That's because you don't want to be told you have a problem. |
| He dodged a bullet. |
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Guy here. I feel like you're slut shaming your friend. Women should be able to have as much sex as they want as long as they're safe about it.
To me its funny how women will judge other around them often forgetting their own slutty phases. |
What makes anyone think all these women have slutty phases? |
| As long as this doesn't last too long, it's probably healthy for her to go out and explore a little. Of course, that is as long as she is being safe. |
Woman here. Almost every woman I'm close friends with went through a phase of sleeping around relatively nonchalantly. |
Just like they don't want to hear about their own problems, such as needing to get a job, medicate their child, etc., etc. |
That just indicates the type of friends you pick not what women in general do. I am guessing most strippers friends have had sex for money, so does that mean most women have sex for money. |
While I get men love the crazy in the head good in bed women and don't want any of them to be taken off the market.... the fact is the way this woman is acting is out of character and she is probably having a mental moment. Understanding this and trying to help her respect herself is not slut shaming. There are plenty of crazy girls with no friends/family so don't you worry your little head... there are plenty for you to pick from and nobody is going to try to stop them. |
And then they marry some beta and the putting out she did with any guy who got a drink in her stops. Then the poor DH has to worry about her cheating. |
| At her age, she probably has the HPV vaccine for the most common strain, PPs. She's doing what a lot of people, men and women, do after a rough breakup. I doubt its a longterm lifestyle choice. |
| Really only one solution. OP has to sleep with her friend. |
| You can help her by accepting she is going through a phase and not judging her for it. |
Plus one. Men never do this to other men. In fact, we encourage our friends after break ups to start hooking up early and often. Love the party girls. |