Girlfriend moved in and turned my life upside down

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell us more about things youre not allowed to use or eat in her home, and we will tdll you whether its over the top and time to run.

She is sensitive to scents and likes the s tire house to be mostly scent free or limited. No candles, no air fresheners,
bo harsh cleaners, switched my laundry detergent to dye free and got rid of the frantic softener. Told me to switch out my old spice or dove products for cleaner ones. Bought me a care package with said items she prefers.

She is very clean unless in the bathroom. She leaves all her products all over the sink.

She believes in all organic eating. I eat healthy but don’t care what is organic and what isn’t. Our grocery bill has sky rocketed because of it. She wants me to cut back on red meat, no alcohol, and drink super nasty stuff like beet juice and these health drinks.

That sounds LOVELY! People don't realize how much their places stink because of all those harmful toxins ("fragrances") they spew everywhere. Many are estrogen mimickers also, and will feminize you even more OP.

As far as the eating habits, she is waaaaay off and you should teach her how to eat healthy and in moderation. Beet juice? Does she want diabetes?? No red meat? That's crazy talk. Sounds cultish.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell us more about things youre not allowed to use or eat in her home, and we will tdll you whether its over the top and time to run.

She is sensitive to scents and likes the s tire house to be mostly scent free or limited. No candles, no air fresheners,
bo harsh cleaners, switched my laundry detergent to dye free and got rid of the frantic softener. Told me to switch out my old spice or dove products for cleaner ones. Bought me a care package with said items she prefers.

She is very clean unless in the bathroom. She leaves all her products all over the sink.

She believes in all organic eating. I eat healthy but don’t care what is organic and what isn’t. Our grocery bill has sky rocketed because of it. She wants me to cut back on red meat, no alcohol, and drink super nasty stuff like beet juice and these health drinks.

That sounds LOVELY! People don't realize how much their places stink because of all those harmful toxins ("fragrances") they spew everywhere. Many are estrogen mimickers also, and will feminize you even more OP.

As far as the eating habits, she is waaaaay off and you should teach her how to eat healthy and in moderation. Beet juice? Does she want diabetes?? No red meat? That's crazy talk. Sounds cultish.

The guy was using old spice (uh really?) and his fabric softener when they dated. She knew what he smelled like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell us more about things youre not allowed to use or eat in her home, and we will tdll you whether its over the top and time to run.

She is sensitive to scents and likes the s tire house to be mostly scent free or limited. No candles, no air fresheners,
bo harsh cleaners, switched my laundry detergent to dye free and got rid of the frantic softener. Told me to switch out my old spice or dove products for cleaner ones. Bought me a care package with said items she prefers.

She is very clean unless in the bathroom. She leaves all her products all over the sink.

She believes in all organic eating. I eat healthy but don’t care what is organic and what isn’t. Our grocery bill has sky rocketed because of it. She wants me to cut back on red meat, no alcohol, and drink super nasty stuff like beet juice and these health drinks.

That sounds LOVELY! People don't realize how much their places stink because of all those harmful toxins ("fragrances") they spew everywhere. Many are estrogen mimickers also, and will feminize you even more OP.

As far as the eating habits, she is waaaaay off and you should teach her how to eat healthy and in moderation. Beet juice? Does she want diabetes?? No red meat? That's crazy talk. Sounds cultish.

The guy was using old spice (uh really?) and his fabric softener when they dated. She knew what he smelled like.

Yeah, and she was wanting to clean him up.
Old Spice..... eh, might could handle that, afterall it has a cute ship on the bottle. But a single man using fabric softener..... that's a red flag if there ever was one. Sounds like Niles Crane.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love her but moving in with her has ruined our relationship. She is super clean and very judgmental if I don’t do XYZ in a timely manner. She lives a
non-toxic life and has banned most of the common things I’m used to using. She has pushed her health foods on me. She takes up a lot of space and is messy when it comes to her belongings. This isn’t jitters..I just don’t like living with her.

Break up with her. That’s why it’s important to live
With someone before moving to a more serious relationship.

[Anonymous]

I don't like how easy people tell others to break up/divorce, because for me I would never be able to leave. How do people do that?

[Anonymous]

She is way too controlling.
Let her go.
-signed, mother to 2 and would not want either of them in this situation

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell us more about things youre not allowed to use or eat in her home, and we will tdll you whether its over the top and time to run.

She is sensitive to scents and likes the s tire house to be mostly scent free or limited. No candles, no air fresheners,
bo harsh cleaners, switched my laundry detergent to dye free and got rid of the frantic softener. Told me to switch out my old spice or dove products for cleaner ones. Bought me a care package with said items she prefers.

