How do you feel about tall and skinny men?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hot. Men think women want chunky men for some reason. The reality is slimness is attractive, as much for men as for women. I'd compare an extremely muscular man to a woman who has large breast implants and a huge ass and is very much an hourglass figure. Yes, that can be attractive in a way, but lots of men probably prefer the effortlessness of the naturally slim woman. For men, excess fat is almost always a huge negative- it serves literally no benefit. It's not like women want bigger breasts, hips or butts on men. So keep lean and dont even worry about it

I have a natural hourglass figure- “huge” breasts and a comparable bottom. Believe me, there was no effort on my part involved at all and it is not what I would choose from Mother Nature. But here we are. And men won’t ever leave me alone for it. Not as fun as you would imagine.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hot. Men think women want chunky men for some reason. The reality is slimness is attractive, as much for men as for women. I'd compare an extremely muscular man to a woman who has large breast implants and a huge ass and is very much an hourglass figure. Yes, that can be attractive in a way, but lots of men probably prefer the effortlessness of the naturally slim woman. For men, excess fat is almost always a huge negative- it serves literally no benefit. It's not like women want bigger breasts, hips or butts on men. So keep lean and dont even worry about it

For lots of men, some excess fat is a positive. For a fair fraction of men, even a lot of excess fat isn’t a huge negative. Especially when it’s distributed in an hourglass figure, then there’s no practical maximum excess weight!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hot. Men think women want chunky men for some reason. The reality is slimness is attractive, as much for men as for women. I'd compare an extremely muscular man to a woman who has large breast implants and a huge ass and is very much an hourglass figure. Yes, that can be attractive in a way, but lots of men probably prefer the effortlessness of the naturally slim woman. For men, excess fat is almost always a huge negative- it serves literally no benefit. It's not like women want bigger breasts, hips or butts on men. So keep lean and dont even worry about it

For lots of men, some excess fat is a positive. For a fair fraction of men, even a lot of excess fat isn’t a huge negative. Especially when it’s distributed in an hourglass figure, then there’s no practical maximum excess weight!

Right... for men who are interested in women! They love an hourglass figure on women, but the same cannot be said for straight women towards men. 99.99% of women dont want a man with a big butt or manboobs. Excess fat advantages men absolutely zero, unlike the way it can sometimes help women. That's the point!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced and ready to hit the dating market. I am 46, I am not a bad looking guy, but I am extremely skinny 6’0 and 140 lbs. I lift weight regularly, very athletic (former fencer). I got married very young at 21 to my high school sweetheart and she is the only women I have ever been with. So I have never had to really worry about how I look but now that I am single and looking I am insecure about this. Yes I know as a man I should be confident etc but I am also a human conscious of my own insecurities.

So how do you ladies feel about tall and skinny but otherwise good looking guy?

I am a big girl so I like bigger men. However, my friend's husband is the same height/weight as you. She is much shorter and overweight and she thinks he is so hot. In other words, some women will be attracted and some won't. But everyone has this issue about something--weight, hair color, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced and ready to hit the dating market. I am 46, I am not a bad looking guy, but I am extremely skinny 6’0 and 140 lbs. I lift weight regularly, very athletic (former fencer). I got married very young at 21 to my high school sweetheart and she is the only women I have ever been with. So I have never had to really worry about how I look but now that I am single and looking I am insecure about this. Yes I know as a man I should be confident etc but I am also a human conscious of my own insecurities.

So how do you ladies feel about tall and skinny but otherwise good looking guy?

I once had a bf who was taller than you but about the same high. He had the biggest penis though lol

Yeah, word on the street is that tall and skinny men are packing!

[Anonymous]

I find skinny body types the most attractive, but I would not call 6ft flat tall at all!

[Anonymous]

I'm married to one but remember ladies the taller ones have shorter life span.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced and ready to hit the dating market. I am 46, I am not a bad looking guy, but I am extremely skinny 6’0 and 140 lbs. I lift weight regularly, very athletic (former fencer). I got married very young at 21 to my high school sweetheart and she is the only women I have ever been with. So I have never had to really worry about how I look but now that I am single and looking I am insecure about this. Yes I know as a man I should be confident etc but I am also a human conscious of my own insecurities.

So how do you ladies feel about tall and skinny but otherwise good looking guy?

Plenty of women will find you physically attractive or at least acceptable. Don’t worry too much about what you can’t control anyway. I don’t want to give you something to worry about, but the thing you *can* control is how you act. You’ll be coming on a dating market in an app-dominated era and you have basically no experience in this and no dating history to back you up. It’s worth focusing on learning about what it’s like dating today so you can navigate these treacherous waters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced and ready to hit the dating market. I am 46, I am not a bad looking guy, but I am extremely skinny 6’0 and 140 lbs. I lift weight regularly, very athletic (former fencer). I got married very young at 21 to my high school sweetheart and she is the only women I have ever been with. So I have never had to really worry about how I look but now that I am single and looking I am insecure about this. Yes I know as a man I should be confident etc but I am also a human conscious of my own insecurities.

So how do you ladies feel about tall and skinny but otherwise good looking guy?

I once had a bf who was taller than you but about the same high. He had the biggest penis though lol

This has been my experience with tall/skinny guys too.

[Anonymous]

It’s ultimately more about personality at your age. Skinny, ok. But a douchebag is a douchebag no matter the size.

[Anonymous]

I like it but my "type" is sort of the disheveled professor type. I might not click you on the apps though, but that's because I would assume you weren't into someone short and curvy. I would assume that you would assume I'm not sporty, even though I am.

But that's my damage, not yours.

[Anonymous]

Love ‘em! Assuming it fits with your overall vibe, of course.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I like it but my "type" is sort of the disheveled professor type. I might not click you on the apps though, but that's because I would assume you weren't into someone short and curvy. I would assume that you would assume I'm not sporty, even though I am.

But that's my damage, not yours.

A LOT of men love short and curvy women- click on whoever strikes your fancy on the apps with confidence.

-short and curvy woman

[Anonymous]

Go an a bulk diet, not hard. Put on 20 lbs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s ultimately more about personality at your age. Skinny, ok. But a douchebag is a douchebag no matter the size.

+1

Op I love lanky tall men. I’m short and slim.