What happened to the S/O South Asian thread?

[jsteele]

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Hey, don't be offended. I am calling it like the world sees it.

Whites are usually racist and abusive. They hate Blacks and Hispanics and call them lazy. They do not let their kids go to school in which the population of Blacks and Hispanics is high. They give the excuse that students of these race are disruptive and low performing. On the flip side, they have a problem with Asians doing well in the school.

They kill Black people with impunity every day. That is how much they hate Black people. They call Indians all kinds of names because Indians are doing well in this country.

I am hoping that when in 50 years or so, Hispanics will become the majority in this country, maybe attitudes will change.

A lot of generalizations there. You are welcome to your perspective but in my opinion it is pretty ignorant. I assume that you belong to a racial or ethnic group in which every single member is exactly the same and therefore are not familiar with the concept of heterogeneity. But, there is a whole lot of variety within the "white" community. You might want to look into that.

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Hey, don't be offended. I am calling it like the world sees it.

Whites are usually racist and abusive. They hate Blacks and Hispanics and call them lazy. They do not let their kids go to school in which the population of Blacks and Hispanics is high. They give the excuse that students of these race are disruptive and low performing. On the flip side, they have a problem with Asians doing well in the school.

They kill Black people with impunity every day. That is how much they hate Black people. They call Indians all kinds of names because Indians are doing well in this country.

I am hoping that when in 50 years or so, Hispanics will become the majority in this country, maybe attitudes will change.

A lot of generalizations there. You are welcome to your perspective but in my opinion it is pretty ignorant. I assume that you belong to a racial or ethnic group in which every single member is exactly the same and therefore are not familiar with the concept of heterogeneity. But, there is a whole lot of variety within the "white" community. You might want to look into that.

LOL. Jeff, actually this is not my perspective at all.

But since the DCUM threads always degenerates into generalizations about Indians, I am presenting some generalizations about White people as well. Just food for thought, you know! All in good cause and to educate people.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Being a white American and having married a South Asian (Bangladeshi /born there) , I find that Indian women are arrogant and snobby in general. I do not find it or take it as an insult anymore because it is their general normal behavior and it comes as a shock after living in other part of the world where people are mostly soft spoken and are not blunt. It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior which we perceive as abnormal. It's like a different planet over there! Their thinking is SO different. The caste system and the way they treat servants is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change . Having a servant should not be a right.

To think that a muslim bangladeshi parent will allow their daughter to marry anyone out of their religion sounds improbable. I wonder why Indian women were arrogant and snobby to you? According to DCUM, they worship whiteness.

Every society has problems. Rich Indians have servants and rich people in US have "Help". In the past. Whites in America raped their black slaves and sold off their offsprings in slavery. Today, White police men shoot unarmed black people. Racial killings were so shocking to me when I came to this country.

It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior of white people which the world perceives as abnormal. It's like a different planet over here! Their thinking is SO different. The racism and the way they treat blacks is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change.

Perhaps because I am female married to a Bangladeshi guy.

Wow, what led you down that path? How has it been?

It's been amazing. He's a professor... Very patient and kind, flexible and resourceful, tolerant and open minded with a good sense of humor. I'm grateful I found him.
We actually had zero problems with his family or mine before getting married. I know he's rare though compared to his friends and other South Asians as he's not judgmental or concerned with status like I've seen.

You got a really rare one, it seems. I am not attracted to men from the Indian subcontinent, but I also don't think I could get past the religious/cultural differences. Do his parents and siblings like you?

Yes , very much. His father passed away when he was young and his mom now lives with us. He came to the US for grad school on a scholarship. We married young (me 22) and him (27).

[Anonymous]

jsteele wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Hey, don't be offended. I am calling it like the world sees it.

Whites are usually racist and abusive. They hate Blacks and Hispanics and call them lazy. They do not let their kids go to school in which the population of Blacks and Hispanics is high. They give the excuse that students of these race are disruptive and low performing. On the flip side, they have a problem with Asians doing well in the school.

They kill Black people with impunity every day. That is how much they hate Black people. They call Indians all kinds of names because Indians are doing well in this country.

I am hoping that when in 50 years or so, Hispanics will become the majority in this country, maybe attitudes will change.

A lot of generalizations there. You are welcome to your perspective but in my opinion it is pretty ignorant. I assume that you belong to a racial or ethnic group in which every single member is exactly the same and therefore are not familiar with the concept of heterogeneity. But, there is a whole lot of variety within the "white" community. You might want to look into that.

+1

Racist people generally do not want perspectives outside their own and paint groups with a huge brush. They certainly won't let facts get in their way but they will grab onto an incident/s that fit their view without taking into account the whole picture.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Being a white American and having married a South Asian (Bangladeshi /born there) , I find that Indian women are arrogant and snobby in general. I do not find it or take it as an insult anymore because it is their general normal behavior and it comes as a shock after living in other part of the world where people are mostly soft spoken and are not blunt. It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior which we perceive as abnormal. It's like a different planet over there! Their thinking is SO different. The caste system and the way they treat servants is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change . Having a servant should not be a right.

