DS Dating Someone with a Small Child

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:We have a family friend that married a hot Slavic woman with a child. She locked him in with pregnancy. Fast forward shortly after marriage it was ugly ugly ugly. There was domestic violence, property destruction, drama to the hilt.
My kids know that family and it is a perfectly great example of making sure to not be entrapped by a woman's uterus. It's one thing to talk to your son about it. It's another for your son to see it tragically unfold in real life for someone else.

So...to recap:

1) Good mama's boys should not marry hot women.
2) Good mama's boys should not marry hot Slavic women.
3) Good mama's boys should not marry women with children.
4) Good mama's boys should not marry hot Slavic women with children.
5) Good mama's boys should most definitely not marry a woman with a uterus in fears of being entrapped by said uterus.

Wait....let's start over:
1) Good mama's boys should not marry women.

I think you left out that they don’t know how to prevent pregnancies.

[Anonymous]

Do share back once you meet her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do share back once you meet her.

We've met her. None of us are impressed.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do share back once you meet her.

We've met her. None of us are impressed.

So what are you looking for here exactly? Ways to break them up?

[Anonymous]

Another mama who can't let go of her baby boy!

None of your business.

[Anonymous]

Like others said, he is an adult. He could have done 2 tours in Iraq by now.

[Anonymous]

It never ceases to be nauseating when mothers call their adult sons “a catch.” Gag.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is she a hot mess? Actually, it doesn't matter. Stop meddling and leave them alone.

No education. No stable job. She lives with her parents. Problems with the child's father.

I can't leave it alone. He wants me to accept her like I accepted all of his ex-gfs.

Of course you can. If you don’t, it will have consequences you don’t like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men in his 20s like to deal with a hot mess. I hope she doesn’t get pregnant.

That's our biggest fear.

Sounds like maybe you dropped the ball on raising him well and being good parents. Luckily for you, you won't have to worry about this much longer. You're well on your way to him cutting you out of his life.

And that's Ok? You'd want someone like that for your child?

IT’S NOT UP TO YOU. HE IS AN ADULT.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is she a hot mess? Actually, it doesn't matter. Stop meddling and leave them alone.

No education. No stable job. She lives with her parents. Problems with the child's father.

I can't leave it alone. He wants me to accept her like I accepted all of his ex-gfs.

Of course you can. If you don’t, it will have consequences you don’t like.

Exactly. I am still waiting for OP to say what not leaving it alone looks like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do share back once you meet her.

We've met her. None of us are impressed.

So what?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do share back once you meet her.

We've met her. None of us are impressed.

But your son is impressed. He will learn eventually what a mistake it is to take on another person's baggage, and they will break up. Hopefully before marriage and more baggage children that she will be taking to the next guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do share back once you meet her.

We've met her. None of us are impressed.

But your son is impressed. He will learn eventually what a mistake it is to take on another person's baggage, and they will break up. Hopefully before marriage and more baggage children that she will be taking to the next guy.

You and OP are equally vile. I hope you get everything you deserve in life.

[Anonymous]

So OP, is it possible that you son isn't quite as grown up and sophisticated and accomplished as you think and that this woman is not quite as much of a mess as you think?

Because I think that's the most likely option.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why is she a hot mess? Actually, it doesn't matter. Stop meddling and leave them alone.

No education. No stable job. She lives with her parents. Problems with the child's father.

I can't leave it alone. He wants me to accept her like I accepted all of his ex-gfs.

lol tell him you aren't sleeping with them so you don't enjoy it as much as he does. Wake you when he's serious.