Cat Does Not Love Me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I adopted 2 kittens from a shelter. It took them about a year to want to come sit on my lap or sleep in bed with me. One of them sits with me much more than the other. So give it more time. Your cat may not change, but you never know. Neither of my cats likes to be picked up.

Yes, he does sleep on the bed with my legs but if he feels the legs move at night then he attacks to kill. How do I make him want to cuddle for love?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Adopted a cat not too long ago for the sole purpose of receiving cuddles and love. Cat will not cuddle or reciprocate affection.

What do I do?

You should have adopted a cat that liked you. They are not hard to find.
My two follow me around and sit in my lap if I sit down, I wake up with them there in the morning.

Barring that if you want a more affectionate cat stop irritating her. Don't chase her down for hugs, don't pick her up.
Get some kitty toys and play with her and give her some treats. It's not hard.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Adopted a cat not too long ago for the sole purpose of receiving cuddles and love. Cat will not cuddle or reciprocate affection.

What do I do?

You should have adopted a cat that liked you. They are not hard to find.
My two follow me around and sit in my lap if I sit down, I wake up with them there in the morning.

Barring that if you want a more affectionate cat stop irritating her. Don't chase her down for hugs, don't pick her up.
Get some kitty toys and play with her and give her some treats. It's not hard.

Do you not think I adopted the cat that had affections? I DID! He was kind to me at the shelter then he changed!

I do not make chase at him! I do try to hold him and give hugs but I never make chase! If I did that he would run far away.

He will not eat treats or wet foods. And of course I have toys for the cats. I know it is not hard, but this cat is not full of love.

[Anonymous]

I am taking cat to the vet to discuss with vet cat isn't having cuddles or loving me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Name him George, and hug him, and pet him, and squeeze him.

Lololol I have six cats. My dumbest cat is named George. But he is very sweet when I convince him (every time!) I am not going to eat him. Poor George.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am taking cat to the vet to discuss with vet cat isn't having cuddles or loving me.

Good grief it's a cat. They mostly dont

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Name him George, and hug him, and pet him, and squeeze him.

Lololol I have six cats. My dumbest cat is named George. But he is very sweet when I convince him (every time!) I am not going to eat him. Poor George.

But awesome quote my 90s friend

[Anonymous]

He's plotting your death OP. Watch your back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am taking cat to the vet to discuss with vet cat isn't having cuddles or loving me.

Good grief it's a cat. They mostly dont

He glares much so I want his eyes checked, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Name him George, and hug him, and pet him, and squeeze him.

Lololol I have six cats. My dumbest cat is named George. But he is very sweet when I convince him (every time!) I am not going to eat him. Poor George.

Does my cat have fear I will eat him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's plotting your death OP. Watch your back.

Yes, this could be true. You may be correct and this is why he withholds love.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Adopted a cat not too long ago for the sole purpose of receiving cuddles and love. Cat will not cuddle or reciprocate affection.

What do I do?

You should have adopted a cat that liked you. They are not hard to find.
My two follow me around and sit in my lap if I sit down, I wake up with them there in the morning.

Barring that if you want a more affectionate cat stop irritating her. Don't chase her down for hugs, don't pick her up.
Get some kitty toys and play with her and give her some treats. It's not hard.

Do you not think I adopted the cat that had affections? I DID! He was kind to me at the shelter then he changed!

I do not make chase at him! I do try to hold him and give hugs but I never make chase! If I did that he would run far away.

He will not eat treats or wet foods. And of course I have toys for the cats. I know it is not hard, but this cat is not full of love.

Stop hugging and squeezing the poor thing, Darla.

[Anonymous]

Be careful if cat shows you too much affection. He may be trying to tenderize you for consumption later on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Name him George, and hug him, and pet him, and squeeze him.

Lololol I have six cats. My dumbest cat is named George. But he is very sweet when I convince him (every time!) I am not going to eat him. Poor George.

Does my cat have fear I will eat him?

You don't live in a chines restaurant do you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Name him George, and hug him, and pet him, and squeeze him.

Lololol I have six cats. My dumbest cat is named George. But he is very sweet when I convince him (every time!) I am not going to eat him. Poor George.

Does my cat have fear I will eat him?

You don't live in a chines restaurant do you?

A Chines restaurant? No. I live in a house. Are you saying this cat would prefer we be in a restaurant?