How do you feel about tall and skinny men?

Anonymous
I’m divorced and ready to hit the dating market. I am 46, I am not a bad looking guy, but I am extremely skinny 6’0 and 140 lbs. I lift weight regularly, very athletic (former fencer). I got married very young at 21 to my high school sweetheart and she is the only women I have ever been with. So I have never had to really worry about how I look but now that I am single and looking I am insecure about this. Yes I know as a man I should be confident etc but I am also a human conscious of my own insecurities.

So how do you ladies feel about tall and skinny but otherwise good looking guy?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced and ready to hit the dating market. I am 46, I am not a bad looking guy, but I am extremely skinny 6’0 and 140 lbs. I lift weight regularly, very athletic (former fencer). I got married very young at 21 to my high school sweetheart and she is the only women I have ever been with. So I have never had to really worry about how I look but now that I am single and looking I am insecure about this. Yes I know as a man I should be confident etc but I am also a human conscious of my own insecurities.

So how do you ladies feel about tall and skinny but otherwise good looking guy?


I once had a bf who was taller than you but about the same high. He had the biggest penis though lol
Anonymous
Oh man that’s a tough one because you will probably weigh less than 90% of the women you will go on date with. How do women feel about a guy who way less than them I don’t know lol? I’m a 280 and the same hight as you and my wife is up there in weight as well. There are definitely not many men who weight less than 150 post 46. For some women it could be a turn off but if you have a good personality you can make for it. And since you probably don’t have a big belly like me lol some sexual positions will be satisfying with the ladies. Good luck
Anonymous
I like a tall skinny physique but really, intelligence and humor turn me on more.
Anonymous
Just make sure you don’t wear clothes that make you like a teenager. Don’t go for too tight and too loose. My younger brother is very skinny he is 5’11 145 with a 29 inch waist crazy
Anonymous
I like skinny in the sense of looking like a marathon runner. You sound fit and like my type, except I’m older and very married. I think you’ll do great. I do weigh more than my husband though. Not fat, but he’s a long distance runner and I am not.
Anonymous
Lol well the first thing any potential date will tell her girlfriends will be “he is so skinny but really a nice guy (assuming you are nice l)”. 99.9% of women will pick up on your weight and comment about it either to you and fe to her friends.

To be honest though depending on how your weight is distributed 6’0 140 is not skinny, thin yes. Skinny would be 6’0 and 120 lbs or less.

You will be fine but what do I know I am a fat guy
Anonymous
Congratulations on being fit at 46 assuming you don’t have serious health ailments. I’m jealous would love to be your weight.
Anonymous
Skinny and fit is fine. Skinny-skinny is not.

My husband is your height and 150. He’s a runner, biker, and rock climber so very fit. He just simply doesn’t gain any weight beyond this point. I am 5’8” and 150. I feel self conscious about it, but still think he’s hot
Anonymous
Buddy we are in the ozempic era soon everyone will be skinny like you
Anonymous
As long as you’re muscled, it’s great. Skinny fat is no good.
Anonymous
I once met a guy who described himself online as "athletic," so I was expecting a tall, lean surfer/runner/rock climber type. Imagine my disappointment when he turned up looking like a former football player gone to seed! Big fat paunch and all. Which would have been fine if he'd elaborated on "athletic."

I think you'll do fine.
Anonymous
Overweight women have similar insecurities but they do just fine. I have seen some fat women with some really gorgeous men.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Overweight women have similar insecurities but they do just fine. I have seen some fat women with some really gorgeous men.


Fat fetish maybe? Fat women are honestly just gross especially when have those huge hanging bellies
Anonymous
My husband is 5'7 and 130. I'm 5'0 and 115. When I was pregnant I outweighed him. He works out every day, and is extremely fit, very muscle-y, just smaller. I think if you are fit, kind, sweet, have a great job and earn a good salary, and good looking you will have absolutely no issues.
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