I’m a black man married to a white woman: Ask me anything.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is the wife overweight and blonde?
That seems to be the type of woman I see with black guys.

Not OP, but this irks me. I'm the blonde but not overweight wife of a black man, and I think people literally expect me to have five chins and be living in a trailer park. Such a gross and unfair stereotype.

[Anonymous]

DH?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is the wife overweight and blonde?
That seems to be the type of woman I see with black guys.

Not OP, but this irks me. I'm the blonde but not overweight wife of a black man, and I think people literally expect me to have five chins and be living in a trailer park. Such a gross and unfair stereotype.

Well, in fairness you've proven 50% of the stereotype. And the other part is open to negotiation on when it will start...

[Anonymous]

This is OP. I apologize for the late response - I have been in unscheduled back-to-back meetings all day. I should have waited to post this when I could provide more immediate responses. Please know that I will respond to all of your questions. I didn't anticipate this kind of response - so, I am quite curious. Thanks and I'll be back soon!!

[Anonymous]

Lost interest since you can't reply to messages right away...

How about the white lady post an ask me anything, I'm married to a black man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is the wife overweight and blonde?
That seems to be the type of woman I see with black guys.

Not OP, but this irks me. I'm the blonde but not overweight wife of a black man, and I think people literally expect me to have five chins and be living in a trailer park. Such a gross and unfair stereotype.

Well, in fairness you've proven 50% of the stereotype. And the other part is open to negotiation on when it will start...

AND exactly how much do you weigh and what is your height. We will judge the fat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is the wife overweight and blonde?
That seems to be the type of woman I see with black guys.

Not OP, but this irks me. I'm the blonde but not overweight wife of a black man, and I think people literally expect me to have five chins and be living in a trailer park. Such a gross and unfair stereotype.

Well, in fairness you've proven 50% of the stereotype. And the other part is open to negotiation on when it will start...

AND exactly how much do you weigh and what is your height. We will judge the fat.

I'm 5'4" and 108 pounds. Judge freely.

[Anonymous]

Everyone on this board is 5'4 108 pounds

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do other black men and women give you crap over it? Last week, I listened to a show on 1450 (it was either the Carl Nelson Show, or Andre Eggeletion), and this was the topic. Almost every single caller was a black man who thought that a black man or woman should not date/marry a non-black. They all said it was bringing the black race down, and that it was a betrayal of the black race.

They were going on and on about how black women need to find a black man, and stop betraying their race by getting together with white men, etc.

It caught me off-guard. I really didn't realize that in today's day and age, so many people still have such a problem with interracial relationships.

Do you also wonder if white men and white give him crap? Or do you think whites are cool with it?

I don't think white men would give him crap about it (even if they weren't cool with it) because they wouldn't want to seem un-PC or be branded as a racist.

You're fooling yourself. In fact, I'm amazed you typed that with a straight face.

NP here, but all the mixed race couples I know have faced enormous very overt prejudice from blacks (men and women) including having abuse hurled at them in public and not even a hint of disapproval from whites in their day to day life. I think PPs question is valid. For some reason some people think it's perfectly acceptable to voice prejudice if you are black but clearly racist if you are white. The radio program PP quotes is a perfect example of it. There is no way that a show describing that situation in opposite terms would be on air.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think your a disgrace to the AA community...Watch you cheat with a black woman. White wimen look horrible when they age...YUCK...COWARD

This post made my point better than I could!

[Anonymous]

(that is that the criticism doesn't come from whites, not that I agree with this idiot).

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is the wife overweight and blonde?
That seems to be the type of woman I see with black guys.

Is the wife over weight bottle blond and has the job?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone on this board is 5'4 108 pounds

You don't have to believe me. I have a history of eating disorders and probably could stand to gain some weight in all honesty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone on this board is 5'4 108 pounds

Not me. I'm 5'9" and 108 pounds.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone on this board is 5'4 108 pounds

Not me. I'm 5'9" and 108 pounds.

That sounds scary. I don't think I would be proud of that fact.