Is it worse to lie about your age or how many people you slept with?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Maybe you should learn to ask questions in a way that they're relevant to the topic at hand. Your question doesn't make any sense given the context within i used the word "job".

Your imagination and lack of writing ability are limiting you.

In your reply, you took the word "job" to mean "employment," when in your original post, you used it to mean "a goal" (e.g., It is not my goal to keep my body count low when...). Using the word "job" as a synonym for goal, when asked what your job is (if it is not keeping your body count low), you could have responded with: my job is 1) finding a partner to care about, 2) enjoying life, or 3) simply loving men.

The way I used the word "job" in my reply allowed you to respond in kind. Do not do us both a disservice by responding that you did not have time to think about it. You took all the time you needed to respond, but you just did not do as thorough a job as you could have.

I didn't use the word "job" to mean "goal", i used it ti mean "assigned task" and no, your answer did not make sense.

And no, I don't usually take much time to respond because I have other things to do.

[Anonymous]

What if they are one and the same?

[Anonymous]

I didn't use the word "job" to mean "goal", i used it ti mean "assigned task" and no, your answer did not make sense.

And no, I don't usually take much time to respond because I have other things to do.

Please calm down. First, you do not have much else to do because you are on this board now.

Next, what did you mean when you wrote "i used it ti mean"? You look stupid by writing that my answer did not make sense when you have so many typos.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I'm not the one expecting women to save themselves for men.

No one is expecting anything. However, it would be nice if women (and men) focused on sex as something unique only to be shared with someone they loved.

It would also be nice if someone gave me 100k, but life is unfair.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I didn't use the word "job" to mean "goal", i used it ti mean "assigned task" and no, your answer did not make sense.

And no, I don't usually take much time to respond because I have other things to do.

Please calm down. First, you do not have much else to do because you are on this board now.

Next, what did you mean when you wrote "i used it ti mean"? You look stupid by writing that my answer did not make sense when you have so many typos.

DP. i'm not the person you're replying to, but I understood whar they meant. You're just bored and going after their typos because you can't seem to be able to let go the fact that it shouldn't be anybody's responsibility to keep their count at a number that you find acceptable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I'm not the one expecting women to save themselves for men.

No one is expecting anything. However, it would be nice if women (and men) focused on sex as something unique only to be shared with someone they loved.

Or … communicated how they felt about the people they are with. It seems that - unless you are trying to control a woman’s sexuality - what you may be upset about is that you may be confusing her attraction / desire for you with love for you. And perhaps she also lying to you. Yet if we’re honest with ourselves and each other and communicate about our hearts as well as our bodies, we’d all be better off, yes?

[Anonymous]

How many people I've slept with is no one's business but mine and I don't lie about my age. My weight is a different issue!

[Anonymous]

It would also be nice if someone gave me 100k, but life is unfair.

What a stupid thing to say.

How would someone giving you $100K make life fair?

[Anonymous]

DP. i'm not the person you're replying to, but I understood whar they meant. You're just bored and going after their typos because you can't seem to be able to let go the fact that it shouldn't be anybody's responsibility to keep their count at a number that you find acceptable.

Please explain whar they meant.

Even better, rewrite your post so that you can explain what you mean.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

DP. i'm not the person you're replying to, but I understood whar they meant. You're just bored and going after their typos because you can't seem to be able to let go the fact that it shouldn't be anybody's responsibility to keep their count at a number that you find acceptable.

Please explain whar they meant.

Even better, rewrite your post so that you can explain what you mean.

Everyone knows I meant "what". Stop playing dumb and derailing the conversation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Good men don’t ask or care.

They do both. If you have had sex with a lot of men, own it. But do not act like it does not matter.

Having sex with someone is the most intimate act two people can share. A woman shows a man how much value she places on herself, the relationship, and the man when she sleeps with him.

How can a woman tell a man he is "special" to her when she has shared herself with 30, 40, or 50 other men?

You’re not special. You’re not the biggest or the best. And that terrifies you. Sad little man.

[Anonymous]

I’m 50, I’ve slept with 8 men, 3 women and I have amazing cheekbones!

[Anonymous]

Everyone knows I meant "what". Stop playing dumb and derailing the conversation.

Everyone knows you cannot type. Stop writing dumb things and start understanding the conversation.

[Anonymous]

You’re not special. You’re not the biggest or the best. And that terrifies you. Sad little man.

I am not sad. I am disappointed in you. How many men is it, honey? 50 seems low based on how easily you get upset on this thread.

You would have great input regarding who is the biggest, given that you have likely seen more than my urologist.

What made you share yourself so easily? Daddy did not love you enough? Did your first boyfriend break your heart? I see you, looking for love but unable to find it. So you settle for whoever fits the bill (at that moment) on OLD.

[Anonymous]

I’m 50, I’ve slept with 8 men, 3 women and I have amazing cheekbones!

I would love to hear your story, and I bet more than your cheekbones are amazing.