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Are you more, less, or equally as physically attractive as your husband?
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Anonymous
Try 12 mil in his account. |
Anonymous
I'm not mad at that! 
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Anonymous
| My husband is not attractive at all! I married him because I was so overweight,and didn't think I could do better. I moved to the DC area, and got hit on all the time by way more attractive men. DH told me the other night he thinks when people see us together they probably are wondering " what the hell does she see in him". I'm 5'10, and he is 5'7, I'm friendly and outgoing, he's an asshole who looks for a fight. |
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We started out about the same. But he's improved with age and will probably continue to do so. He's kept in shape, is very tall, and has a great head of hair.
Me, I'm not unattractive, but would love to get rid of this excess weight from two pregnancies. And I tend to eat when stressed/depressed, which has been frequent over the years. So for that, he comes out ahead. |
Anonymous
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We're both good looking (we've been stopped and told we should model while out together), but I'd say DH is a bit more good-looking than I am.
He also has one or two features that seem to attract a certain kind of woman (race-wise) more often than others. |
Anonymous
| I have a theory that people are generally more attractive either younger or older. Some women look great at 50 and not so great at 20 and vice-versa. I am definitely more attractive at 40 than I was at 20. That is partly due to life, happiness, self-confidence, but I also look about 32. My husband was, I think, more attractive when we met, but has gained a lot of weight. When we got together I think people would have said him, but today I think they would say me. But I think he is still super attractive and funny as anything. I am happy as can be! |
Anonymous
Does he have a brother? 
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Anonymous
This is us too - I mean, we're not awful-looking, and DH is probably (ok, definitely) more attractive than me, but our kids are super-cute and people are always commenting on them. Of course, maybe me and DH were cute when we were little and we grew out of it.
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Anonymous
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Both DH and I were quite ugly when we married.
Now, 20 years later, he has become a very powerful man in Washington. Women who would never have looked at him 20 years ago are doing everything they can to f@#k him. He's still physically ugly, by the way. As for me, I'm exponentially more attractive. A nose job and other work have been worthy investments. Men half my age are doing everything they can to f@#ck me. |
Anonymous
| The same but in totally different ways. He's tall, fit, has a full head of hair and makes a lot of money. There is no way in hell I'm letting my shit fall apart. The vultures are waiting. |
Anonymous
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That's a good point 22:07. I can literally smell the fear in my $$ Bethesda gym when I work out. It's palpable!
There are a few of us who are just like, hey, I'm only here for 1/2 an hour so I don't get even fatter than I already am. Mommy ate a tire. Most of the ladies at 11 a.m., though, have this crazed hyper focus that actually bears no relationship to their actual fitness level. I've actually heard a few wheedling their personal trainers when they don't realize others are listening. |
Anonymous
Get another one tomorrow. I can introduce you to one of my neighbors who is lightly handsome, has a little bit of an asshole and is single. |
Anonymous
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We're both good looking, but different races--so some people will be attracted to me, others me. Relatively tall, thin, good skin, hair, nice smiles.
I used to be insecure in college when I dated men who were gorgeous. I didn't think that my looks were good enough because I was comparing myself to white European beauty standards. That attitude seriously sunk what might have been good relationships. I've since become more confident. I'm not worried about "vultures." I'm attractive, and I make my own money. If DH had the audacity or stupidity to cheat, I also know I have my resources to gouge him if need be. But then again, DH would probably just give me everything I wanted in that case because he knows better than to put up that kind of fight. Hehe. |
Anonymous
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When we met, I'd say it was a tossup. Oh what the heck, I'd say my husband had the edge.
Now I have the edge, unless a woman really digs a prematurely grey haired guy, because I've stayed slim and he has a beer gut. It's not enough of a disparity to cause any problems, though. He still has chicks after him
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