How do you feel about tall and skinny men?

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:As long as you’re muscled, it’s great. Skinny fat is no good.


Agree with this.
Anonymous
The height is a plus. Skinny not so much.

But I am not attracted to body builder/gym rat types.

To be honest, your personality and other characteristics (kindness, dependability, social skills) are much more important .
Anonymous
Sounds good to me. I’d much much much prefer skinny vs even mildly overweight (which most men in their 40s are). Moderately fit is more than fine. I am really turned off by fat/overweight.
Anonymous

Nothing. I like short men.

But I know a lot of women like tall men. And I've never heard of anyone disliking slenderness, in either gender. I think you're entirely normal. You outweigh both my husband and myself

Anonymous
You’re the same size an my husband. He looks great and is a runner. You’ll do well to find a fit woman who enjoys your sports. I’m also very athletic, shorter 5’4” and about 118. Everyone I’ve ever dated has been taller and heavier than me; although I think I’m “fatter” than DH. Neither of us care.
Anonymous
I like tall but do not like skinny. Or even thin. But that's just me. I'm sure there are many women who do like skinny men. There is no point in trying to appeal to all women, just be yourself.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Overweight women have similar insecurities but they do just fine. I have seen some fat women with some really gorgeous men.


Fat fetish maybe? Fat women are honestly just gross especially when have those huge hanging bellies


But those men with huge hanging bellies are so attractive, right?
Anonymous
I think slender men are attractive but that is too thin and I would try to plump you up with yummy homemade food lol.

At 40, a man’s appearance is not a dealbreaker for me unless I feel absolutely no chemistry with them.
Anonymous
It isn't my preference for a guy, but sometimes guys benefit more from the overall package vs just looks. That said, I know women who are into tall and thin men so I don't think you'll have issues finding someone.
Anonymous
It’s better than chubby / doughy! If you’re an athletic skinny you’re golden IMO
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I’m divorced and ready to hit the dating market. I am 46, I am not a bad looking guy, but I am extremely skinny 6’0 and 140 lbs. I lift weight regularly, very athletic (former fencer). I got married very young at 21 to my high school sweetheart and she is the only women I have ever been with. So I have never had to really worry about how I look but now that I am single and looking I am insecure about this. Yes I know as a man I should be confident etc but I am also a human conscious of my own insecurities.

So how do you ladies feel about tall and skinny but otherwise good looking guy?


I love tall and don't care about skinny but 6 foot nothing is...not tall.
Anonymous
I’d be cool with it!
Anonymous
better than short and fat!
Anonymous
Hot. Men think women want chunky men for some reason. The reality is slimness is attractive, as much for men as for women. I'd compare an extremely muscular man to a woman who has large breast implants and a huge ass and is very much an hourglass figure. Yes, that can be attractive in a way, but lots of men probably prefer the effortlessness of the naturally slim woman. For men, excess fat is almost always a huge negative- it serves literally no benefit. It's not like women want bigger breasts, hips or butts on men. So keep lean and dont even worry about it
Anonymous
It's so funny how men will be so ashamed and embarrassed of being skinny. It reminds me of women that are self conscious about having a big butt or whatever, not realizing that the other gender loves it. Why do men think women want roided out Joe Rogan looking freaks?! We dont!
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