Why is it so hard for young adults to find good partners?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is it so difficult for young adults to find suitable and sincere partners?

It isn't.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Our society skews to value individual goals. Young adults want what makes them happy without considering that the other person is also seeking to make only him/herself happy. Kids don't want to have to compromise or work WITH someone at life.

It’s not my child’s obligation to compromise their wishes for a relationship or settle down. Your post reads a little incel-y.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our society skews to value individual goals. Young adults want what makes them happy without considering that the other person is also seeking to make only him/herself happy. Kids don't want to have to compromise or work WITH someone at life.

It’s not my child’s obligation to compromise their wishes for a relationship or settle down. Your post reads a little incel-y.

I think you don't know what an incel is as well as you think you do

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Back when America was great, young people were in better shape and looked healthier plus fertility was much higher. The woke - psych drug culture has drained them of vitality. Or course there are exceptions but the overall group isn’t date-worthy using the standards of once great America.

The Opioid crisis mainly hit the poor, rural, population of White people.

[Anonymous]

White men are not going to college so they are basically not good partners.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our society skews to value individual goals. Young adults want what makes them happy without considering that the other person is also seeking to make only him/herself happy. Kids don't want to have to compromise or work WITH someone at life.

It’s not my child’s obligation to compromise their wishes for a relationship or settle down. Your post reads a little incel-y.

I think you don't know what an incel is as well as you think
you do

Complaining that no one will “work with you in life” aka date/marry you is pretty much textbook incel.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:White men are not going to college so they are basically not good partners.

lolwut

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:White men are not going to college so they are basically not good partners.

lolwut

Not PP but white men by and large aren’t attending college at the rates they used to. Many colleges are majority women.

And many women prefer to partner with a high-earning, college-educated male.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:White men are not going to college so they are basically not good partners.

lolwut

Not PP but white men by and large aren’t attending college at the rates they used to. Many colleges are majority women.

And many women prefer to partner with a high-earning, college-educated male.

Sucks for whiteboys, I guess?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:White men are not going to college so they are basically not good partners.

lolwut

Not PP but white men by and large aren’t attending college at the rates they used to. Many colleges are majority women.

And many women prefer to partner with a high-earning, college-educated male.

Sucks for whiteboys, I guess?

When colleges were majority male, did we say "sucks for whitegirls" or did we try to increase their participation in education?

Typical DCUM misandry.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The culture of instant gratification, the in-person awkwardness after so much screen time, the imbalanced male-female ratio at colleges, the idea that you have to have all the boxes checked before settling down, the decline of social pressure to get married and have children, the ideal of your partner being your all-in-one emotional, economic, physical soulmate...

+ 1 million It's unrealistic. And I'll add what many DCUM posters won't consider, but finding a loving partner who also has a strong faith in God and believes in the commitment to marriage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Our society skews to value individual goals. Young adults want what makes them happy without considering that the other person is also seeking to make only him/herself happy. Kids don't want to have to compromise or work WITH someone at life.

It’s not my child’s obligation to compromise their wishes for a relationship or settle down. Your post reads a little incel-y.

Perhaps your child may be happiest as a single person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Back when America was great, young people were in better shape and looked healthier plus fertility was much higher. The woke - psych drug culture has drained them of vitality. Or course there are exceptions but the overall group isn’t date-worthy using the standards of once great America.

Karen, its just that White boys need to go to college, be educated, be equal partners, be able to earn a good living, be less fat and not be InCel-y. Maybe try and raise better children?

[Anonymous]

People only attract people of their caliber to themselves.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Back when America was great, young people were in better shape and looked healthier plus fertility was much higher. The woke - psych drug culture has drained them of vitality. Or course there are exceptions but the overall group isn’t date-worthy using the standards of once great America.

Karen, its just that White boys need to go to college, be educated, be equal partners, be able to earn a good living, be less fat and not be InCel-y. Maybe try and raise better children?

Unironically yes.