Are you more, less, or equally as physically attractive as your husband?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We're both good looking, but different races--so some people will be attracted to me, others me. Relatively tall, thin, good skin, hair, nice smiles.

I used to be insecure in college when I dated men who were gorgeous. I didn't think that my looks were good enough because I was comparing myself to white European beauty standards. That attitude seriously sunk what might have been good relationships. I've since become more confident.

I'm not worried about "vultures." I'm attractive, and I make my own money. If DH had the audacity or stupidity to cheat, I also know I have my resources to gouge him if need be. But then again, DH would probably just give me everything I wanted in that case because he knows better than to put up that kind of fight. Hehe.

Oh honey, don't be so sure.

[Anonymous]

Does B.O., bad breath, and laziness count?

[Anonymous]

We're both average to above average but we think each other is beautiful, inside and out. Our child is freaking adorable (bi-racial) and is a perfect blend of the both of us. I can't wait to see what my husband will look like as an old man

[Anonymous]

He's much more attractive. But men hit on me more.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We're both good looking, but different races--so some people will be attracted to me, others me. Relatively tall, thin, good skin, hair, nice smiles.

I used to be insecure in college when I dated men who were gorgeous. I didn't think that my looks were good enough because I was comparing myself to white European beauty standards. That attitude seriously sunk what might have been good relationships. I've since become more confident.

I'm not worried about "vultures." I'm attractive, and I make my own money. If DH had the audacity or stupidity to cheat, I also know I have my resources to gouge him if need be. But then again, DH would probably just give me everything I wanted in that case because he knows better than to put up that kind of fight. Hehe.

Glad you have your insecurities beat. The ability to retaliate must be quite comforting as a deterrent to his infidelity.

[Anonymous]

Glad I don't have to care about my looks anymore now that I am married. He is average. I am above average. But he thinks we are the same. The physical is not important in our relationship and he has told me he would not care if I gained 50 pounds or even 100 if I were truly happy. We will never leave each other and I will never cheat on him so I am definitely letting myself go, still looking better than him all the while because he has continued to gain weight.

[Anonymous]

Why are you so secure that he'll never leave you that you don't have to worry about your looks anymore? What about self respect?

[Anonymous]

I was a beauty queen who was a veritable Henry Higgins, turning my hillbilly-piece-of-coal-college-boyfriend-now-husband into a diamond. He's now considered polished and debonair. I'm a fading beauty just desperately fighing the inevitable, affair or divorce, or both. Life is unfair.

[Anonymous]

When I met my hubby, I was in my prime and he was overweight and not very fashionable. Fast forward 10 years and 2 kids later and no sleep for me and he is in better shape now. He works out like crazy, has started dressing better and has a better hair style so I would say he looks like he takes care of himself where I have my moments.

[Anonymous]

I am gerogous and he is not!
Any more ?s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not sure but I know I have a much better personality. It's the fact that my husband is an ass that makes our marriage suffer.

OMG - Same here. Personality can either enhance attraction, or completely take it away. My husband is good lucking (not necessarily a hottie, but has the looks and body), but his personality sucks!! He is the most selfish asshole I know, so all my attraction to him is out the door.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We're both average to above average but we think each other is beautiful, inside and out. Our child is freaking adorable (bi-racial) and is a perfect blend of the both of us. I can't wait to see what my husband will look like as an old man

LOL, what did this have to do with anything?

[Anonymous]

My Dh is hot to me. He works out 6 times a week and has zero body fat. Age 41, more pepper than salt hair, beautiful eyes and a warm smile that still melts me. I have no idea if he's attractive to other women. Really.
But I, on the other hand, am beautiful. Honest to God, I'm the prettiest girl in the room 99% of the time. Not hottest/sexiest, but the prettiest.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I met my hubby, I was in my prime and he was overweight and not very fashionable. Fast forward 10 years and 2 kids later and no sleep for me and he is in better shape now. He works out like crazy, has started dressing better and has a better hair style so I would say he looks like he takes care of himself where I have my moments.

He's probably having an affair. Just sayin'.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My Dh is hot to me. He works out 6 times a week and has zero body fat. Age 41, more pepper than salt hair, beautiful eyes and a warm smile that still melts me. I have no idea if he's attractive to other women. Really.
But I, on the other hand, am beautiful. Honest to God, I'm the prettiest girl in the room 99% of the time. Not hottest/sexiest, but the prettiest.

You're modest too.