To think that a muslim bangladeshi parent will allow their daughter to marry anyone out of their religion sounds improbable. I wonder why Indian women were arrogant and snobby to you? According to DCUM, they worship whiteness.

Every society has problems. Rich Indians have servants and rich people in US have "Help". In the past. Whites in America raped their black slaves and sold off their offsprings in slavery. Today, White police men shoot unarmed black people. Racial killings were so shocking to me when I came to this country.

It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior of white people which the world perceives as abnormal. It's like a different planet over here! Their thinking is SO different. The racism and the way they treat blacks is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change.

Perhaps because I am female married to a Bangladeshi guy.

Wow, what led you down that path? How has it been?

It's been amazing. He's a professor... Very patient and kind, flexible and resourceful, tolerant and open minded with a good sense of humor. I'm grateful I found him.
We actually had zero problems with his family or mine before getting married. I know he's rare though compared to his friends and other South Asians as he's not judgmental or concerned with status like I've seen.

You got a really rare one, it seems. I am not attracted to men from the Indian subcontinent, but I also don't think I could get past the religious/cultural differences. Do his parents and siblings like you?

Yes , very much. His father passed away when he was young and his mom now lives with us. He came to the US for grad school on a scholarship. We married young (me 22) and him (27).

So, he is a product of his own culture and familial upbringing. How is he the rare one?

[Anonymous]

Why has this thread not been deleted yet?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why has this thread not been deleted yet?

It hasn't become as vile as the last one yet.

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Anonymous wrote:Being a white American and having married a South Asian (Bangladeshi /born there) , I find that Indian women are arrogant and snobby in general. I do not find it or take it as an insult anymore because it is their general normal behavior and it comes as a shock after living in other part of the world where people are mostly soft spoken and are not blunt. It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior which we perceive as abnormal. It's like a different planet over there! Their thinking is SO different. The caste system and the way they treat servants is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change . Having a servant should not be a right.

To think that a muslim bangladeshi parent will allow their daughter to marry anyone out of their religion sounds improbable. I wonder why Indian women were arrogant and snobby to you? According to DCUM, they worship whiteness.

Every society has problems. Rich Indians have servants and rich people in US have "Help". In the past. Whites in America raped their black slaves and sold off their offsprings in slavery. Today, White police men shoot unarmed black people. Racial killings were so shocking to me when I came to this country.

It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior of white people which the world perceives as abnormal. It's like a different planet over here! Their thinking is SO different. The racism and the way they treat blacks is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change.

Perhaps because I am female married to a Bangladeshi guy.

Wow, what led you down that path? How has it been?

It's been amazing. He's a professor... Very patient and kind, flexible and resourceful, tolerant and open minded with a good sense of humor. I'm grateful I found him.
We actually had zero problems with his family or mine before getting married. I know he's rare though compared to his friends and other South Asians as he's not judgmental or concerned with status like I've seen.

You got a really rare one, it seems. I am not attracted to men from the Indian subcontinent, but I also don't think I could get past the religious/cultural differences. Do his parents and siblings like you?

Yes , very much. His father passed away when he was young and his mom now lives with us. He came to the US for grad school on a scholarship. We married young (me 22) and him (27).

So, he is a product of his own culture and familial upbringing. How is he the rare one?

Seriously.

I am South Asian--at least 20% of my family and 80% of my US born South Asian friends are in interracial marriages--the first one was in 1960. It's not rare at all from what I see.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why has this thread not been deleted yet?

It hasn't become as vile as the last one yet.

Apart from the psychopath who probably got rejected by an Indian chick and now keeps posting about "hook noses", that is.

[Anonymous]

This thread is as vile as the last. Horrible.

[jsteele]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is as vile as the last. Horrible.

Aren't you the OP of this thread? Maybe next time a thread that you consider "vile" disappears, you should leave well enough alone. Or, use the Website Feedback forum which would have been more appropriate. There is nothing like throwing a match into a puddle of gasoline and then complaining that there is a fire.

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Anonymous wrote:Being a white American and having married a South Asian (Bangladeshi /born there) , I find that Indian women are arrogant and snobby in general. I do not find it or take it as an insult anymore because it is their general normal behavior and it comes as a shock after living in other part of the world where people are mostly soft spoken and are not blunt. It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior which we perceive as abnormal. It's like a different planet over there! Their thinking is SO different. The caste system and the way they treat servants is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change . Having a servant should not be a right.

To think that a muslim bangladeshi parent will allow their daughter to marry anyone out of their religion sounds improbable. I wonder why Indian women were arrogant and snobby to you? According to DCUM, they worship whiteness.

Every society has problems. Rich Indians have servants and rich people in US have "Help". In the past. Whites in America raped their black slaves and sold off their offsprings in slavery. Today, White police men shoot unarmed black people. Racial killings were so shocking to me when I came to this country.

It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior of white people which the world perceives as abnormal. It's like a different planet over here! Their thinking is SO different. The racism and the way they treat blacks is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change.

Perhaps because I am female married to a Bangladeshi guy.

