Do you ever have your opposite sex teens share a bedroom on vacation?
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Anonymous
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My teen son and daughter would LOVE to share a room (not a bed, of course). They would love to share a room because we’ve only gotten two rooms once or twice. The norm is a suite with a rollout couch. The times we splurged for two rooms, I’m pretty sure we had a ton of hotel points that allowed for this. If we’re paying out of pocket, it’s always one room.
We stay at midrange hotels- usually Hampton, Doubletree, Hilton and our favorite- Embassy Suites. Embassy isn’t necessarily the nicest, but the rooms are huge and they serve a real breakfast. Bonus, they also have a complimentary happy hour with free drinks. I guess if we downgraded to Comfort Inn or Quality Inn, then we could consider two rooms? |
Anonymous
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Thanks everyone, seems like there’s a clear agreement on this. I really should have said something but she was very insistent that it was inappropriate and yet another poor choice by her ex.
Unfortunately the kids didn’t go on the trip, though there were other reasons as well. |
Anonymous
| I always shared a room with my opposite sex sibling on vacation - in fact I considered myself lucky when my entire family wasn't crammed into one motel room. The only time this would make me nervous would be step siblings who did not grow up together if I was not comfortable with the step brother. (I'd say the same for a step father) |
Anonymous
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Ours share a bed. They are presented with the options to either:
Share the bed the full trip. They can even sleep on opposite ends; we just don’t unmake the bed and ask instead for extra blankets. Split the bed. On and off, one will sleep on the floor, the other in the bed. Share bed with same-sex parent. |
Anonymous
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My brother and I shared rooms on family vacations. We even traveled together a couple of times in our early twenties. I consider my brother to be one of my best friends.
Maybe part of your friends anger has to do with their circumstances and isn’t really about her kids? |
Anonymous
| This question made me laugh because my entire family (6) would share one hotel room growing up |
Anonymous
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My kids (b and g) usually share a room. Getting 3 rooms seems really ridiculous for 4 people.
Recently I went with the kids and without DH. I just got us one room with 2 beds and DD and I slept in the same bed and DS had his own. |
Anonymous
Maybe you shouldn't. There may be other issues with her ex which are making her upset. Maybe just be a place for her to vent. |
Anonymous
Same. My middle aged brother and I had to share a room a few years ago. It is not a big deal. I really don’t understand the problem. |
Anonymous
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Our b/g teens routinely share a bed on vacation.
They annoy each other less now than when they were younger. What’s the issue exactly? |
Anonymous
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Op, your friend sounds like the type of person who will find anything to complain about when it comes to the ex. My friend does this and it's so confusing and hard to deal with. "He took the kids to the Amusement park without even telling me ahead of time!"
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Anonymous
Teens shouldn't be sharing beds. That's weird. |
Anonymous
| Where I grew up a lot of my friends married young, had kids young, and got divorced young. So I’ve been listening to friends complain about the “crazy” things their exes have said or done for a very long time at this point. I’d say about 80% of the time there is nothing at all crazy about the crazy thing—some people just want to complain about their exes. I’ve just learned to nod and murmur sympathetically. |
Anonymous
No you are weird. They are sleeping. |
Anonymous
| Our family of four shares one hotel room with two beds. It’s how we can afford to go to exotic places. No one minds a bit and kids (B/G) are in college now. I think it depends on family dynamic. We’ve checked in separately with the kids to make sure they are still fine with it. |