Who cheats more: men or women?

Anonymous
Women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your statement has a major logical lapse. Assuming nearly equal numbers of men and women, there are significant numbers of men having emotional affairs and significant numbers of women having physical affairs. Those people having affairs need partners of the opposite sex in most cases.


No, because to the "cheating" part means that you are married, not single. So a married man can be cheating with a single woman, who wouldn't be cheating.


Plus, a meaningful portion of married men might be cheating with unmarried sex workers rather than married women.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your statement has a major logical lapse. Assuming nearly equal numbers of men and women, there are significant numbers of men having emotional affairs and significant numbers of women having physical affairs. Those people having affairs need partners of the opposite sex in most cases.


No, because to the "cheating" part means that you are married, not single. So a married man can be cheating with a single woman, who wouldn't be cheating.


Plus, a meaningful portion of married men might be cheating with unmarried sex workers rather than married women.


Call me old fashioned but sleeping with prostitutes isnt cheating.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your statement has a major logical lapse. Assuming nearly equal numbers of men and women, there are significant numbers of men having emotional affairs and significant numbers of women having physical affairs. Those people having affairs need partners of the opposite sex in most cases.


No, because to the "cheating" part means that you are married, not single. So a married man can be cheating with a single woman, who wouldn't be cheating.


Plus, a meaningful portion of married men might be cheating with unmarried sex workers rather than married women.


Call me old fashioned but sleeping with prostitutes isnt cheating.


LMAO. If not a joke, my friends and I would universally divorce you for this - you're cheating under any definition, bringing home STDs, and you're wasting marital property to cheat.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is interesting:

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america#:~:text=also%20means%20infidelity.-,In%20general%2C%20men%20are%20more%20likely%20than%20women%20to%20cheat,gender%20gap%20varies%20by%20age.

Basically it says women are more likely to cheat than men from ages 18-29. Then men are more likely.

Which makes sense since women basically lose their physical appeal once they hit their 30s whereas men are more likely to age well (beer bellies and bald fellas notwithstanding).


I like bald fellas. Beer belly, not so much. But hair?? so not caring.

Women COULD cheat more because they are SMARTER than men. Who gets caught far more often? MEN. Is this because women are so good at catching their husbands cheating, or because the cheating wives are so good at hiding it? Or because men are bad at hiding their affairs and men are so oblivious to problems that they don't even notice their wives are cheating? So many options.

But I don't think women cheat more often.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your statement has a major logical lapse. Assuming nearly equal numbers of men and women, there are significant numbers of men having emotional affairs and significant numbers of women having physical affairs. Those people having affairs need partners of the opposite sex in most cases.


No, because to the "cheating" part means that you are married, not single. So a married man can be cheating with a single woman, who wouldn't be cheating.


Plus, a meaningful portion of married men might be cheating with unmarried sex workers rather than married women.


Call me old fashioned but sleeping with prostitutes isnt cheating.

What is it then? an emotional affair?? LOL. It's cheating!!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Since it takes two to tango, at the most basic level it’s equal.


Not unless all of the women and men who cheat are married. Some APs are single, and from what I've seen on TV, married men like to hook up with unmarried younger women. More men affair with unmarried partners than women do.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is interesting:

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america#:~:text=also%20means%20infidelity.-,In%20general%2C%20men%20are%20more%20likely%20than%20women%20to%20cheat,gender%20gap%20varies%20by%20age.

Basically it says women are more likely to cheat than men from ages 18-29. Then men are more likely.

Which makes sense since women basically lose their physical appeal once they hit their 30s whereas men are more likely to age well (beer bellies and bald fellas notwithstanding).


I like bald fellas. Beer belly, not so much. But hair?? so not caring.

Women COULD cheat more because they are SMARTER than men. Who gets caught far more often? MEN. Is this because women are so good at catching their husbands cheating, or because the cheating wives are so good at hiding it? Or because men are bad at hiding their affairs and men are so oblivious to problems that they don't even notice their wives are cheating? So many options.

But I don't think women cheat more often.

Lol. Men get caught more because eventually the other woman goes batshit crazy when he won't leave his wife and she blows up his world. Men do not do that
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:This is interesting:

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america#:~:text=also%20means%20infidelity.-,In%20general%2C%20men%20are%20more%20likely%20than%20women%20to%20cheat,gender%20gap%20varies%20by%20age.

Basically it says women are more likely to cheat than men from ages 18-29. Then men are more likely.

Which makes sense since women basically lose their physical appeal once they hit their 30s whereas men are more likely to age well (beer bellies and bald fellas notwithstanding).


I like bald fellas. Beer belly, not so much. But hair?? so not caring.

Women COULD cheat more because they are SMARTER than men. Who gets caught far more often? MEN. Is this because women are so good at catching their husbands cheating, or because the cheating wives are so good at hiding it? Or because men are bad at hiding their affairs and men are so oblivious to problems that they don't even notice their wives are cheating? So many options.

But I don't think women cheat more often.


Nah women are just more practiced at being devious
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Women because it's easier for them. All things being equal, even an average women can get a man to have sex with her. It's the opposite for an average man.


+100

3 middle aged divorces I know of in the past 3 years- the woman was a cheater. They are using apps too.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Studies show they cheat at nearly identical rates. Studies of men and women currently in their 20s show that women are cheating more than men. The popularity of DNA home testing kits are showing women cheat at a higher level than previously believed. Cheating is not a gender issue, it's a personality issue


It’s a mental issue.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your statement has a major logical lapse. Assuming nearly equal numbers of men and women, there are significant numbers of men having emotional affairs and significant numbers of women having physical affairs. Those people having affairs need partners of the opposite sex in most cases.


Bingo. It’s like the myth that on average, women have fewer sexual partners than men.

That’s not how math works.


It might be a myth, but not because of math. One woman could be having sex with hundreds of men or vice versa.

Math major here. The only way the average woman has fewer partners than the average man is if homosexual men have more partners than homosexual women (which might very well be true - I'm not making a claim either way here). Assuming the total population is X men and X women, every new heterosexual partnership adds 1/X to the average for both men and women.


How far did you get with math? It’s very possible for the median woman to have fewer partners than the median man even if the arithmetic average is equal. To use the arithmetic average to represent the typical man or woman is very inaccurate if the distribution of partners is skewed and skewed in different ways for men and women; median or mode is best to represent a typical individual of either sex.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Studies show they cheat at nearly identical rates. Studies of men and women currently in their 20s show that women are cheating more than men. The popularity of DNA home testing kits are showing women cheat at a higher level than previously believed. Cheating is not a gender issue, it's a personality issue


It’s a mental issue.


Agreed but what type of one?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Your statement has a major logical lapse. Assuming nearly equal numbers of men and women, there are significant numbers of men having emotional affairs and significant numbers of women having physical affairs. Those people having affairs need partners of the opposite sex in most cases.


No, because to the "cheating" part means that you are married, not single. So a married man can be cheating with a single woman, who wouldn't be cheating.


Plus, a meaningful portion of married men might be cheating with unmarried sex workers rather than married women.


Call me old fashioned but sleeping with prostitutes isnt cheating.


LMAO. If not a joke, my friends and I would universally divorce you for this - you're cheating under any definition, bringing home STDs, and you're wasting marital property to cheat.


What about strippers? Cheating? Porn? Cheating?
Anonymous
I think both cheat about equally. However women may tend to justify their cheating more than men. Women often have a disarming argument namely the lack of emotional support to justify their cheating. Men cannot claim that because we can suppress our emotions and be just fine.

Hey I may be wrong and I am sure women will say I am 100% wrong. Just my opinion
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