Wow, what led you down that path? How has it been?

It's been amazing. He's a professor... Very patient and kind, flexible and resourceful, tolerant and open minded with a good sense of humor. I'm grateful I found him.
We actually had zero problems with his family or mine before getting married. I know he's rare though compared to his friends and other South Asians as he's not judgmental or concerned with status like I've seen.

You got a really rare one, it seems. I am not attracted to men from the Indian subcontinent, but I also don't think I could get past the religious/cultural differences. Do his parents and siblings like you?

Yes , very much. His father passed away when he was young and his mom now lives with us. He came to the US for grad school on a scholarship. We married young (me 22) and him (27).

So, he is a product of his own culture and familial upbringing. How is he the rare one?

Seriously.

I am South Asian--at least 20% of my family and 80% of my US born South Asian friends are in interracial marriages--the first one was in 1960. It's not rare at all from what I see.

It's definitely less common in Bangladesh.

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Anonymous wrote:A bunch of butthurt indians crashed the thread simply because we are not interested in dating them.

i don't see why not if the values are the same as east asians and whites date a ton of them.

The values are not the same and neither are the looks. Hairy + hook nosed + flabby "skinny fat" body = no thank you, especially considering the bad attitudes too.

When a man criticizes a woman because of her looks it's usually false and it usually means that he is hurt. Maybe he tried to ask one out but was flat out rejected. In my experience as a friend of indian women, they strongly go with the wishes of who their parents would see as their ideal mate. To do so otherwise could cause them to be shunned. This depends as well on their religion since India is huge with many religions (buddhism started there) and the skin color ranges from very light to very dark due to intermixing in the past. Their strong values to abide by parents wishes and marry well to an indian engineer, doctor, etc who makes a lot of money makes the average white guy feel they don't measure up. There is of course a caste and class system in India and it's a custom that plays here in the US. East asians do share that value of discipline, taking STEM degrees (Washpost said that Virginia's TJ school of science and technology drew in more Asian students than ever), and just more competitive due to family upbringing same as south asians, but the east asian girls are more likely to accept to date white guys because of status, money, or looks.

How do you know that this is a "man" making the comment ?

because the previous thread was about white men and south asian women. If it's a woman making the comment then obviously a hater since men of most races are hairy, bigger everything, and have 'skinny fat'.

[Anonymous]

I'm a white woman married to an South Asian man. He was born here but his parents are from India. I've always felt very comfortable and welcomed by his entire family - much more so than the snobby southern rich family of my ex boyfriend!

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Anonymous wrote:Being a white American and having married a South Asian (Bangladeshi /born there) , I find that Indian women are arrogant and snobby in general. I do not find it or take it as an insult anymore because it is their general normal behavior and it comes as a shock after living in other part of the world where people are mostly soft spoken and are not blunt. It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior which we perceive as abnormal. It's like a different planet over there! Their thinking is SO different. The caste system and the way they treat servants is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change . Having a servant should not be a right.

To think that a muslim bangladeshi parent will allow their daughter to marry anyone out of their religion sounds improbable. I wonder why Indian women were arrogant and snobby to you? According to DCUM, they worship whiteness.

Every society has problems. Rich Indians have servants and rich people in US have "Help". In the past. Whites in America raped their black slaves and sold off their offsprings in slavery. Today, White police men shoot unarmed black people. Racial killings were so shocking to me when I came to this country.

It took me a while to get adjusted to the normal behavior of white people which the world perceives as abnormal. It's like a different planet over here! Their thinking is SO different. The racism and the way they treat blacks is disgusting . Perhaps with lots of TIME their mind-sets will change.

Perhaps because I am female married to a Bangladeshi guy.

Wow, what led you down that path? How has it been?

It's been amazing. He's a professor... Very patient and kind, flexible and resourceful, tolerant and open minded with a good sense of humor. I'm grateful I found him.
We actually had zero problems with his family or mine before getting married. I know he's rare though compared to his friends and other South Asians as he's not judgmental or concerned with status like I've seen.

You got a really rare one, it seems. I am not attracted to men from the Indian subcontinent, but I also don't think I could get past the religious/cultural differences. Do his parents and siblings like you?

Yes , very much. His father passed away when he was young and his mom now lives with us. He came to the US for grad school on a scholarship. We married young (me 22) and him (27).

So, he is a product of his own culture and familial upbringing. How is he the rare one?

Seriously.

I am South Asian--at least 20% of my family and 80% of my US born South Asian friends are in interracial marriages--the first one was in 1960. It's not rare at all from what I see.

The point was his thinking is different from the typical South Asian.
South Asian people tend to be judgmental about anything. What you wear; What you say; What you drive etc . I have met other interracial couples like us and the sa guys were awful. One sa doctor actually said something like, "do you think I went to medical school for nothing?" to his wife while they were arguing about something completely irrelevant to medicine. It was bizarre. They definitely show off more in my experience interacting with them. My husband is on the extreme other side though. He wants to help end poverty in his home country, gives money to homeless people, tutors math/ statistics free to poor students.