Does your husband yell at you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
My husband occasionally yells at me. How common is this?

OoooOoooh I wish he would, he would get it right back. lol No, never...welll except once out of desperation after arguing for hours when we were younger.

Also, I'm the wife and I've definitely blown my lid a few times. We have been married 20 years.

[Anonymous]

My wife yells at me often and has little self-awareness when she takes an ugly/nasty tone with me or puts me down in front of our children. Then if I raise my voice in response, she screams don't yell at me! and gets extremely angry as I am the only one who is out of line.

You can't have it both ways.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
My husband occasionally yells at me. How common is this?

No? But he raises his voice and shouts when we are in a bad fight. But if at any point I de-escalate or just walk away he would not continue shouting.

[Anonymous]

My husband has occasionally told me I am shouting, when I really haven't shouted at all. He just doesn't like the words he is hearing at that point.

[Anonymous]

Never. Married 13 years with 2 kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband has occasionally told me I am shouting, when I really haven't shouted at all. He just doesn't like the words he is hearing at that point.

Yeah, keep telling yourself that. Maybe you and my wife should be BFFs

[Anonymous]

Not one time in 15 years.

[Anonymous]

We are loud talkers, especially if upset but angry yelling is like once a decade

[Anonymous]

No, he never yells at me or the kids. I had a father that yelled sometimes in frustration. It would made me cry until I was in middle school but was upsetting nonetheless. I always thought I wouldn't tolerate that in my house when I had my own family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My husband has occasionally told me I am shouting, when I really haven't shouted at all. He just doesn't like the words he is hearing at that point.

Yeah, keep telling yourself that. Maybe you and my wife should be BFFs

Men aren't used to women arguing with them at normal volumes.

[Anonymous]

No

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No, he never yells at me or the kids. I had a father that yelled sometimes in frustration. It would made me cry until I was in middle school but was upsetting nonetheless. I always thought I wouldn't tolerate that in my house when I had my own family.

PP again. To clarify, I wouldn't cry when I got older, but it still upset me. The one positive thing about having a father that yelled is that you push back if any other man tries to do that to you when you are an adult.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
My husband occasionally yells at me. How common is this?

Next he will hit you and are you going to ask if hitting is common. Verbal abuse is s only a baby step from physical abuse. I suggest that you tell him he needs anger management counseling and that you will no longer tolerate his yelling at you or children or dog!

[Anonymous]

No he doesn't but he is abusive in his own right by giving the silent treatment after disagreements.

[Anonymous]

No he does not and I would not tolerate it.