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There's got to be another private school that will take your child and graduate them.
You're clearly rich, so start using your checkbook to do the talking. I'd also tell your kid to accept admission at one of his EA's and pay the deposit ASAP. |
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Go and read the applications that your child submitted. There may be specific language on updates. I would think that being proactive is your best approach - but you might want counsel from an private admissions counselor
Test it out - reach out to one of the EA schools that is not a top choice. Share that your child needs to move school for the last semseter and ask what information they need. Use this as a test to figure out how the admissions office will approach |
| What if the offense was shoplifting ? |
What did he do? |
Then hopefully he was accepted at Oberlin. |
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Recommend accepting admissions asap.
Also, honestly, the school is letting you spin this as you wish. You live abroad. Seems reasonable that there could be a family emergency that requires DS to move back to wherever you are and enroll online. Too late to get into a new in person school. I say that not knowing what happened with your kid and how awful they are for whatever it is they got kicked out for. |
Yes it says that everywhere on every application! |
Is he living with you? Say that you wanted him home for a few months before he left for college. I mean, there are other reasons this could happen like an illness or something. I would ask for help from he counselor even if he was requested to leave. |
Parent of a boarding school kid and this is not true at all. DC's school is strict and seems to like making examples of 17/18 year old kids who made a mistake. There have been a couple of seniors who have been asked to withdraw like OP's this year and every year we have been there. |
EU protections do not govern U.S. universities.
I vaguely recall Harvard rescinding acceptances of students who participated in a racist group chat. But I never hear about students sending proof of graduation. It would have been quite possible for me to get my Ph.D. without finishing any prior degrees. Colleges can pretty much do whatever they want. But realistically, it is a large administration. There is a big chance that some secretary rubber-stamps the final documents in the summer. If they inquire, I would say that there were family issues; the student withdrew, returned home, and transferred schools while applying to European colleges. |
Give an example please. What did a kid do that made them have to withdraw. |
Example 1. Vaping 2nd offense is one 4.0 unweighted GPA student with multiple leadership roles in EC's. Example 2. Group of seniors got caught skipping class. One lied about who else was with them to protect their GF/BF. School disciplined all the kids. Kicked out /forced withdrawal the one who lied to protect their GF/BF and suspended the one who suggested the kid lie. The one who was suspended for suggesting the first kid lie also has this on their permanent record that will go to colleges. |
What kind of “mistake?” I highly doubt OP’s kid was asked to withdraw because he accidentally wore navy socks instead of black. |
So, very valid reasons. No college should want a student with substance abuse problems or a liar. |
See first post above yours with 2 recent examples at DC's school. I am not OP and have no reason to believe her DC is at the same school as these examples were both from before Thanksgiving and with US based students. |