmmm. |
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Yes and no. Yes because my husband has gained a ton of weight, doesn't like to excercise, and thus is limited in what he can do and I have to be careful that he doesn't put too much weight on me. And, honestly, the belly is a turn off. So I do daydream about other, fit men. I think that's probably not that odd, though maybe I'm wrong. I'm married but I'm not blind - I just wouldn't act on anything ever.
No because I love my husband and he is quite skilled. |
| It's not an either or. I love my husband and enjoy having sex with him. Would I love a roll in the hay with some random hottie? Hell yes. |
| No. No desire to have sex with anyone else. |
| Also, for all you "no" posters, how would you rate your level of desire for your husband? |