Is it worse to lie about your age or how many people you slept with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Age is verifiable, number of sex partners is not. Age is public knowledge, number of sex partners is not.

Lying about age seems pretty stupid. I could clear that up with an online search. Lying about sexual partners is more like discretion. Don't ask, don't tell. If it matters to you very much, whether 0 or some perfect number, you are judgmental, controlling. You'll end up ruining any good thing that comes your way.

Red Flag: Asking for your "number"

Online lists me as some years older than I am. I'm a woman.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:People can find out about you age. No one will ever truly know how many sex partners you have except you.

In Best in Show, Cookie Fleck's husband sure found out as the weekend unfolded.

[Anonymous]

Also FYI. Most immigrants especially from Vietnam far as I know lower their legal age before coming to the US

[Anonymous]

My DH also did not want to know my body count. Doesn’t matter to him. We went to college together though so he is definitely aware of a few.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Age is verifiable, number of sex partners is not. Age is public knowledge, number of sex partners is not.

Lying about age seems pretty stupid. I could clear that up with an online search. Lying about sexual partners is more like discretion. Don't ask, don't tell. If it matters to you very much, whether 0 or some perfect number, you are judgmental, controlling. You'll end up ruining any good thing that comes your way.

Red Flag: Asking for your "number"

Online lists me as some years older than I am. I'm a woman.

This is like someone chiming in to say they don’t count back door in their body count. It’s a random outlier than means nothing.

[Anonymous]

I know my age and never lie about it but I don’t know the number of guys I slept with. I’ve been married 35 years so my dating years is a real blur. I had a pretty wild life in the early 80s and I’ve done my best to forget a lot of it. My husband has never asked me about it though he knew two of the guys and I’m sure he would guess there were more. If he knew the real number I know he would be very surprised.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Don’t lie about your age your partner will see your ID eventually. Lie about the partners because you can get away with it if there’s no video

I mean if the person has already done this and that sexual act before you it pretty much says it all. What do yall think about certain cultures who do care about the number of partners? That would be almost every non white American probably.

I think it’s stupid and unrealistic. I saw a video of a man sleeping with a goat. Sure he would’ve rather had a girlfriend. Don’t know of any women from those cultures here who have sought to marry men from their home countries. Most of them that I know from the really sexually strict countries are married to American men or Latinos

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don’t lie about your age your partner will see your ID eventually. Lie about the partners because you can get away with it if there’s no video

I mean if the person has already done this and that sexual act before you it pretty much says it all. What do yall think about certain cultures who do care about the number of partners? That would be almost every non white American probably.

I think it’s stupid and unrealistic. I saw a video of a man sleeping with a goat. Sure he would’ve rather had a girlfriend. Don’t know of any women from those cultures here who have sought to marry men from their home countries. Most of them that I know from the really sexually strict countries are married to American men or Latinos

Uhh you do know that Latino men can show machismo too? Also wtf are you watching perv

[Anonymous]

Lying is shite. There are no "good lies" or safe lies. You either have integrity or you don't.

[Anonymous]

It may not be relevant to you, but it is very relevant to the majority of men searching for a partner.

No, it is not. I was married a long time. Our numbers never came up with him or any other man. (It was low).

I have never asked a man either.

It is irrelevant. Free of STDs is relevant. Not the number. It takes only one person to get an STD.

First, you are not a man, and your experience with them appears to be based on your experience with your ex-husband. He might not have carried about your numbers because he was/is a cuck, and it was not relevant to him.

Who cares if you ever asked a man about his body count? The statement you copied concerns men caring about a woman's body count. You need to understand what you read before posting.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

It may not be relevant to you, but it is very relevant to the majority of men searching for a partner.

No, it is not. I was married a long time. Our numbers never came up with him or any other man. (It was low).

I have never asked a man either.

It is irrelevant. Free of STDs is relevant. Not the number. It takes only one person to get an STD.

First, you are not a man, and your experience with them appears to be based on your experience with your ex-husband. He might not have carried about your numbers because he was/is a cuck, and it was not relevant to him.

Who cares if you ever asked a man about his body count? The statement you copied concerns men caring about a woman's body count. You need to understand what you read before posting.

DP.Me and all my male serious partners, including my husband, have high counts which hasn't been a secret to any of us.

I'm aware that some men care, I just don't think it's my job to keep my count low to avoid offending some dude.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Depends. If she's 17 but says she's 22 that's a big problem. If she says she's a virgin but she actually a tramp carrying around undetectable fertility-compromising STDs and she's now been there done that and bored with sex, then also a problem.

If she's 42 but says she's 35 at first, who cares.

Always going to care about the body count, though.

This isn’t any of your business.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:People can find out about you age. No one will ever truly know how many sex partners you have except you.

If you're together years eventually they will know

How? Please explain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Don’t lie about your age your partner will see your ID eventually. Lie about the partners because you can get away with it if there’s no video

I mean if the person has already done this and that sexual act before you it pretty much says it all. What do yall think about certain cultures who do care about the number of partners? That would be almost every non white American probably.

Any man who cares about this is an insecure lover, and therefore unqualified to be with me.

[Anonymous]

DP.Me and all my male serious partners, including my husband, have high counts which hasn't been a secret to any of us.

I'm aware that some men care, I just don't think it's my job to keep my count low to avoid offending some dude.

It is way more than "some men" who care.

What job do you have that made your body count high?