She is very clean unless in the bathroom. She leaves all her products all over the sink.

She believes in all organic eating. I eat healthy but don’t care what is organic and what isn’t. Our grocery bill has sky rocketed because of it. She wants me to cut back on red meat, no alcohol, and drink super nasty stuff like beet juice and these health drinks.

That sounds LOVELY! People don't realize how much their places stink because of all those harmful toxins ("fragrances") they spew everywhere. Many are estrogen mimickers also, and will feminize you even more OP.

As far as the eating habits, she is waaaaay off and you should teach her how to eat healthy and in moderation. Beet juice? Does she want diabetes?? No red meat? That's crazy talk. Sounds cultish.

Beet juice doesn’t give you diabetes.
Red meat is supposed to enjoyed in moderation because it can increase risks of serious diseases.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell us more about things youre not allowed to use or eat in her home, and we will tdll you whether its over the top and time to run.

She is sensitive to scents and likes the s tire house to be mostly scent free or limited. No candles, no air fresheners,
bo harsh cleaners, switched my laundry detergent to dye free and got rid of the frantic softener. Told me to switch out my old spice or dove products for cleaner ones. Bought me a care package with said items she prefers.

She is very clean unless in the bathroom. She leaves all her products all over the sink.

She believes in all organic eating. I eat healthy but don’t care what is organic and what isn’t. Our grocery bill has sky rocketed because of it. She wants me to cut back on red meat, no alcohol, and drink super nasty stuff like beet juice and these health drinks.

That sounds LOVELY! People don't realize how much their places stink because of all those harmful toxins ("fragrances") they spew everywhere. Many are estrogen mimickers also, and will feminize you even more OP.

As far as the eating habits, she is waaaaay off and you should teach her how to eat healthy and in moderation. Beet juice? Does she want diabetes?? No red meat? That's crazy talk. Sounds cultish.

The guy was using old spice (uh really?) and his fabric softener when they dated. She knew what he smelled like.

Yeah, and she was wanting to clean him up.
Old Spice..... eh, might could handle that, afterall it has a cute ship on the bottle. But a single man using fabric softener..... that's a red flag if there ever was one. Sounds like Niles Crane.

Why is that a red flag? Many single men use fabric softener. Your misogyny is showing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't like how easy people tell others to break up/divorce, because for me I would never be able to leave. How do people do that?

No attachment issues

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't like how easy people tell others to break up/divorce, because for me I would never be able to leave. How do people do that?

I don’t know. This doesn’t seem like that big of a deal to me. No one commits to living this way for life. It’s a phase that will end.

[Anonymous]

Buh bye! Leave her and don't look back

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't like how easy people tell others to break up/divorce, because for me I would never be able to leave. How do people do that?

Divorce is different than breaking up with someone you are dating. The point of dating is to find someone you are compatible with and that you have a healthy relationship with.

Why would you tell your kids to stay in an unhealthy relationship with someone they are dating that they have realized they aren’t compatible with?

How do people leave? They say this isn’t healthy or we aren’t compatible and I think we should break up. It happens probably a million times a day around the world.

Did you marry the first person you dated?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I love her but moving in with her has ruined our relationship. She is super clean and very judgmental if I don’t do XYZ in a timely manner. She lives a
non-toxic life and has banned most of the common things I’m used to using. She has pushed her health foods on me. She takes up a lot of space and is messy when it comes to her belongings. This isn’t jitters..I just don’t like living with her.

What type of person do you like living with?
In the past for roommates or expectations for a life partner / living / household expectations and responsibilities?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She sounds controlling. This is not a characteristic you want in a life partner. A partner who loves you doesn't spend their time judging you and banning things in your life and telling you what you can and can't do.

+1 I mean, if you’re a slob and don’t clean up after yourself, or practice common courtesy on behalf of your partner, that’s one thing. But the controlling aspect - trying to control what you eat, your activities…that’s not good.

No one knows what the thing is. The post is vague. Calls her sloppy and tidy at the same time. Which one is it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Tell us more about things youre not allowed to use or eat in her home, and we will tdll you whether its over the top and time to run.

She is sensitive to scents and likes the s tire house to be mostly scent free or limited. No candles, no air fresheners,
bo harsh cleaners, switched my laundry detergent to dye free and got rid of the frantic softener. Told me to switch out my old spice or dove products for cleaner ones. Bought me a care package with said items she prefers.

She is very clean unless in the bathroom. She leaves all her products all over the sink.

She believes in all organic eating. I eat healthy but don’t care what is organic and what isn’t. Our grocery bill has sky rocketed because of it. She wants me to cut back on red meat, no alcohol, and drink super nasty stuff like beet juice and these health drinks.

Do you live in California? Are you both liberal?