What Time Does Your Fourth Grader Go To Bed?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those of you putting your 10 year old down at 8pm - do they not do sports?
My 9 yo is at practice that doesn’t end until 8:30 twice a week.

Most 4th graders are 9.

And yes my 9 year old goes to get at 8. If it is a practice or game night it might be 8:30. But I don’t change bedtime the other nights because of 1-2 sports nights per week. Our games and practices are 6-7:30. But we live in a county with early ES start times so it’s normal here for kids to go to sleep early.

Most arec9? Wut?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those of you putting your 10 year old down at 8pm - do they not do sports?
My 9 yo is at practice that doesn’t end until 8:30 twice a week.

Most 4th graders are 9.

And yes my 9 year old goes to get at 8. If it is a practice or game night it might be 8:30. But I don’t change bedtime the other nights because of 1-2 sports nights per week. Our games and practices are 6-7:30. But we live in a county with early ES start times so it’s normal here for kids to go to sleep early.

No. Most THIRD graders are 9. Starting Oct 1 of 3rd grade is when (around here) they all start to turn 9. Only the absolute youngest kids will turn 9 in Sept of 4th grade.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

I’m 44 and would hate eating dinner at 8pm. That’s insane!

To answer OP, mine are in bed by 8pm because they have to wake up at 6:45 to get ready for school - ours starts early.

Ok 44 year old. Dinner at 8PM is insane...

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of early bedtimes listed here. 9-9:30 and awake at 7 am is normal in our house. Evening sports last to 8 pm or later every night.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are a lot of early bedtimes listed here. 9-9:30 and awake at 7 am is normal in our house. Evening sports last to 8 pm or later every night.

That sounds normal to me

[Anonymous]

9:00 or 9:30pm but their bus comes at 9:00am so they don't need to wake up until 8:00.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting responses, I never realized so many go to bed early at 8/8:15. We are finishing dinner and hw at that hour. Do you all SAH?

Due to birthday my 4th grader is 9 turning 10. 10pm bedtime.

I bet a lot of them work from home so they prep dinner during the workday.

How long does "prepping dinner" take? What kind of elaborate meals are you making? We usually have dinner at 6:00 or 6:30 - regardless of whether it's a work from home or a work from the office day when I get home at 5:30.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Interesting responses, I never realized so many go to bed early at 8/8:15. We are finishing dinner and hw at that hour. Do you all SAH?

Due to birthday my 4th grader is 9 turning 10. 10pm bedtime.

8:00 doesn't seem early to me. Up until this year (my kids are 8 and 11), my kids were required to be upstairs by 8:00, in their beds by 8:30. DH and I both work full time out of the home. This is not a stay at home vs working parents thing.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those of you putting your 10 year old down at 8pm - do they not do sports?
My 9 yo is at practice that doesn’t end until 8:30 twice a week.

Most 4th graders are 9.

And yes my 9 year old goes to get at 8. If it is a practice or game night it might be 8:30. But I don’t change bedtime the other nights because of 1-2 sports nights per week. Our games and practices are 6-7:30. But we live in a county with early ES start times so it’s normal here for kids to go to sleep early.

Most arec9? Wut?

At this time of year, yes, almost all 4th graders are 9. Throughout the fall most 4th graders will still be 9. It's not until spring of 4th grade that most 4th graders are 10, and there are still spring/summer birthday kids who are 9 through most or all of 4th grade.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those of you putting your 10 year old down at 8pm - do they not do sports?
My 9 yo is at practice that doesn’t end until 8:30 twice a week.

Most 4th graders are 9.

And yes my 9 year old goes to get at 8. If it is a practice or game night it might be 8:30. But I don’t change bedtime the other nights because of 1-2 sports nights per week. Our games and practices are 6-7:30. But we live in a county with early ES start times so it’s normal here for kids to go to sleep early.

No. Most THIRD graders are 9. Starting Oct 1 of 3rd grade is when (around here) they all start to turn 9. Only the absolute youngest kids will turn 9 in Sept of 4th grade.

Every single 4th grader who was not redshirted starts 4th grade at 9. Most 4th graders spend the first half to 3/4 of the school year at age 9. A few will have fall birthdays, but no more than 1/4 of the class.

Signed,
A 4th grade teacher

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Interesting responses, I never realized so many go to bed early at 8/8:15. We are finishing dinner and hw at that hour. Do you all SAH?

Due to birthday my 4th grader is 9 turning 10. 10pm bedtime.

8:00 doesn't seem early to me. Up until this year (my kids are 8 and 11), my kids were required to be upstairs by 8:00, in their beds by 8:30. DH and I both work full time out of the home. This is not a stay at home vs working parents thing.

No. It’s a “parents who have an orderly evening routine and parents who don’t” thing.

[Anonymous]

8:30

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those of you putting your 10 year old down at 8pm - do they not do sports?
My 9 yo is at practice that doesn’t end until 8:30 twice a week.

Most 4th graders are 9.

And yes my 9 year old goes to get at 8. If it is a practice or game night it might be 8:30. But I don’t change bedtime the other nights because of 1-2 sports nights per week. Our games and practices are 6-7:30. But we live in a county with early ES start times so it’s normal here for kids to go to sleep early.

No. Most THIRD graders are 9. Starting Oct 1 of 3rd grade is when (around here) they all start to turn 9. Only the absolute youngest kids will turn 9 in Sept of 4th grade.

Every single 4th grader who was not redshirted starts 4th grade at 9. Most 4th graders spend the first half to 3/4 of the school year at age 9. A few will have fall birthdays, but no more than 1/4 of the class.

Signed,

A 4th grade teacher

Except for those with birthdays that fall between the first day of school and the cut off date, which in our district is all September birthdays.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those of you putting your 10 year old down at 8pm - do they not do sports?
My 9 yo is at practice that doesn’t end until 8:30 twice a week.

Most 4th graders are 9.

And yes my 9 year old goes to get at 8. If it is a practice or game night it might be 8:30. But I don’t change bedtime the other nights because of 1-2 sports nights per week. Our games and practices are 6-7:30. But we live in a county with early ES start times so it’s normal here for kids to go to sleep early.

No. Most THIRD graders are 9. Starting Oct 1 of 3rd grade is when (around here) they all start to turn 9. Only the absolute youngest kids will turn 9 in Sept of 4th grade.

Every single 4th grader who was not redshirted starts 4th grade at 9. Most 4th graders spend the first half to 3/4 of the school year at age 9. A few will have fall birthdays, but no more than 1/4 of the class.

Signed,

A 4th grade teacher

Except for those with birthdays that fall between the first day of school and the cut off date, which in our district is all September birthdays.

Yep. Those kids are 8.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those of you putting your 10 year old down at 8pm - do they not do sports?
My 9 yo is at practice that doesn’t end until 8:30 twice a week.

Most 4th graders are 9.

And yes my 9 year old goes to get at 8. If it is a practice or game night it might be 8:30. But I don’t change bedtime the other nights because of 1-2 sports nights per week. Our games and practices are 6-7:30. But we live in a county with early ES start times so it’s normal here for kids to go to sleep early.

No. Most THIRD graders are 9. Starting Oct 1 of 3rd grade is when (around here) they all start to turn 9. Only the absolute youngest kids will turn 9 in Sept of 4th grade.

Every single 4th grader who was not redshirted starts 4th grade at 9. Most 4th graders spend the first half to 3/4 of the school year at age 9. A few will have fall birthdays, but no more than 1/4 of the class.

Signed,
A 4th grade teacher

Sign my ass first