Who cheats more: men or women?

Anonymous
Is looking at sexual content on onlyfans cheating?
Anonymous
It's probably somewhat equal but men would cheat far more if they could and especially if they could get away with it. Men are as faithful as their non-needy options
Anonymous
The rates are most likely about equal in the US nowadays. For whatever reasons, one hears about male cheating more. But for women who aren’t reliant financially on a man, they have the same driver reasons to cheat as the traditional man.
Anonymous
Well, I think it's worse when a woman cheats, especially if she is married. So far I've known two women who cheated on their spouses. Both our aunts. One woman cheated a lot with a lot of different races. Different ages different everything and then left the spouse and went to another country. The other is still with the spouse but she has cheated for the past 20 years with the same man. And a man I'm talking to just casually says he has cheated on his wife before he his ex-wife with a married woman who didn't want to use protection with him. She let him put it everywhere.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is interesting:

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america#:~:text=also%20means%20infidelity.-,In%20general%2C%20men%20are%20more%20likely%20than%20women%20to%20cheat,gender%20gap%20varies%20by%20age.

Basically it says women are more likely to cheat than men from ages 18-29. Then men are more likely.

Which makes sense since women basically lose their physical appeal once they hit their 30s whereas men are more likely to age well (beer bellies and bald fellas notwithstanding).


I like bald fellas. Beer belly, not so much. But hair?? so not caring.

Women COULD cheat more because they are SMARTER than men. Who gets caught far more often? MEN. Is this because women are so good at catching their husbands cheating, or because the cheating wives are so good at hiding it? Or because men are bad at hiding their affairs and men are so oblivious to problems that they don't even notice their wives are cheating? So many options.

But I don't think women cheat more often.

Lol. Men get caught more because eventually the other woman goes batshit crazy when he won't leave his wife and she blows up his world. Men do not do that


Men get caught more because they're careless. I'm stunned at how sloppy they are when they cheat. I'm not sure if they want to get caught or if they think nothing will ever go wrong for them.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is interesting:

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america#:~:text=also%20means%20infidelity.-,In%20general%2C%20men%20are%20more%20likely%20than%20women%20to%20cheat,gender%20gap%20varies%20by%20age.

Basically it says women are more likely to cheat than men from ages 18-29. Then men are more likely.

Which makes sense since women basically lose their physical appeal once they hit their 30s whereas men are more likely to age well (beer bellies and bald fellas notwithstanding).


I like bald fellas. Beer belly, not so much. But hair?? so not caring.

Women COULD cheat more because they are SMARTER than men. Who gets caught far more often? MEN. Is this because women are so good at catching their husbands cheating, or because the cheating wives are so good at hiding it? Or because men are bad at hiding their affairs and men are so oblivious to problems that they don't even notice their wives are cheating? So many options.

But I don't think women cheat more often.

Lol. Men get caught more because eventually the other woman goes batshit crazy when he won't leave his wife and she blows up his world. Men do not do that


Men get caught more because they're careless. I'm stunned at how sloppy they are when they cheat. I'm not sure if they want to get caught or if they think nothing will ever go wrong for them.


That's interesting because the men I know who cheated didn't even use a burner phone. They just used a regular phone which is the reason many get caught
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Well, I think it's worse when a woman cheats, especially if she is married. So far I've known two women who cheated on their spouses. Both our aunts. One woman cheated a lot with a lot of different races. Different ages different everything and then left the spouse and went to another country. The other is still with the spouse but she has cheated for the past 20 years with the same man. And a man I'm talking to just casually says he has cheated on his wife before he his ex-wife with a married woman who didn't want to use protection with him. She let him put it everywhere.


Guy I know at work recently divorced his wife of 20-some, two kids in college because he found out she had been meeting and banging married men she met online for the past 7 years or more. Real sneaky ho apparently.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I say both do it equally with one-major difference: men have physical affairs, while women have emotional affairs.

I’ve seen way too married women regularly flirt with their male co-workers, friends, doctors, passersby, etc.,

But a man will usually only have a a singular women or two on the side when he decides to be unfaithful.

Now, I do think sleeping with someone is significantly worse than an emotional affair, but it is still cheating.


Seeing women “flirt” is not an emotional affair.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Well, I think it's worse when a woman cheats, especially if she is married. So far I've known two women who cheated on their spouses. Both our aunts. One woman cheated a lot with a lot of different races. Different ages different everything and then left the spouse and went to another country. The other is still with the spouse but she has cheated for the past 20 years with the same man. And a man I'm talking to just casually says he has cheated on his wife before he his ex-wife with a married woman who didn't want to use protection with him. She let him put it everywhere.


Why is it worse if a woman cheats? Makes zero sense.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Your statement has a major logical lapse. Assuming nearly equal numbers of men and women, there are significant numbers of men having emotional affairs and significant numbers of women having physical affairs. Those people having affairs need partners of the opposite sex in most cases.


The AP is not always married or in a relationship so where's the major logical lapse?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I say both do it equally with one-major difference: men have physical affairs, while women have emotional affairs.

I’ve seen way too married women regularly flirt with their male co-workers, friends, doctors, passersby, etc.,

But a man will usually only have a a singular women or two on the side when he decides to be unfaithful.

Now, I do think sleeping with someone is significantly worse than an emotional affair, but it is still cheating.


Cool post OP, thank you!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:There is no emotional affair it’s called friendship in the older times.
It’s like being pregnant you either are or you are not.


Only emotional affairs often include sharing intimate details about your life (and spouse) and phone sex. When you're taking away time from your marriage to engage w/someone else of the opposite sex on a frequent basis, it's a problem. It's not just a "friendship."
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Well, I think it's worse when a woman cheats, especially if she is married.


I’d say the opposite. From what little I infer from cheating I know about, women don’t have to put in much effort to cheat and men have to work at it. The sin of commission is worse for men.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well, I think it's worse when a woman cheats, especially if she is married. So far I've known two women who cheated on their spouses. Both our aunts. One woman cheated a lot with a lot of different races. Different ages different everything and then left the spouse and went to another country. The other is still with the spouse but she has cheated for the past 20 years with the same man. And a man I'm talking to just casually says he has cheated on his wife before he his ex-wife with a married woman who didn't want to use protection with him. She let him put it everywhere.


Why is it worse if a woman cheats? Makes zero sense.


Well if a married woman with kids is out banging men from old she's not giving that nurturing maternal love a child needs. She's ignoring the kids. Most likely the kids probably already call her by her first name than mom.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Well, I think it's worse when a woman cheats, especially if she is married.


I’d say the opposite. From what little I infer from cheating I know about, women don’t have to put in much effort to cheat and men have to work at it. The sin of commission is worse for men.


I meant what she gives up (kids and family) she's not being a mom she's being a hoe and probably kissing the kids after a rando from old came in her mouth or whatnot.
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