DW is So Lacking in Compassion

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry you almost choked, OP. I'm sorry no one appeared to care, except for caring about appearances.

My DH eats like a pig. He's beyond horrible and doesn't take any feedback well. I know it's controllable because I never saw it when I was dating. I routinely tell him to eat a lunch before he takes clients to lunch so he can nurse his food some and not gross out the client.

However; if he almost choked, I would set aside my "told you so" feelings and focus on the "are you ok?" business at hand. I think it's important to not attack when people are at their weakest or most vulnerable, and that's the problem I'm having with reading about your DW and DD's behavior. And I assume that's the problem you are having with them as well. You are right to be upset.

[Anonymous]

The thing is, I have a hard time comprehending how the Op's own child would not have been in a panic seeing her dad choke like that. Forget about the Op's DW for a minute. What kid is going to watch her father *choke* and just say "Ewww, gross"?

Something is strange about this whole story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I strongly suspect your daughter is right. I'm not there, so I can't tell if your wife is a bitch, you're a drama queen, or whether your version of the story is accurate. However, your daughter will have been living with the crap relationship for years and shouldn't be dealing with all the hostility. The both of you - grow up,or split up.

I think that this is probably spot on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man, there are so many heartless bitches on DCUM. WTF is wrong with you women. OP seriously had a potential life threatening problem, and the best his DW could muster was eat slower next time. No, boy am I glad that is over. I am sorry. And what's with the daughter afraid to call 911 b/c she doesn't need the "drama?"

Oh, yeah, I forgot this is DCUM. Home of she-woman man haters anonymous!

He didn't mention the medical issue in his OP. Are we supposed to be mind readers?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's better to live happily in a trailer park than in misery in a mansion...

You have the opportunity to free yourself and fly up, up, up and AWAY from it all. Rethink this whole custody thing (you know that you don't really want to deal with that) and you are a free man, albeit a bit poorer.

Just think, you would be free to choke in your very own place and barf in your very own sink and you wouldn't have to listen to anyone say "Ewwwww, gross." You deserve that Op. You truly do.

Ha ha, very true.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women don't like weak men.
I suggest you man-up and get off this board.

Seriously, grow a pair. You sound like a hysterical school girl.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Came home the other evening, and there's a bloody paper towel on the kitchen counter. DH bursts into kitchen, clutching hand, screams "I cut myself." Something broke while he was getting it out of the dishwasher. He's got blood on his pants too.

So I did all the compassionate stuff, but it was just - a cut. Nothing serious.

Yes, I am a heartless bitch.

You forgot to tell them I'm anemic and on blood thinners for hypertension you caused me. Twat.

[Anonymous]

OP, it sounds like your family reacted in a manner that was immature and insensitive, but you are escalating it by characterizing your wife as a "bad woman." Everyone needs to calm down and discuss what happened in a mature, rational manner.

[Anonymous]

OP you should probably stop being such a baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:She is probably disappointed you didn't. Bet you spent the rest of the night talking about your "near-death experience", bugging her for attention, asking for reassurance, being annoying, talking about your last "near-death experience" 15 years ago, bugging both of them for more attention, and harping on it all night long.

You must be OP's DW. You sound awful.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Came home the other evening, and there's a bloody paper towel on the kitchen counter. DH bursts into kitchen, clutching hand, screams "I cut myself." Something broke while he was getting it out of the dishwasher. He's got blood on his pants too.

So I did all the compassionate stuff, but it was just - a cut. Nothing serious.

Yes, I am a heartless bitch.

You forgot to tell them I'm anemic and on blood thinners for hypertension you caused me. Twat.

World's smallest violin, bucko.

The self-pity is strong in this one.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is probably disappointed you didn't. Bet you spent the rest of the night talking about your "near-death experience", bugging her for attention, asking for reassurance, being annoying, talking about your last "near-death experience" 15 years ago, bugging both of them for more attention, and harping on it all night long.

No, I did not mention anything about it the rest of the night. She is just a heartless shrew. I am finally going to file for divorce.

You should. She sounds like a horrible wife. Are you the same poster whose DW refused to take DD to school when you had an important meeting for work? If so, you are living in a hostile, unhealthy relationship and getting out is the best thing you can do. You'll ask yourself why you took so long to make that move. Good luck to you, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is probably disappointed you didn't. Bet you spent the rest of the night talking about your "near-death experience", bugging her for attention, asking for reassurance, being annoying, talking about your last "near-death experience" 15 years ago, bugging both of them for more attention, and harping on it all night long.

No, I did not mention anything about it the rest of the night. She is just a heartless shrew. I am finally going to file for divorce.

You should. She sounds like a horrible wife. Are you the same poster whose DW refused to take DD to school when you had an important meeting for work? If so, you are living in a hostile, unhealthy relationship and getting out is the best thing you can do. You'll ask yourself why you took so long to make that move. Good luck to you, OP.

Look I think it's equally possible that she's a bitch, you're a drama queen, or both. Regardless, please put us all out of our misery and get a freaking divorce ASAP.

Thank you for your attention to this matter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this you?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/366121.page

Oh yeah, that's definitely him. The combination of self-pity and vitriol is unmistakable.

Spot the girly man game?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is this you?

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/366121.page

Oh yeah, that's definitely him. The combination of self-pity and vitriol is unmistakable.

Spot the girly man game?

Previous two PPs make me sick. Junk yard dogs.